H2 invites spouses to share this process.
On 20/0/8, Kloc got a marriage certificate with his wife in his hometown, Jixi Civil Affairs Bureau, Heilongjiang Province. I was 40 years old and my wife was 28 years old. It is my first marriage, and my daughter-in-law is married for the second time. I'm Korean, and I'm an F-4 landing permit in Korea. My daughter-in-law is Han nationality, unemployed and registered in Jilin Province. Before my daughter-in-law met me, she was refused a visa four times by the Korean Embassy in Shenyang. Her uncle (Korean) invited her to visit relatives in Korea twice before, but she was refused the visa twice after. Money is not spent, things are not done, and spending money is a trivial matter. The key is to refuse the visa and refuse to leave a shadow in your heart. As soon as I said the visa, I plunged into my arms.
After we got married, my wife applied for two more visas. On both occasions, I provided complete invitation materials, including employment certificate, tax bill, insurance, tap water, deposit certificate and so on. She found a travel agency in Changchun to do it. The first time I spent 1500, the travel agency said less than five sentences from beginning to end, without giving us any advice or explanation. I didn't know if I asked, saying that everything would be subject to the consulate and I didn't want to take care of us. Finally, the visa was successfully refused.
The second time, I changed to another company. First, I paid a deposit of 5,000 yuan, and then I paid 30,000 yuan, saying that I signed the contract with 100%. After giving them the materials, it took me more than two months to hand them in. Finally, I refused to sign, and I didn't refund a penny of 5000 yuan. Finally, the phone and WeChat were hacked, and my wife and I cried several times. I know she is worried about money. I comforted her that money is a trivial matter and we are not short of money. In fact, I am also distressed by TM. Whoa, whoa!
The reason for the two rejections was that the purpose of entry was not clear. This makes me very depressed. It is so easy to see others get visas, but it is so difficult to see our turn. I know that we are remarried, our wife has no job, and we have a record of refusing visas several times. We have been married for a short time and have no children, and so on. There are many shortcomings. But I still want to do it. I still have a glimmer of hope. I still want her to come to Korea. My daughter-in-law is willing to come She has long wanted to come to Korea. Besides, I don't trust her to leave her at home for nothing. It's good to be here. If you can work, you can go out and do something. If you don't want to do it, you can help me wash clothes and cook. It's good for the couple to have a companion together. It happened that I was going to do e-commerce in Korea during that time, and I had plenty of time, so I decided to do it for her myself.
I don't know anything about visas, and I don't know where the embassy door is open. The first thing that comes to mind when applying for a visa is the travel agency. I went to a travel agency in Shenyang, and the old lady behind the counter saw her passport and threw it back to me directly, saying that it could not be done. Because of what? What happened? Fuck you!
In those days, I went to many travel agencies in Shenyang to apply for visas, and some of them simply stopped; Some can do it, just talk about collecting money, and some are ignorant; Some can be guaranteed, but we can't say one, two or three. It's not reliable at first glance.
To tell the truth, I am not a capable person. I'm still not famous, and I've been a bachelor for almost my whole life. However, over the years, I have traveled all over the country, sold clothes, opened restaurants, worked in factories and mixed scenes, not to mention seeing countless people and seeing some small worlds. Whether you are a doer or not, you can feel close to each other by listening to what you say. Seeing this, some people may be disgusted and say that you are so confident that you can find a second wife?
I was born in 1978. I majored in international trade and enrolled full-time. Height 180 cm, weight 80kg；; Long legs, double eyelids, football, basketball and badminton are all quasi-majors; Not to mention the charming scenery and the symmetrical trees, it is also the sunshine on the table. If you meet me in person, you will never associate me with a bachelor. You will think that I am the kind of man that most women like. I had sex with a female classmate when I was a freshman. My childhood friends have been together for several years. My parents met and got engaged. After graduation, her unit sent him to England for further study. After studying, she found a job there. At first, she told me to exercise for a few years, and I waited for her for six years. Finally, she married an old white man and stayed in England, bald. Later, the family also had several blind dates, either with short legs or small mouths, and they all broke up in discord, and fate did not come. Later, my father got lung cancer, so I took my father all over the world to find a famous doctor, have surgery, recuperate and find a wife.
Until I met my daughter-in-law, her name is Qin Hong, and she is also a rural baby. She didn't go to school for several years and got married early. Her husband is a driver. Married for two years, driving on the Qinghai-Tibet line, not coming down. So Qin Hong became a widow.
Qin Hong is kind-hearted and cheerful. She never bargains with others. She cries like a child when something happens. She had a marriage, which was nothing. I slept with other women, too. I'm still an old bachelor at such a big age. What choice can I have? What kind of bike do you want? I was just thinking about it, and I got the license.
