Fortune teller says children are expensive _ What is fortune teller saying children are expensive?
First of all, this girl must behave appropriately, handle things calmly and see the world calmly. A girl can be fresh and lovely, and she can speak freely, but it is really not easy for a girl to look expensive. As the saying goes, it takes three generations to train a noble. When I say expensive, I mean that girls are elegant, dignified and decent, and have the elegance and calmness of a good family.
Secondly, this girl must be generous and open-minded, with extraordinary taste, good family education and high personal accomplishment. As the saying goes, it is better to marry a housewife than a slave. Generally speaking, although everyone's female inferiority is from humble origins, they have all been exposed to aristocratic families and influenced by many aspects. She has met celebrities, handled major events, weathered difficulties and escaped the tide. These rich life experiences can't be bought with money sometimes. Most girls in small families are prone to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss and are short-sighted, so they don't look so expensive and generous.
Third, this girl must be considerate, light-handed, knowledgeable and powerful. Girls from good backgrounds generally pay attention to all aspects of learning and self-cultivation, have their own firm goals and pursuits in life, and have a broad mind and outstanding vision. So the upper class in the west refused to marry the lower class. And China said suitable, also is this truth, your girl, who can't bad.
A person with these four qualities is to bring his own "extravagance". Congratulations on having one.
First, study and study.
Reading aims at sages. Reading can make people understand that reading can improve the ideological realm of life and enlighten the wisdom of life. Reading does not necessarily make people noble, but it will certainly not make people vulgar. There may not be a golden house in the book, but there must be something more valuable than gold.
The origin of wealth is like a dream. There is no immortal who doesn't learn. Who hasn't read thousands of books? A person's life, if he develops the habit of loving reading and learning, will certainly bring "extravagance" in his life and make his life different.
Books are the ladder of human progress. All the wisdom, experience, knowledge and truth of being a man are in sage books, classics and textbooks. If a person can study, he will certainly improve his ideological realm, increase his knowledge and wisdom, improve his personality cultivation and cognitive ability to the world, and make his life go up a storey still higher, stand tall and see far.
This is an era of knowledge explosion. If you don't know how to learn, you will soon become a laggard of the times and be eliminated by society and others. Only by studying can you enrich your mind, increase your knowledge, keep up with the rhythm of the times, become a leader of the times and have your own place in society.
A person who loves reading and learning can learn astronomy and geography, and make the past serve the present. A man of great talent can study and study all his life, and he will be very bookish. This is the reason why a person is "expensive" and valuable.
Second, cultivate self-cultivation.
Life is a process of continuous self-improvement. The noblest quality of a person is the cultivation of personality and the promotion of morality. A person can cultivate self-cultivation, correct his own shortcomings, be kind to himself and others, be neither vulgar nor degenerate, and always sublimate his personality. This is the realm of sages and the noblest "luxury" in life.
It is said that life is a practice. In the course of life, we have too much pain and trouble, too much desire and selfishness, too much complaints and resentment. In the face of life, it is the perfection of personality and moral cultivation to be able to put aside selfishness, push yourself and others, sacrifice yourself and contribute to society. My heart is selfless and broad. Without me, I will care about the world, I will have less troubles and pain, and I will be happier!
What is practice? Correct your incorrect behavior! Ceng Zi said in "The University": The way of a university is to show virtue, be close to the people and stop at perfection. The purpose of a person's practice is to stop at perfection, turn his perfection into great love, be virtuous and close to the people, and let everyone feel your kindness.
Self-cultivation is to change one's mind and behavior, make one's mind safe, behave correctly without overstepping the rules, not only have beautiful mind and behavior, but also practice both inside and outside to have a perfect personality.
Self-cultivation must start with one heart. Life is just a thought, the difference between one thought and another is heaven, the difference between one thought and another is hell, the difference between one thought and another can be good, and the difference between one thought and another can be evil. Take a step back. Only by thinking about goodness can we complete the cultivation of personality.
Life is you, me and him. Don't use small kindness, don't use small evil. Good is rewarded with good, evil with evil, evil with good, cultivate one's morality, and life will be blessed and noble.
