Is the bride price of rural people determined by the custom of the man's family or by how much the woman wants?

The bride price in our province is given by men on their own initiative, and women will not take the initiative to mention it. If a bride price is held at the woman's house regularly, everyone will poke his spine with a vest. It is said that selling daughters is not marriage. This family is crazy about money in society and can't hold its head up. No one will contact again, including neighbors and even many relatives.

Here, the man proposes the wedding date on his own initiative, and after the woman agrees, he gives gifts one or two months in advance so as to have enough time to tell distant relatives, rural relatives and neighbors. A man's gifts depend entirely on his own family, and there is no fixed number. Ordinary families can get more than 20,000 pounds, and wealthy families can get 35,000 pounds, or even about 654.38 million won. This is to thank the woman's parents for their kindness to their daughter. The old man gave him his eldest daughter, but he could never serve his parents. He wants to serve this man's family, and this man feels deeply guilty and grateful.

Moreover, men usually buy two new clothes for the woman's parents, wrap them in red cloth, and wrap the money in red cloth or big red envelopes, and send them to the woman's home together on the same day.

Speaking of which, do you think our bride price custom here is good? Anyway, people here feel very human and very good.

In both urban and rural areas, almost every household requires a wedding when their daughter gets married.

Generally speaking, when men and women are in love, boys respect girls' wishes, demands and choices. It can be said that she did as the bride price girl said.

In a society that looks at all this with money, in this era of serious money worship, even if marriage requires a bride price, it will not fall behind.

Tens of thousands of yuan, ruthless price bride price, I do not know how many families have been destroyed. I don't know how many good teeth I have hurt.

What divorced three-married woman, the bride price is 200 thousand won when she opens her mouth, and the young widow is 300 thousand won when she reaches out. When will the bride price atmosphere that is flying all over the sky be put down?

According to the bride price, one thing has changed since the engagement ceremony. The ancients often said that three lives and six lives, parents' lives and matchmakers' words have become the past tense, and few people mentioned them.

As for whether the bride price follows the male custom or the female custom, I can talk about my own views. Bridal gift, bride price, if it is customary to give money to the man's family before marriage, it is necessary to take the woman's custom as the starting point.

However, China has a vast territory, many ethnic groups, different local conditions and customs. A person should have priority when holding a ceremony.

If you go thousands of miles away to talk about your daughter-in-law, you must regard women's habits as customs. Only after the marriage process can you regard your customs as customs. That makes sense.

This is the first and second conversion process. Wife says it's the protagonist, wife. Getting married means you can be the leading role.

Think about it: I want to talk about my daughter-in-law, but you can't get a bride price at your place. You can only talk about my daughter-in-law in your area, but you can't follow the popular saying that men follow women's customs. Changing places does not meet the bride price data of women. The woman's father has no relatives and will definitely not agree. If the two sides have deep feelings, they can negotiate on their own. Otherwise, unless you go against the wishes of the woman's parents and relatives, if you don't force the marriage, there is no parking space transfer at all. No matter whose custom it is, you can't marry a wife!