Feng shui geek
When life is not satisfactory, we always feel that everything is "terrible", and the flowers and birds outside have become "places where petals flow like tears, and lonely birds sing their grief". In fact, the world is not so bad. Everything blends in and the machine turns. How can everything go well?
Xue Mo said, "Many people feel that their imperfections and unhappiness are often due to greed."
Seeing people who are more beautiful than themselves, I feel that my body shape and appearance are not perfect; Seeing people living in luxury houses, I feel that my unit is not perfect; Seeing people driving a BMW, I feel that my broken bike is not perfect; Seeing people with prominent positions and well-dressed clothes, they feel that their work is not perfect; When he saw others in pairs, he felt that his singleness was not perfect ... all these imperfections originated from our inner greed and from comparison. In fact, if you are not greedy and don't compare with others, there will be no imperfection, unhappiness and unhappiness.
You know, many things we see are an illusion about the world. Money, fame and fortune, including the present troubles and pains, are as fleeting as the fog in the morning and the frost on the grass. Including our body, health or disease, will disappear in a few years. Therefore, the meaning of living is not to pursue external perfection or perfect life in the eyes of the world, but to pursue something that cannot be defeated by time. When you understand this truth, you won't be ecstatic about getting it, sad about losing it, and lost because of all kinds of infatuation. At that time, you were perfect as long as you were healthy; As long as every day is full, it is perfect; As long as you have a free heart, it will be perfect. So, when it comes to things that others think are very stressful and heavy, I have nothing at all.
Even if a person is physically disabled, if he doesn't compare with normal people, cherish the physiological functions he still has and enlarge his advantages, then his happiness and happiness are not less than those of healthy people. Physicist Hawking, writer Karen Keller, writer Shi Tiesheng and business geek Trey Wan Zhi are all the same. Happiness, happiness and success depend on the feelings of the soul.
People often think that youth is fleeting, because a person's life is only over 30,000 days, half of which is spent sleeping and eating, that is to say, the time really spent doing things is only over 10,000 days. And these more than 10 thousand days are made up of many moments, just like a drop of water can be merged into a long river of life, and a road constitutes a journey of life. The real winner in life must have captured everyone's happiness, happiness and understanding. How do you grasp the present and give yourself a past? There is only one secret to ensure happiness now and in the future: cherish every minute now.
If you feel that you can't be happy anyway, you feel that everything at this moment is terrible. This shows that you have started to keep up with the joneses. There is no essential difference between everything in this world. People label them as beautiful and ugly, good and bad, big and small, high and low, good and evil. Stick to these ideas and you will suffer.
For example, some people are very happy. When they see that all their friends have bought houses, but they can only rent them, they become more and more silent and inferior. They are jealous that those who are not as good as themselves have bought a house, which is very painful. Is his pain caused by the outside world? Of course not. What pains him is the comparison between the rich and the poor. It stands to reason that there is no shortage of food and drink now, the wind can't blow the rain, and there is a wife who is willing to live in a rental house with him. What is pain? As long as people don't keep up with the joneses, be contented and do what they should do every day, there is nothing to be pitied about.
Many young people have this experience. They originally wanted to buy a pair of socks at the mall. As soon as they entered the mall, they found a beautiful dress and bought it. But the trouble came, I had to wear a pair of good pants to look good, so I went to buy pants again; After buying pants, new troubles came again. I found that the shoes in the closet were either old in style or ugly in color, so I bought shoes all over the mall. One day, when she went out in this suit, she was casually said, "It doesn't look good." She was in pain. In addition to the money spent, there is also time spent shopping, expecting more beauty. In fact, she didn't know that this dress was only given the concept of "beauty". As long as there is a clear heart, it is happy and beautiful at any time.
The most contradictory thing is that many people understand that as long as they don't keep up with the competition and change themselves appropriately, they will be much happier. However, too many people would rather spend their time complaining, complaining and self-destruction than change a little. Some seemingly beautiful things are lost, just like spilled milk, and there is no room for recovery. All sadness and self-abandonment are useless. The only way to be happy is to do what you are doing now.
If each of us can do this, not wasting the present time, living up to the past and not looking forward to the future, everything will be perfect. This perfection is not embodied in material things, but in spiritual peace, abundance, tranquility and satisfaction.