After careful consideration, I decided to be a full-time mother. Am I right?

? To tell the truth, because I don't know your specific situation, I can't simply judge whether you are right or wrong to be a full-time mother, or that there is no right or wrong choice for anyone to be a full-time mother. I think being a full-time mother is a very good career. You gave up your career, your ideal, your social value, and chose to contribute silently in your family.

? You have lost the most important economic independence, and sometimes you may be looked down upon by some people. Many people misunderstand that full-time mothers are easy to eat soft food at home, thinking that full-time mothers live on their husbands' money, but they are all mothers, which is really hard. You have to be a chef, cleaner, parenting expert, financial planner and so on. To tell the truth, it is really not easy to be a good full-time mother.

Once you choose to be a full-time mother, your future life may be very boring. Of course, some people will say that a stay-at-home mother can not only stay at home, but also find a lot of fun. But from a practical point of view, the lives of some stay-at-home mothers I know are really boring.

For example, my sister is a stay-at-home mother. At first, she devoted herself to her family with great enthusiasm, but after a few years, she began to get tired of this kind of life. Every time she talks to us, she complains about staying at home. It's so lonely and boring. She is busy with family chores all day and has no one to talk to. She keeps saying that she really wants to go out and find a job now. I really regret that I chose to be a full-time mother, and I am going crazy at home every day. Of course, my sister's situation is that she has gone to live in other places with her husband alone, and she may not have many friends. If you have many friends to chat with in your life, your life may not be so boring.

? What I want to say here is that staying at home is really hard and great. Sometimes she is under as much pressure as working outside the home, and your whole interpersonal circle will become smaller than before, so it is inevitable that she will be slightly out of touch with society.

? So I still hope you can think it over carefully and make sure you won't regret it after choosing to be a full-time mother. In fact, no matter what you choose now or your future life choice, since you have chosen one road, whether it is right or not, we should not regret it or think about how wonderful the scenery on the other road will be. Living every moment is the most important thing.