The rise and fall of a family

The rise and fall of a family

The rise and fall of a family, the prosperity or decline of a family, are related to many factors, but they are always inseparable from these three people, one is the old man, One is the wife, and the last is the child. Only when these three are good can a family be good, so the rise and fall of a family is very important. The rise and fall of a family 1

The continuation of family bloodline from generation to generation requires a solid foundation. Especially after looking at the long-lasting famous families in history, we can sum up some experience and wisdom. Mr. Lao She's "Four Generations Under One Roof" can be said to be one of the most vivid teaching materials. A book is a microcosm of an era and the best witness to the rise and fall of a family.

From Mr. Qi’s initial prosperity to his final decline, time is an important reason that cannot be ignored. From this we can also see that his grandfather, wife and children are important factors that determine the rise and fall of the family. Whether they are optimistic and open-minded, open-minded and polite, and whether they can follow the family's good family tradition and family motto play a vital role in the direction of the family's fortune.

There is a certain truth to the fact that people cannot be rich for more than three generations. Many families have experienced three generations of prosperity but cannot escape the curse of three generations of decline. At the same time, those families that have been prosperous for hundreds of years have also used their business wisdom to break this curse. Spell. The reason is that the family has an enlightened old man, a diligent and thrifty hostess, and well-disciplined children.

The first person: Grandfather

Having an old man in the family is like having a treasure.

Where can we look at the rise and fall of a family? The old man is the root, and the old man's weather is the family's weather. Therefore, observing the old man's weather can tell the rise and fall of the family. Zeng Guofan said: "If the weather is strong, you will be happy even if you are hungry. If the weather is bad, you will be sad even if you are full." Their children are promising and their descendants have a bright future. Even if they have no food to eat, the old man will still have confidence, righteousness, energy and be very happy.

On the contrary, although you have a house to live in and your salary is very high, you are worried, sensitive, suspicious, angry, resentful, temperamental, and resentful every day. You dislike everyone and criticize everyone. This is It's a bad image.

The spirit of the elderly is very important. As long as the elderly in any family are happy sooner or later, this family must be harmonious and happy. The elderly in the family are often angry, and the family members all look sad. The family atmosphere is depressing and dull, and life is bound to be unsatisfactory. In the long run, the family's fortune is bound to decline.

The second person: Wife

There is an old saying: "A good wife at home is better than thousands of hectares of fertile land."

This reminds me that there used to be an old man named Wang Fengyi in the Northeast. He was from the late Qing Dynasty and the early Republic of China. Mr. Wang Fengyi is illiterate, but very intelligent. He said, "Where is the source of the chaos in the world?" There is something wrong with women. If a woman is healthy and the children she gives birth to are good children, the world will be at peace. So he set up a free school for women in Northeast China, specializing in teaching women. How many schools have been opened? More than 700 schools have been established.

People often say that a good woman lasts for three generations. When a daughter is obedient and filial to her parents, the family will be happy.

As wives, if they are gentle, virtuous, and keep their own rights, their husbands can trust them to manage the family, and such a family will be happy.

Once they have children, they take on the important responsibility of raising a new life. It is said that children are like the kind of mother they are.

A child is a blank sheet of paper, painted by the people and things around him, and the mother has the greatest influence on them. Therefore, it is very important to see whether a family is prosperous and whether the hostess's character is gentle and elegant.

The third person: children

Zeng Guofan once said that there are three ways to look at the success or failure of a family:

First, look at how late the children and grandchildren sleep. If you don't get up until the sun has risen very high, it means that the family will gradually slack off; secondly, check whether the descendants have done housework, because the habit of hard work affects a person's life; thirdly, check whether the descendants have done any housework. I am reading the classics of sages: If jade is not polished, it will not become a useful tool. If a person does not learn, he does not know righteousness.

The Zeng family has been prosperous for a long time in Chinese history and can be regarded as a model of family development. The three points summarized by Zeng Guofan, as the most important person in the family, are quite enlightening for readers.

The truth is obvious when you think about it. The hard-working children mean that the family is hard-working. Even if it is not rich, it is still a well-off family. Laziness in children means that their parents are not strict in their upbringing and are spoiled, and they are not diligent in all aspects of their lives. The future of such children can be imagined.