When planning the wedding, my mother was in poor health and was hospitalized for injections every day. Later, the wedding was simply cancelled, and the daughter-in-law did not say anything. She said that as long as I was kind to her, she would never quarrel with me and lose her temper. She also said that she remarried, whether it was a wedding or not, it was a grievance.
After taking the wedding photos, I started a new life. My daughter-in-law is clean and tidy, and takes care of my mother very carefully. People who carry shit and urine never carry it. I am very grateful to her. They get along well.
Maybe their fates are too similar. When my parents got married, my father was 40 and my mother was 28. My mother had a short marriage before she married my father. Is it destiny takes a hand? Did you break the feng shui? Or is it providence? It's really puzzling. Later, I also went to Wudang Mountain for this purpose. That is beside the point. This time it's mainly about visas.
To get to the point, I went around Shenyang, but I didn't find a suitable place to apply for a visa, mainly because I didn't find anyone I could trust. I overheard that it was easy to get a visa in Qingdao, so I hurried on the train to Qingdao.
I rushed to the visa center in Qingdao first, and they said that my daughter-in-law's account can only be opened in Shenyang, not in Qingdao.
Later, I swept some large and small travel agencies. According to what I have seen and heard, I have come to the conclusion that it is indeed easier to get a visa here in Qingdao than in Shenyang, but many people refuse it. Moreover, it is required here that foreign hukou must provide social security, employment certificate and running salary. My daughter-in-law seems to have great difficulty in getting a visa here. Besides, I haven't met a good travel agency yet. I'm a little hesitant about what to do.
On Friday morning, an old classmate of mine introduced me to Qingdao Youdi Travel Agency, which can handle all kinds of Korean visas, and many people around me successfully got visas from him. I decided to go and have a look at it at once.
They are in an office building, where there are twenty or thirty people, and the place is not particularly large. There are piles of passports on the desk, which seems a bit crowded. The hurried footsteps of the staff were intertwined with the sound of the telephone, and the office was a busy scene. The young man who received me is Zhang zhen. He wears small glasses on the plane. He is very polite, organized, knowledgeable and professional.
Xiao Zhang explained my situation to me, and I asked him about his chances of winning the lottery. He said big brother, he applied for this job and remarried, and refused to sign several times before marriage. The embassy must doubt the purpose of your marriage. In addition, since neither of you has a stable job or income now, the embassy will worry about whether she can come back on time, so your application signing rate will not be too high. If you care about the signing rate, you can wait until things change, such as having children or something.
Of course I mind the signing rate, but I don't want to wait that long. I was a little desperate when I went back, and my mind was in a mess. I went back to the hotel to have a rest, but I still didn't give up. I want to talk to him again and see if there is any other way. I dialed Xiao Zhang's mobile phone and asked him to have a light meal together in the evening.
In the evening, we met as promised and had a very speculative chat. I think he is a good man, with reliable speech and quality. Unlike some travel agencies who brag about Daniel, it doesn't matter which consul they know as soon as they open their mouths. Why do you need to do this when you have so much skill and earn so little money? Even if you really have this ability, it goes without saying. Good wine needs no bush. You don't have to tell anyone.
In fact, I have no prejudice against intermediaries, because I know that in today's society, there are many invisible intermediaries who play a very important role, from buying houses and selling cars, transporting nannies to buying officials and bidding for projects. That year, I happened to talk about speculation with a friend who was a real estate agent, and worshipped Guan Gong and called him brother. At that time, he was still a small clerk sweeping the streets every day in the real estate agency. 20 12, became the regional manager of a chain real estate agency. With his help, I bought a suite in Shanghai, Hangzhou and Qingdao. Later, my father became seriously ill, went to see a doctor everywhere, and spent money like water. It was more than 8,000 to hang a Beijing expert number. I survived by those houses. My father was born in his forties, and I never gave him up. Actually, I still live in those houses. Thanks to my brother, he is my benefactor. Therefore, I like making friends very much.
This Xiao Zhang is not bad at present. Make friends. Even if the visa fails this time, it is not a bad thing to have such a friend to take care of you when you leave and enter the country. After some sweet talk, we are brothers. My brother works as a visa, so he must take care of his career. I gave him this visa naturally. We all drank too much that night. I remember the clearest sentence he said was "Brother! You are my brother. "
Seeing this, you may say, bachelor, you are amazing. In fact, it is true to apply for a visa, and it is also true to be a brother. We have no second thoughts. Later, every time Xiao Zhang came to Korea, I was my brother's escort. The arrangement was so clear that my brothers had to give up.
I asked him if he had a visa guarantee. I want to apply for a visa guarantee. He said yes, you can help me apply for half price, and then I will pay when I get a visa. Someone here may say, "bachelor, you have been cheated, silly fork, and there is no protection at all." "Bachelor, you were cheated, and face here. I only spent XXXX on the guarantee. " It doesn't matter, all brothers are commensurate. Are you short of money? Anyway, we refused the visa so many times and applied when the conditions were good, but we just couldn't do it. Why not trust my brother for once? Even if my brother received the visa for free, how many thousands of dollars should I give him?
