Feng Xiaogang raised a virtuous wife at home and had a beauty outside. He betrayed Zhang Di and hurt Xu Fan. What did he go through emotionally?

In love, there is a very beautiful word called "love at first sight".

It feels like what Faye Wong sang in "Legend", "Just because I took one more look at you in the crowd, I can never forget your face again."

At that moment, the dream came true. Everyone has had the urge to spend a lifetime with someone, but few have succeeded.

And Feng Xiaogang is definitely a master at it. Not only did he marry his "love at first sight" partner twice, but he also had extramarital affairs. 1

The first person Feng Xiaogang fell in love with at first sight was a young nurse named Zhang Di.

At that time, Feng Xiaogang had just transferred from the army and was assigned to the labor union of Beijing Urban Construction and Development Corporation to engage in cultural propaganda work.

Zhang Di has a cousin-in-law who is a colleague of Feng Xiaogang.

Once, Zhang Di went to visit relatives in that company and happened to be bumped into by Feng Xiaogang.

When he saw Zhang Di, Feng Xiaogang couldn't move immediately, and his little heart was beating hard.

Feng Xiaogang, who fell under the love spell, immediately launched a crazy pursuit of Zhang Di.

However, Feng Xiaogang’s craziness is not like that of some foolish young men who boldly confess their feelings and express love frequently.

There are routines in people’s madness, deep affection in their routines, and restraint in deep affection.

Knowing that his hard power (mainly appearance) was not good enough, he adopted a roundabout strategy of "surrounding the city from the countryside", first to deal with his cousin-in-law, and then to deal with Zhang Di.

After all, the cousin-in-law is not a biological brother-in-law. He faces Feng Xiaogang's face every day and knows exactly what he looks like, but he still leads him.

Of course, Feng Xiaogang worked very hard himself. In order to make up for his shortcomings in appearance, he showed off his talents and painted two paintings for Zhang Di.

In this way, Feng Xiaogang relied on some good methods to maximize his strengths and avoid weaknesses, and successfully chased Zhang Di, and even got to the point where he would not marry him.

So even though Zhang Di’s parents did not support their relationship at first, they could only let it go.

So the two got married that year.

This young couple, who were married through free love, became inseparable when they were newlyweds.

Even Zhang Di’s parents, who initially opposed their union, felt that their daughter had married the right person.

In this way, the two people loved each other for many years and gave birth to a daughter in September 1990, named Feng Siyu.

The years from marriage to the birth of a daughter were Feng Xiaogang’s learning period in the film and television industry.

It took him six or seven years to go from art assistant to art designer to screenwriter. While secretly understanding the work behind the scenes, he also curried favor with many "Beijing" people. Circle big names."

After years of hard work, Feng Xiaogang has accumulated enough strength and connections, and finally ushered in the explosive period of his personal career.

The movie "Encounter with Passion", which he co-wrote with Zheng Xiaolong***, and the TV series "The Story of the Editorial Department", which he co-wrote with Wang Shuo and Ma Weidu, were both great successes.

As Feng Xiaogang stayed in the entertainment industry for longer and longer, and saw more and more women, he began to feel less and less fond of his wife Zhang Di, whom he once fell in love with at first sight. 2

In 1992, Feng Xiaogang once again partnered with Zheng Xiaolong as the screenwriter for the movie "The Big Thing".

The heroine of the movie is a little girl named Xu Fan who has just graduated from the Central Academy of Drama.

When director Xia Gang asked him how the film was, Feng Xiaogang said: "The performances were all good, but the heroine was the only one who was in trouble."

The male lead Ge You saw that Feng Xiaogang was speaking so carelessly, so he poked his lower back to signal that the other person was nearby.

Feng Xiaogang vaguely saw a figure.

The two people were obviously together, but they didn’t meet face to face at all.

The real meeting between Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan was at the wrapping party of "Big Sabbath".

When he saw Xu Fan in person, he was instantly stunned and praised her for being several times more beautiful than the camera.

The love spell of love at first sight came into effect again. Feng Xiaogang completely forgot about his wife and daughter, and used the same tactics he used to pursue Zhang Di, like a male peacock in heat, repeatedly taunting Xu Fan. .

At that time, Xu Fan was young, beautiful, and good-looking, and his ex-boyfriend was Wang Zhiwen, who was talented, famous, and good-looking (compared to Feng Xiaogang). How could he like Feng Xiaogang?

Unexpectedly, she had just broken up at this time and was in a romantic window, creating an opportunity for Feng Xiaogang.

It is said that when Xu Fan and Wang Zhiwen were together, she took the initiative to pursue them.

Therefore, in front of Wang Zhiwen, her posture has always been relatively low.

Ever since Xu Fan graduated and entered the entertainment industry, the two of them had been spending less time together and more separation, and they began to have many conflicts.

Wang Zhiwen hopes that Xu Fan can be the little woman beside him, marry him and have children.

But Xu Fan does not want to give up his acting career.

Once the two got into an argument, Wang Zhiwen kicked Xu Fan out with his luggage.

Seeing that Xu Fan was deeply hurt and unable to leave the house, he frequently visited Xu Fan's dormitory, either to bring warmth or "chicken soup".

