A letter to suitors.
A letter to pursuers 1
Dear friends:
I'm sorry, maybe I'm going to disappoint you. I know that in your hearts you all just want me to be happy! Your love and affection make me feel that I am not so lonely, and also make me deeply feel what it means to be held in the palm of my hand. Maybe I am really happy, because I have your company and care all the way. I know that I have hurt too many people. Although others say that love is selfish, I still want to say "sorry" to those who have been hurt by me.
I cried silently after getting up this morning. Maybe I can't count how many times I shed tears, and I don't know why I shed tears. I only know that I am so tired. Every time I force myself to smile in front of everyone, I have to make up many reasons to make myself laugh. Kay ~ I haven't regretted breaking up with you, because I feel very happy and relaxed to get along with you as a friend now. This kind of feeling can't be felt before, so I'm glad that we are still such good friends after breaking up. I like this feeling of talking and laughing very much.
Just this morning, I made a decision for myself ~ ~ I don't want to choose any one as my boyfriend. . . . I want to give myself more space to stop thinking about my boyfriend for the time being, and I should live my own life. If you want to ask me why, then ask yourself first: Do you really love me, how important I am in your hearts, have you really cared about me, and what you have given me? . . Your love is in the wrong way, and you can't give me anything I want, so I will give myself what I want. My brain has exceeded the load I can bear. What you have brought me is not happiness, but injury, injury again and again. So please let go of your love for me ~ ~ ~ ~ to find your own happiness, and I will really bless you with a smile. In my heart, I will still treat you as friends. If you choose not to be friends, I will not be forced. Don't blame me for being heartless. I just want to return to my original self. Maybe my decision is really selfish, but I don't want to explain anything for myself. I think my family and friends also want me to make such a choice. . .
This is the first time that I have been able to say what I really feel in my heart so frankly. I feel that I am not the one who can say this, because I didn't have the courage before. I feel relaxed now, and I hope you can support me. Let me finish my next arrangement smoothly. thank you ! ! Thank you for your care over the years. I really appreciate it. I believe it will be my best memory in the future.
A letter to pursuers 2
Hello;
Seriously, if you like me, and then I let you know the existence of this diary, then I can tell you honestly, congratulations, you have successfully taken my heart away. However, please read this letter patiently before you formally pursue me and confess to me; After reading it, perhaps, your affection for me will disappear with the passage of time.
I have to let you know that I am a girl who is eager to be loved by boys. As long as you are willing to pay for me and make me happy, it is only a matter of time before I am moved. If I say I love you, it means I really love you. I don't just say those three emotional words.
Dear, I like you, but you must know:
(1) The curse handed down from my family for four generations
Dad was not superstitious before, but when he learned that I was in love (first love), he immediately opposed it and invited the Feng Shui master to see the fate of our family. My dad, he believes in the curse handed down by our ancestors. It's kind of a curse from my grandfather's grandfather. The history of my ancestors is really dark. In short, the curse is: in my family, whenever the first child of any generation is a woman, then that girl will have a bad life and a bad fate, which will bring bad luck to her future husband and family. It's okay to pass it down from four generations, because all of them are men, but as soon as the fifth generation, my girl appeared. If your parents are superstitious, please give up on me; Long-term pain is better than short-term pain. I want you to be happy. I don't want you to have disputes with your family because of me, because I am a so-called jinx. If you insist, if you believe that I will bring you happiness, then I will love you all my life. This is my promise. Unless, you choose to give up on me.
(2) Sorry, you are not my first love
My first love was dedicated to a very special boy when I was eighteen. Almost the whole package was given to him. Do you mind? Of course, I am still a virgin. My virginity will only be dedicated to my husband. This is my promise to myself and I must keep it.
(3) I was in debt as soon as I graduated from college.
My father asked me to change the college fees before he wished me happiness. Do you mind?
(4) My father is a very traditional and strict person
Do you want me? Then you have to convince my dad, too He is strict because he loves me. Besides, his life is really not easy. If your parents will look down on him because of his unusual life, I'm sorry, I can't be with you. I can't stand my father or mother being looked down upon by anyone.
most importantly, I can't fall in love until I'm 23.
If you still choose to continue to like me after reading this article, please prove yourself and come on.
I am an eighteen-year-old fallen leaf.
a letter to pursuers 3
Dear true love seekers:
We must start with your personal definition of true love. Without it, your search is meaningless, just like a roundabout journey with no exit. Don't look it up in the dictionary, because this definition is in your life philosophy and experience.
Our happiness as adults is rooted in the soil of childhood. In order to survive, we instinctively get close to our mother, and then finally understand the protection of our father. As we all know, our love comes from these early interactions. Instead of spreading countless theories about "mommy" and "daddy", let's start with the idea that you have been able to get along with your past and are eager to move forward into your own loving relationship.
the best way to predict a person's future behavior is to look at his past behavior. Looking back on your actions, you can say that you have fallen in love with the most important person? Yourself? Throw away your arrogance. Do you love yourself now?
1. Love yourself
If you don't have love in your heart, you can't love others deeply. Bitterness cannot be buried for a long time; Its smell will destroy the love you have found and send you back to the circle of dead ends.
loving yourself means accepting that your humanity is lacking and your achievements coexist. So the pressure is gone! The person you are looking for will not be burdened to "save" you, because you have accepted yourself completely. With that kind of comfort, you can let go and accept others, and then emotional communication can begin.
2. put yourself aside
to better integrate into a relationship, changing yourself is a sacrifice that must be made. This certainly doesn't mean that you have to give up your personality, but if the love you are looking for is really limited, the fact is that "if you want more, you must give more."
put your ego aside and explore what is best for both of you, which will be your daily choice. Every couple must find the best place, which will give them independence and a certain degree of health.
3. Clearly expect
that you love yourself, that you feel that you love another person, and that your relationship has great potential. Do you both have clear expectations for this relationship?
If this is the true love you are looking for, it won't be a problem to discuss the future development of the two of you. Love is fragile. If two people can't be honest and support each other's concerns and expectations, are you in the love you are looking for?
4. Don't promise
Although it sounds cruel and runs counter to what you might expect from true love, the pressure of promise can lead to a final breakup. Instead, try to express yourself with intention. Intention adds realism to love; When we make ourselves vulnerable, people become the most vulnerable. When we give ourselves the pressure of "I promise to love you forever", we are nourishing our inner fears.
Intellectually, we know that love will not be perfect, because we are not perfect. Therefore, the roar of a heartbroken lover is as old as human beings. Instead of fearing that "promises are meant to be broken", accept the idea that you will "take your intentions to heart".
5. Confirm your chemical reaction
True love is based on chemical reaction. Instead of being discouraged by this fact, we should celebrate it. The hormonal effect that triggers the chemical reaction between two people is like a miracle.
take care of yourself to prepare yourself psychologically and emotionally. This will help you sort yourself out after the fog of love clears, and then you can enjoy the benefits of a mutually successful relationship. People who have celebrated countless happy anniversaries give the same advice? After the initial chemical reaction, true love begins. Take some time to learn how to keep your chemical reactions best.
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