Children are the hope of a family and directly determine whether the family will prosper or decline. If the family fortune accumulated by the ancestors' hard work is squandered by the children's generation, the family's fortune will decline. On the contrary, if children can inherit the fine traditions of their ancestors, lead by example and work hard, the prosperity of the family will be just around the corner.

The fortune of a family is inseparable from the atmosphere of the old man, the aura of the woman and the upbringing of the children.

People often say, "A hundred years of life is based on early childhood education." This is a summary of the people's experience over thousands of years, and it is a full affirmation of the importance of the important role of the family.

Families with good fortune are harmonious and happy because of the open-mindedness of the elderly, the virtuousness of the women and the understanding of the children. Otherwise, even if you have a huge fortune, it will be ruined by the resentment of the old man, the anger of the woman, and the temper of the child.

These are actually the Feng Shui of a family. Good Feng Shui actually means that everyone has a good attitude and a good mood. When people's hearts are kind and uplifting, family members will naturally form a culture and atmosphere of unity, mutual help, consideration and tolerance, diligence and thrift in housekeeping, and kindness in the world. In this way, good family traditions and family mottos can be passed down happily, allowing the family to continue to thrive and develop. The Rise and Fall of a Family 2

1. Understand the spirit of hard work

Hard work is the fine tradition and style of the Chinese nation. Similarly, every member of the family also needs this kind of spirit. The spirit of hard work. Suppose there is a breadwinner in the family, and all the financial resources are earned by him, while other family members are spending desperately. Just like where he is moving bricks, and you are working hard to smash bricks, it is very difficult for him to build the wall of his home.

I have heard something like this before. My father is the backbone of the family. All the family’s source of income depends on him alone. My father also works very hard and desperately. The mother takes care of the child at home, and at first the two of them are in harmony. Until the child grew up, because his parents did not provide correct guidance, he became a spendthrift child. In terms of clothes, he wants brand-name clothes, and in terms of food, he wants the most expensive ones. His parents also love their only child very much, so they don't stop him from spending money randomly. The child's lavish behavior attracted many friends who wanted to enjoy themselves, because as long as he ate or went to a bar with them, it was all paid for by the child. The neglect and doting of parents made children more and more good at spending money, but only the father was making money in the family. After that, the family economy became increasingly depressed.

The child blindly enjoys the superior living conditions brought by his parents and does not learn the spirit of hard work, which eventually makes the family's finances difficult. The family's finances were brought down. The spirit of hard work needs to be cultivated. Parents cannot just pay blindly. They must also let their children learn to live independently, let them understand the difficulties of life, and let them learn to work hard. Only in this way can the family prosper day by day. The spirit of hard work needs to be possessed by every family member in order for the family to develop better.

2. When a family is in harmony, everything is prosperous

Harmony is a common word that is often heard in life. It is also applicable to the family. "When the family is in harmony, everything is prosperous" is also applicable to the family. . Just imagine, if everyone in the family is constantly having conflicts, will their mood be affected when they study or work every day? This will affect their academic performance and work performance. If they do not have good academic performance, they will not be able to get into a good university, and their work performance will be affected. If you don't do well, it will be difficult to get promoted. This will seriously affect the family's economic income, and the family's prosperity will be affected. If family members have a harmonious relationship, live within a harmonious range every day, and are in a happy mood, they will concentrate on their studies and performance. This will be conducive to the development of each family member, and the family will get better and better.

3. Unity twisted into a rope

As the saying goes, "unity is powerful", if every member of the family has the same goal, that is to make the family more developed. , then this force will be very powerful.

When facing a family crisis, everyone can unite to resist and face it together. This is the greatest luck for a family. When a family member encounters difficulties, everyone will discuss and discuss together to help him overcome the difficulties. This will make this family member feel very warm. When other members encounter difficulties in the future, they will help him overcome the difficulties. We will also stand up to protect others. This is the power of unity. As long as a family has the unity of a rope, then no matter how difficult it is, it can successfully overcome it. Such a family will surely prosper day by day and eventually become prosperous.