How about drawing lots to get married after breaking up?

This sign means that you are a rich man with an infinite future. This bodes well for your future and has little to do with your marriage. If there is such a good sign after breaking up, it can be understood as saying that breaking up is a good thing.

However, I don't agree with this practice. Happiness is to be won by yourself, not by the gods.

For the present situation, I think you can try to change yourself, don't be willful, and learn to consider the feelings of others. But many times, being sensible in men's eyes means that women should be obedient, and those who don't listen to him are not sensible. This is a kind of male chauvinism, and the requirements for women are too extreme. If he changes himself for him and still doesn't accept you, then I don't think he really loves you, and you don't have to miss it.