"Revenge alone will be ungrateful."
Cao Ge said in Weibo:
I will always remember two kinds of people,
One is the one who helped me in my most difficult time.
The second is the person who got me into this predicament.
Yesterday, I took a rare hard seat on the train. Actually, I have a sleeper, but I didn't buy it. The reason is that I feel depressed every day. I used to read some books. Now I have less and less time to read books. Not only do I fidget, but I always make excuses for myself.
You can always find many plausible reasons to do what you resist.
A hard seat on the train will force me to stay seated. Although I can't sleep in the sleeper, I always feel that reading while lying down is bad for my eyes. Finally, I want to be positive. I took my ticket and found the corresponding seat and sat down. I found the guy I hated most in high school opposite. At that time, neither he nor his little object went to trouble. I cried many times at night because of their pestering. There were too many concerns at that time. Of course, to put it bluntly, it is also timid, so I suffered a lot.
I am a strange person. I still don't like people I don't like after five or six years. I don't know if this shows that I stand firm and look at people impartially, or that I haven't made progress like them in recent years.
I sent a circle of friends and said:
I always thought I was mature enough, until I found out by car that I was a person who was annoyed by me in high school and wanted to rush over and hit him.
Many people answer that they are, too, saying that it has nothing to do with age at all, and there is a love-hate relationship at an old age. It is said that time can dilute everything, but no one has ever suggested that time can erase everything.
However, some people still call me stingy in the comments. For many years, I still remember, being like me was so boring.
Well, as soon as I heard this, my temper came up. I have to make it clear.
A while ago, Degang Guo sent a Weibo, which probably meant that you didn't help me many years ago and never recovered. Now you stand on the moral high ground and accuse me of standing by.
Times have changed now. Ten years in the East and ten years in the West, it's up to me now.
Of course, my circle of friends on WeChat has also been criticized, with a maximum of 5,000 friends. Degang Guo doesn't want to run for office, and the Internet is full of people who scold him. Everyone says that Lao Guo has always been petty, and now he has hated others for one thing for more than ten years. Being like this is really a failure.
Degang Guo and I have the same personality, and we are not angry. He sent another Weibo response.
It means, I just don't forgive, I just narrow-minded!
What is tolerance? I don't quite understand the popular understanding of this word, but I have heard a saying since I was a child that "to despise hatred means ingratitude." It means that people who look down on hatred will also look down on the goodness of others. Conversely, it is easy to bear grudges and be grateful. The more people who have a deep memory of being in prison, the more they will remember who was in need at that time and who pushed everyone at that moment.
In fact, Degang Guo is not easy. When he first married his daughter-in-law Shine Wong, he was quite down and out. He has no money and no face to divorce with his children. At that time, Wang Hui was already a corner of Tianjin, so to some extent, he belonged to the man who lived behind his wife.
However, many years later, Degang Guo has become a first-line brand, synonymous with fashion local tyrants in China, with a successful career and a great reputation. It is also happy to have a son in middle age. According to the star's marriage law, it's time to change wives. But stay with him, or with a young wife.
Similarly, Tony Leung Ka Fai, Ang Lee and Emil Wakin Chau were accompanied by their wives when they were most weak. Ten years in Hedong, ten years in Hexi, the wind and water turn, and they strive to increase opportunities. Finally, they got angry. However, without exception, they still love their wives all the year round.
Lao Guo scolded many colleagues face to face. From a distance, Weibo sent a message, making a diversion, and many people were directly or indirectly satirized by him.
However, for Hou, he is always respectful and keeps saying that he is his lifelong teacher wherever he goes.
At that time, Degang Guo was helpless in the capital. Later, I took him in, found him a job, praised him and gave him a chance to show off.
It was a post-achievement.
Many people are angry and rich, so they will resist others mentioning the difficult times they can't do. They always think that this is a head lower than people.
But I never mentioned it. After many years, Hou mentioned it, and his tone was still full of gratitude and excitement.
Therefore, he passed on Master's love to his disciple Yun-peng Yue.
Xiaoping Cray didn't say that he was a poor child before the cross talk. /kloc-at the age of 0/5, he went to a restaurant as a waiter, miscalculated the money for two bottles of beer, and was scolded by the guests for more than three hours in public, which led him to be directly dismissed and abused by the boss in front of all the staff.
When I mentioned this past, Xiaoping Clay, who has always been honest, said firmly: "I still hate him, I still hate him."
To be a man, you should distinguish between love and hate. If you are kind to me, you should try your best to repay him. And those who mistreat themselves should always remember that they are bullied because of their incompetence and weakness.
You don't have to retaliate against him, but don't just say forgive him.
Things are dangerous, and the road left for ordinary people is not easy. Along the way, all of us received countless supercilious runs, sarcasm and ridicule. It was their unkindness to you and me, and they stabbed me in the back when I was most vulnerable. This kind of sadness, this kind of inexperience, is always difficult to say.
As Xiaoping Cray said in the movie, "Once it rains, the road will be covered with mud, and each of us will have to cross it, and I only have one life."
It's hard to walk on a road full of swamps, but if you still push me and step on my foot at this time, it seems irrelevant on the surface, but in fact it has left me devastated and may never recover.
I don't have to repay you the way you treated me. I don't have that much time, and I don't have that much heart for you. But tell you, I will never say that I forgot a knife in the cold and a foot in the mud.
You call me stingy or stingy, and it is precisely because of your sarcasm and sneer that I vowed to live a good life.