How are "lazy cancer patients" developed?

If laziness does not produce bad habits or disasters, it usually does produce depression. ?——Smith

In life, I believe you will often hear people laugh at themselves and say, "I am a lazy cancer patient." You may not think so. So what are the real "lazy cancer patients" like?

Instead of cooking, I order takeout

I don’t wash my clothes, so I just throw all the clothes in the washing machine

Instead of going to the supermarket for shopping, even the express delivery will be delivered to your door

In order to reduce the need to go to the toilet, I don’t even drink water

The daily extreme exercise is to turn over

Try not to sit if you can lie down, and try not to stand if you can sit

Places that are out of reach are called far away

Most lazy cancers are extremely difficult to cure because patients are too lazy to treat

Don’t compare yourself to me, because I am too lazy to compare with you

Have you been tricked?

The psychology of lazy cancer patients is generally manifested in two aspects:

First, laziness in thinking.

Lazy people often think about tomorrow. Knowing that something should be done today but always looking forward to doing it tomorrow; thinking about relaxing every weekend, piling up homework or tasks until they have to be done before completing them. Lazy people often have the idea of ​​relying on others, thinking that since you have gone out, you might as well bring me a meal; since others can do it anyway, I just listen...

The second is behavioral laziness.

Ideological laziness will inevitably lead to behavioral laziness. You know clearly that you should do something right away, but you still put it off until the last minute and work overtime, or you just push through it, and then you start to feel anxious when the results are due; you always seem to be procrastinating, lazy, unmotivated, and unmotivated when doing things. Not proactive and diligent.

Why are some people extremely lazy?

First, people have a strong sense of dependence. They always place their hopes on others, rely on others for everything, have no independent opinions, and lack independence.

The second is the lack of self-motivation, burnout, low demands on oneself, easy to be satisfied, and no motivation to do other things.

The third is escape psychology, escaping from things that may make him feel frustrated in real life, preferring to be thought that he is too lazy to do rather than lacking ability; the fourth is to avoid things that may make him feel frustrated in real life. It's human nature, it's just that they have brought this nature to the extreme. People like to stay in the comfort zone, but they have other pursuits besides the comfort zone, so they will not just let themselves go and keep themselves in the comfort zone.

However, patients with lazy cancer are not as comfortable as others seem. On the contrary, they may encounter more emotional distress: anxiety, fear, self-disgust, and self-esteem. Low sense of worth, shame, low self-esteem, etc. These negative emotional experiences may be several times that of an ordinary person.

Since it is so uncomfortable, why not work hard?

The reason is that he has a deep-rooted idea in his heart: Since it is like this, then let it be like this. It is not better, but it is not much worse.

Live in fantasy all day long and never take action.

However, lazy cancer may actually cause cancer. Being too lazy not only destroys a person's will, but also destroys the person's body and increases the risk of cancer.

So, although life is good but not getting better, and the difference is not much different, in order for us to continue to be poor, do we need to take appropriate action?