Eight-character wechat expression
I nominate Yan Wenzi first.
Emoji, sad frog, Minguk Song, all kinds of cats and dogs, sand sculpture emoticons. ...
Without them, how can we chat in the WeChat group? How to deal with leaders who are desperate for life? How to come and go with ambiguous objects?
I can't imagine.
Have you ever thought that when the joys and sorrows of the real world are condensed, emotionalism will replace the constellation and become a more accurate eight-character secret key and numerology door?
In other words, your favorite expression pack reveals the real you.
Expression pack, exposing you through the network cable
In the contemporary internet, everyone is his own actor, and expression packs are an important part of perfect acting.
It's the end of the month
Open your family of three with only your father and your mother, and the expression is Sanlian.
Have another one after you get the red envelope.
Everything speaks for itself.
Go to work.
Top-level working groups skillfully find their own @ in 100 unread messages and reply quickly.
Father of Party A: "Can the Logo be bigger?" Answering a "yes" is too cold, and "no problem" is too against your will. Only by adding it can we express the complex mood of maintaining 10 thousand white eyes in a smiling face.
"I can't chat without words." How does it feel?
The emoticon pack makes up for the lost information in online chat.
When we chat face to face, only 7% of the information is really conveyed through language, and more than half of the information depends on expressions.
For example.
Today, you go to the coffee shop downstairs to have a blind date. When you meet a stranger for the first time, 80% of what you talk about can only be the gossip released by Chen Qiaoen officials.
And let you decide whether to delete the other person's WeChat or continue dating, not whether they are suitable, but whether the other person's mouth twitched and suddenly looked gloomy when you mentioned that you had to buy a house and a car to get married. ...
These details of face-to-face communication are called body language, which truly gathers our real impressions of people.
US President Trump has a lot of gestures when he speaks, which may also be related to his being a reality show host. He is good at expressing himself in situational language.
However, these nonverbal information can only be condensed into expression packs on the Internet.
When our brain looks at the expression pack, the emotions recognized from it are similar to our neural responses to faces in real life.
In the WeChat dialog box, the sad frog and sad face in front of you can make you feel "he is unhappy".
The great significance of Yan characters in social networks also makes "what expression to send" a part of self-packaging.
In a sense, what style of expression pack you use determines your social personality.
Just added a long-admired great god WeChat. After you asked me an awkward answer, you suddenly received a cute cat expression. Are you relaxed at this moment?
Yes, many people use non-aggressive emoticons to break the deadlock and narrow the distance between you and him in a short time.
In the initial communication between people, a simple smiling face is equivalent to bgm in a coffee shop, which can quickly relax the communication atmosphere and accelerate the warming of relations.
And a shy expression may become a young love accelerator, creating a subtle flirting effect of "avoiding because of love."
Those who don't leave the same expression in three sentences often give people a lively and outgoing impression.
The real experience of 5327 American bachelors tells us that if you hook up online at the same time, boys who like to send emoticons are more likely to ask girls out than honest people who can only talk.
But you can't say that they are love rat who loves to write in words.
They have been expressing rich feelings just to maintain their love relationship.
So, what kind of emoticons can you use to better shape your image?
Cute expression pack, chat killer
Big eyes are strong, cats and dogs cry for you, South Korea's Song brothers, and even the worst is a domestic thank-you machine ... These words sweeping the network have one thing in common: cute, harmless and zero-aggressive.
Addiction to loveliness is the fatal weakness of all human beings.
Cute is spending power.
Cute emoticons can even stimulate your brain to secrete dopamine like food and love.
More importantly, if you want to be popular, people and cute cats can help you.
Think back, when you send a circle of friends, do you also edit for two minutes and send it in groups for two hours?
It is too tiring to perform in a circle of friends every day. It's best to choose a social image that everyone can accept, so as to save the social cost most.
This is the least common multiple principle in social media research.
Life is not easy, everyone is a fake smile teenager.
Give another example.
If you need to perform socially in front of balding middle-aged male leaders, critical female colleagues, melancholy literary youth and naive junior girls.
Maybe you need to chat on WeChat at the same time: the future trend of Sino-US trade war, the latest development of Lisa, a green tea girl, and a lyric poet in the era of developed capitalism. Don't forget to ask the intern's little sister, have you finished today's task?
This is too tiring.
Why not send a cat with "your little cutie suddenly appears" and tell them "I'm fine, I'm going to start chatting with you ~"
Simply put, different expressions help you shape your image in online chat.
Those who are always like this, of course, look easier to get along with than others.
Just like "girls who love to laugh are not bad luck", on the internet, the cute expression pack of "selling cute with zero carbon" makes your popularity suddenly go up.
This can also explain why people all over the world like cute cat emoticons.
Humans have zero resistance to cats.
Indiana University even did such a boring research: let 6795 people stare at cat videos.
After reading it, they said: the pressure is less, the spirit is more, and they can continue to move bricks.
"Who doesn't like cats?"
When there is nothing to say, it is never wrong to send a cute cat with big eyes.
Who likes to use wild way expression packs?
But there are always a group of people who love sand sculpture, ridicule, evil laughter and all kinds of wild road expression packs that make people laugh.
There are not a few such people. Many of them took off the cute camouflage of cats and dogs and exposed their true side after you got familiar with them.
What kind of personalities are they? Is it a disguise or a real sand sculpture?
Emoji can be a disguise. In reality, he may be a serious person who is unsmiling, only in the WeChat expression pack, a man show.
Researchers at the University of Rochester collected Twitter expressions from more than 350,000 users and found that the most frequently used facial expressions are relatively introverted people.
If you meet a boy who can continue chatting by posting pictures on the Internet, you must be mentally prepared.
Maybe we meet offline, and he may not say a word.
Jackson Yee said that he used symbols and words in chatting, but he was actually a master of expression packs, and his "ugly photos" were also made into expression packs.
The expression of the master of picking up girls is often like this:
Compared with a single-threaded boy who loves you, the master knows more about the roundabout tactics of expression packs.
Northwest University has studied the relationship between gender and Yan-sending characters.
Expressions fall into two categories.
Directly and freely:
Show friendliness:
Comparing the sending situation of men and women, the results show that if boys send expression packages that directly express their feelings, they are more likely to be rejected directly, but they express friendly expressions and get a good impression more easily.
In other words, going straight to the point is counterproductive, and a detour may be successful.
That's the reason why you pick up girls' facial expression library.
Brother sand sculpture, open the topic.
Lovely cat, continue the conversation.
Crazy hints when feelings are strong.
Even if exposed by the other party, you can take a step back.
"Don't take it seriously, send it to you for fun ~"
You can come in and out as if nothing had happened. Five seconds later, I returned to the familiar topic of sand sculpture.
Admit it, times have changed dramatically, the expression pack has been sent wrong, and you may not even get a good friend card.
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