I have turned over every invitation of Fan Han several times and pondered it several times. Some of them were made by myself, and some were made with very little money. But I analyzed it. On the surface, we are similar to others. We all applied for the same visa, but there are too many differences:
The daughter-in-law has a job and social security. If you don't go back to China and kill her, no one will believe you. Our daughter-in-law has no job or education, and she is at home everywhere.
People are invited to buy large insurance for tax bills and tap water. I used to have it, but it didn't work. There is nothing now.
People got married for the first time and had children, but we got married for the second time and had no children.
People got married in 5678, and we just got the certificate, but the wedding didn't happen;
People's hukou goes north to Guangzhou, and our hukou is in the northeast countryside;
People's passports have been to the United States, Japan and Canada, and we have been to Datianling as far as possible;
Other people's daughters-in-law, doctors, civil servants and our daughters-in-law should be taught to write their own names.
Details determine success or failure. There are too many differences in details, and we will be finished if we compare them. It is also boring to compare with others. To tell the truth, whether we are really lovers may be questioned by the embassy.
At this point, I gave my daughter-in-law's passport, ID card, household registration book, 2-inch photo, a copy of my landing permit, ID card, passport, household registration book and marriage certificate, and that's all. He also wants some wedding photos, which he should have, but he really doesn't have.
I believe in his character, and I feel at ease. I can go out and do more things I can, and I am more relaxed. More importantly, I have a brother.
A few days later, my daughter-in-law received a phone call from the Qingdao Embassy and asked some questions, such as when to get married? What's the husband's name? What does a husband do? What should I do? Why didn't you provide those materials of water insurance? Why don't you have a wedding? What to do in Korea and so on are all truthful answers.
Three or four days later, I got a call from my brother. "Brother, my sister-in-law's visa has come down ..."
In this way, my daughter-in-law came to me as she wished.
Looking back, it is not easy to be full of frustrations and helplessness. We are all China people who have left their homes. Wouldn't it be better to help each other more? So, I decided to share it with the old irons. Maybe some people scoff, maybe some people laugh, so what? That's what I want to say. Everyone should be less deceived, and the bad guys have nowhere to hide.
I often say to my daughter-in-law: No matter what, I will never leave you or let you leave me. I will love you well, and you should cherish all this. Look, how many trips I made to Changchun, Shenyang and Qingdao and how much money I spent! In the future, you can call me husband when someone is around and master when no one is around. From then on, in the dead of night, Master's voice came and went …
A joke is a joke, I summed it up,
1. The intermediary whose address is at Meihekou, Shuangyashan, need not be considered at all. The consulate is in a big city like Shenyang and Beijing, so you can't go to those ravines to find an intermediary. They said I can't believe it.
2, the intermediary said that the invitation was not easy to handle, first apply for a tourist visa, and then change F 1 after going to Korea, so I directly blacked it out; My hukou is not in Beishangguang. Can I get a tourist visa without a job and income? It's sheer nonsense;
3. The intermediary is XX\XX, so I won't directly consider it. Those people are so deceitful, their mouths are full of unknown addresses, and they don't blush when lying.
Anyone who asks for a deposit before signing the guarantee will not be considered. Anyone who pays the money first, regardless of the deposit, is attracted by our little deposit.
5, flat delivery, I won't tell you anything, I can't ask anything, people may be really NB, so don't think about it, it's normal to have no time to wait on us.
6. Visa applicants work part-time in newsstands, barbershops, grocery stores, massage parlors, etc. I may have changed my hands thirty times, but it is normal that I can't find my passport in the end. If their passports are still there, it's not normal.
7. I won't consider travel agencies in Korea. This visa was issued in China, and they also transferred it to the domestic travel agency. I just want to find a hand.
8. I have a little knowledge of visas, but I can't see professionalism. All I know is that I am close to you, and I am careful.
9. If you want to apply for a guarantee, the price is 580,000. Don't do this. This visa is not worth that much money. He can shout out this price because she gave him a high price at home. Let's go to his house and talk.
10, those who post on the internet all day, answer questions for this and answer questions for that want to arrest you.
Some people say that this kind of experience cannot be copied. Everyone can't be sworn brothers when applying for a visa, can they? Yes, not to become sworn brothers. I write so much to tell you that if you find the right person, the price will be reasonable and there will be less trouble. Don't assume that everyone is a bad person, a good person or an occasional one. Those who have quality are not faked, but are generally cultivated like that. Don't be afraid when you meet difficulties. Think about it. I am a timid bachelor. I'm sure you can do the same. Let's stop here!