If a person wants to keep his mouth shut and not talk nonsense, he must do these four things
Some people say: Mouth is a person’s Feng Shui. If you manage your mouth well, you will have good Feng Shui. It can be seen how important speaking is to life. If a person wants to keep his mouth shut and not talk nonsense in daily life, he must do these four things.
1. Don’t comment on other people’s rights and wrongs
A person’s first priority is to take care of himself. In life, if you can manage your words and deeds well, you will be a very powerful person in spiritual practice.
Unfortunately, in real life, many people cannot manage themselves well and prefer to manage others. Especially talking about the rights and wrongs of others is actually a taboo in interpersonal communication.
First of all, other people’s rights and wrongs are their own business and have nothing to do with you. If you make random comments and make random comments, it will not only appear that you are reckless and uncultivated, but also show that you are rude and disrespectful to others. Respect, such an approach that is not beneficial to oneself and harmful to others is extremely unwise.
Secondly, "Those who talk about right and wrong must be right and wrong." If you comment on other people's rights and wrongs, in the eyes of other bystanders, you are just a "right and wrong person." Why do you do this self-destructive behavior that ruins yourself?
Be a kind person. Don't comment on other people's rights and wrongs, but accumulate virtue for yourself and make good friends for yourself.
2. Don’t defend yourself
If others have prejudices against you, it is useless to defend yourself. Don't try to change others, you should learn to turn your sword inward and change yourself.
Summer insects cannot be said to be ice-like. Facing a summer insect, if you talk to it about how cold it is in the ice and snow in winter, will it be convinced? It thinks the weather is always hot. You are talking nonsense!
There are many people in the world who are short-sighted and narrow-minded. You can't change whatever they believe to be dead truths, so why bother asking for trouble?
Those who are clean will be clean by themselves, and there is no need for self-certification.
A truly insightful person never defends himself with others. Instead, he reflects on himself from the different opinions of others, introspects himself, corrects them if they have them, and encourages them if they don’t.
3. Promote the good deeds of others
The greatest evil in human nature is not to see the good deeds of others. Therefore, a person practicing in the mortal world must consciously do the opposite, appreciate the goodness of others, praise the goodness of others, and especially publicize the good deeds of others.
If someone does something good to you, and you never forget it and publicize it everywhere, it shows that you are a person who appreciates and repays kindness.
When others do good things to others, you publicize them widely and praise them. This not only spreads positive energy, but also builds good relationships for yourself. It also shows that you are generous and open-minded. .
A person who preaches the good deeds of others is like a successful evangelist and is popular wherever he goes.
4. Cover up the faults of others
"No one is a saint, how can anyone be without faults?" Everyone is likely to make mistakes. Therefore, we must be tolerant of other people's faults and not criticize them unreasonably.
If you always focus on other people's faults and always use other people's faults as excuses, it can only mean that you are very mean and very wicked.
Others are also very disgusted with this. If you do this, not only will you offend others, but you are also likely to cause trouble and suffer retaliation from others.
A person who pays attention to moral cultivation can consciously cover up the faults of others. Doing this not only shows your tolerance and generosity, but also respects and protects others. Others will be grateful to you and may reciprocate your kindness at the appropriate time in life.
Summary: Interacting with others is nothing more than talking and doing things. And speaking comes first. People who can talk have good interpersonal relationships and good luck in life.
If a person, in the process of dealing with others, can consistently refrain from commenting on the rights and wrongs of others or defend himself, and can always promote the good deeds of others and cover up the faults of others, then he can make a positive contribution to his own life. , accumulate and create a superior Feng Shui.