Tell her clearly that without Wang Zhiwen’s unreliable grass, you still have my big tree that is willing to shelter you from the wind and rain.

Next, Feng Xiaogang asked his good friend Wang Shuo for advice on how to pursue a girl like Xu Fan, and at the same time found someone to matchmaking and create opportunities for the two to meet.

In order to help Xu Fan get over her emotional pain as soon as possible, he tried every means to please her all day long.

It can be said that Feng Xiaogang, who had just become a father at that time, really showed his love for his daughter to pamper the lovelorn Xu Fan.

There is a saying that is right, there are two ways to treat emotional injuries, either slowly over time, or to find the next person quickly.

People say that the IQ of a woman in love is zero, but in fact, the IQ of a woman in love is not very good either.

Xu Fan, who was "in urgent need of treatment", was quickly moved by the considerate Feng Xiaogang and became his mistress in a daze.

And she was grateful to him, saying that he had adopted her heart.

After chasing Xu Fan, Feng Xiaogang rode a motorcycle all day long, taking his extramarital lover everywhere, introducing everyone to him as his girlfriend.

I feel sorry for Zhang Di who is taking care of her children at home. When I accompanied you, Feng Xiaogang, you were unknown, but after you became famous, you found someone else.

Although everyone around her was aggrieved for her, Zhang Di remained indifferent and did not make any noise, thinking that her man was just being wild for a while and would have to go home sooner or later.

With Zhang Di's connivance, Feng Xiaogang lived a happy life with a good wife at home and a beauty outside for several years.

In the blink of an eye, time came to 1999. Feng Xiaogang became a well-known director with his movies "Party A and Party B" and "See You or Be Parted".

As for Zhang Di, who had been waiting for her husband to change his mind for six or seven years, not only did she not wait for her husband to come back, but she also waited for her love rival to come to the house.

After knowing that Feng Xiaogang would never change his mind, Zhang Di quit the three-person game and divorced Feng Xiaogang.

In this way, Xu Fan successfully replaced Zhang Di and became the hostess of the Feng family.

After marrying Xu Fan, everyone before and after Feng Xiaogang expressed his deep regret for these two women.

Therefore, even after the divorce, he still took good care of his ex-wife. Not only did he leave a house in Beijing to Zhang Di, but he would also try his best to help her if she had any difficulties.

As for Xu Fan, he gave her a lot of resources and gave her scenes in his movies "A Sigh", "Cell Phone" and "A World Without Thieves".

In the blink of an eye, several years have passed.

Feng Xiaogang, who once only had box office success but no glory, won the three best director awards of Golden Rooster, Hundred Flowers and Huabiao with his film "Assembly Number".

Xu Fan is no longer new to him.

As a result, Feng Xiaogang fell in love with another woman again, and coined a new term "overnight stay".

In February 2009, Feng Xiaogang was photographed having a secret meeting with a woman in his private apartment for eight hours.

As soon as the incident broke out, it quickly caused an uproar in the entertainment industry. Then many people with knowledge of the matter came forward to talk about Feng Xiaogang’s marital infidelity.

It is said that the heroine in Overnight Gate is Phoenix TV hostess Shen Xing. The two met at an event and hooked up soon after.

In order to be with Feng Xiaogang, Shen Xing even divorced her entrepreneur husband.

Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan have also separated for a long time.

Seeing that the impact of the incident was getting bigger and bigger, Shen Xing urged Feng Xiaogang to divorce and remarry.

At the beginning, Feng Xiaogang was probably more interested in Xin Huan, so he angered Xu Fan and said that he would "break up if they don't get along."

But when it came to her husband's cheating, she always considered it right and left, and he never broke up with her.

However, as the situation further developed, Feng Xiaogang changed his mind and chose Xu Fan.

Xu Fan, who was clearly cuckolded by her husband, also changed her attitude. She kept helping him cover up and clarified that the so-called cheating was purely a rumor.

Feng Xiaogang was caught in the middle and did not express his position from beginning to end, but the final result was that he and Xu Fan reunited, and Shen Xing was scolded and complained repeatedly.

From then on, Feng Xiaogang finally knew where his warm harbor was, so he stayed by Xu Fan's side.

And Xu Fan finally understood that instead of holding him tightly, it would be better to let him go and let him freely take advantage of other women.

In this way, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan finally found their way to get along as a couple after more than ten years of marriage.

Since then, although Feng Xiaogang has been in constant news, he has never made any big noise.

Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan are two couples, one is playful and the other is tolerant. They have a tacit understanding and will never be separated again.

For Feng Xiaogang, it can be said that it is quite wise to abandon Shen Xing and choose Xu Fan this time.

After all, if you fall in love with a woman at first sight and marry her home, people will say it is a love fairy tale.

You fell in love with the second woman at first sight and changed your ex to marry her back. You can explain that it was purely an accident.

When you fall in love with a third woman at first sight, you must be in love with the new and dislike the old, and you must wear the hat of "scumbag" wherever you go.

It is really difficult for people with this hat to get along in the entertainment industry. Conclusion:

Feng Xiaogang's "love at first sight", although he failed Zhang Di and hurt Xu Fan, it proved a truth to people:

The so-called love at first sight is nothing but love at first sight. At first glance, the so-called eternity is just a matter of weighing the pros and cons.