When building houses in rural areas, why do you always say that "the door is too big, and the family is ruined"?
This should be only in rural areas, and only in some places will there be such a custom. I looked at the door of our house and found that the door of our house was quite high, and it was not customary to ask the elders at home.
So I think this is only a requirement of some regions. In fact, this custom is similar to feudal thought since ancient times. But he is different from feudal thought, and he did not cause direct harm to some things. This can only be said to be an established rule, in fact, it does not require everyone to abide by it.
Anyway, you can choose not to believe these customs that you think are rural customs! In fact, you didn't completely follow these rules. These are all things you believe and you don't believe.
There is absolutely no need to dwell on these things every day. I believe that with the development of time, these proverbs will gradually disappear in our lives.
After all, as successors of scientific socialism, we are all educated by materialism. Fewer and fewer people believe in ghosts and gods. However, although I grew up in such an educational environment, I think there are ghosts and gods in this world, and I think Feng Shui is also a form of culture. Everything can exist in this world, and nothing is impossible.
In short, accept if you are willing, and forget if you are unwilling.