Third, accumulate virtue and do good.
Life is a cause and effect. Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. Good without accumulation is not enough to become famous, and evil without accumulation is not enough to ruin the body. If there are good families, there will be Qing Yu, and if there are bad families, there will be more disasters. If a person can truly accumulate virtue and do good deeds, silently sacrifice himself and make contributions to society, there will be real blessings, and a person can also be "rich and expensive" because he is "big and good".
Life is as you sow, so you reap. The true virtue of doing good is to seek cultivation, not utility, but compassion. If you are in trouble, I should help you, not because you offended me. I want to see your excitement and even gloat. Good for good is the real accomplishment and virtue, and it is also a life.
Buddha said that three generations of cause and effect, six divisions in the wheel of karma, good people bully the sky, a person's fame and fortune, would not come without it. You are rich in this life because of your good deeds in your last life and in the past. If you don't believe in cause and effect, you will do whatever you want. If you live, you will be rewarded by the world and punished by law.
The human heart is a field, which can accumulate virtue and do good deeds. Fukuda planted it himself, and he took his "wealth" with him all his life.
Fourth, be modest and low-key, and work hard silently.
The bottom of the water is the sea, and people keep a low profile. A person can be humble and low-key, and he will certainly tolerate everything, and work silently to make himself stronger. Pride makes people lag behind, modesty makes people progress, and modesty keeps a low profile. Those who work silently are all "hidden dragons". Once the opportunity is ripe, they will certainly "soar to the sky", making people sit up and take notice and become the best in life.
Life is a hard work, and there will be gains. He who eats hard is the master. There will be no pie in the sky, and there will be no free lunch in the world. If a person wants to counterattack in life, break the cocoon into a butterfly and turn around beautifully, only by quietly working hard will there be a process of quantitative change to qualitative change and a successful day.
If a person can be modest, he will not make enemies for himself, and he will have room for his own growth. He will not be attacked and jealous by others, and he will be strong one day. If a person can be modest and low-key, he can work silently. This is his own "extravagance". The harder he works, the luckier he will be. The harder he works, the better his life will be!
A person who can study, cultivate self-cultivation, accumulate virtue and do good deeds, be modest and low-key, and work quietly is the "expensive spirit" in his life and will have good luck.
Buddha said: If a person is expensive, he must have these four characteristics. Let's see if you have it.
First, be generous to others.
The ancients said: "virtue can carry things", which means that as long as people have good virtue, nothing can be carried. At the same time, being virtuous is a blessing, and kindness can win the respect of others. If a person has no virtue, there will be no happiness, and kindness will eventually be rewarded. If you want to live more and more smoothly, you must first widen your heart. The Maitreya Buddha in the temple shows all sentient beings with an image full of joy, in order to warn all sentient beings to understand tolerance. As the saying goes, "the prime minister can punt in his stomach." As a man, you need to be generous and kind to others in order to achieve yourself.
Second, inner compassion.
Kindness is the key factor of a good character. People always have a kind heart in order to be admired. Buddhism also said that those who do good, although the good news has not arrived, the disaster is far away; Those who do evil, although the disaster has not arrived, are far from being blessed. Doing good deeds will form habits, and a person's good words and deeds will affect the words and deeds of people around him, and more and more people do good deeds. There are big and small goodness, so don't always try to be great goodness. As the saying goes, "Don't be small." Small as dust is, it can pile up into mountains. Virtue, though small, can become a mountain of morality when accumulated.
Third, practice diligently.
Buddhism believes that life is to practice, that is, to cultivate one's mind and do good, that inner compassion is to do good, and that cultivating one's mind is to practice Buddhism. Master Liu Zu put forward: "The heart is the Buddha." Explain that Buddhism is in the heart, and Buddhism also pays attention to cultivating the heart. Nan huaijin, a master of Chinese studies, once said: "Buddha is the heart, Tao is the bone, and Confucianism is the table." The Buddha cultivates the mind, nurtures the nature, and the nature produces goodness. The foundation of kindness, and the cultivation of mind must be refined into Buddhism. Instead of hatred and jealousy, indifference and calmness, live gracefully and freely.