The story of "Liuchi Lane"
In the Qing Dynasty, two families built houses on this land. Because the geomantic omen in that place was particularly good, the two families argued over a strong location, so one family wrote a letter to the uncle who was a big official in Beijing, asking him to write a note to the local official and award the place to their family. After receiving the letter, my uncle immediately wrote back: "A thousand miles of letters are a wall, so why not let him be three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still here today, but I don't see Qin Shihuang. ". After receiving the letter, my nephew felt deeply, so he went to the other party's house and said that I would let you be three feet. When the other party heard it, he said that I would let you be three feet, so this six-foot wide alley was set aside between the two houses. There is an idiom called "All rivers run into the sea". The reason why the sea is magnificent is that it can contain the water in many rivers.
I had this experience in primary school. My deskmate and I would draw a "38th parallel" in the middle of the table, because there might have been quarrels or even fights about "crossing the line", and we finally complained to the teacher, and we both hated each other at that time. But more than ten years and twenty years have passed, and today we meet the deskmate who once fought with you in the street. Will we still be angry with him? Talk about childhood fun together, ha ha a smile, and the rest is only kindness. Similarly, today, we will have conflicts with people around us because of some small things. Think about it. After decades, his grandfather, who has become a child, is holding his grandson and pulling the dog in the park one day. Will he continue to quarrel again?
One of the four great joys of life is "meeting an old friend in another country". Why do you feel happy when you are in another country? For example, it may be nothing for our colleagues to meet every day. If they meet on the street in other places one day, they will feel very cordial. If they meet abroad, they will feel even more cordial. If they meet on the moon ...
If we lengthen the time and enlarge the space, we will naturally think and feel differently about things.