An old monk's warning: there are villains around you. Say these two sentences silently and immediately resolve them.
As the saying goes, "The hardest thing is to fight the villains." It is inevitable to be entangled in villains in life.
If you want to stay away from villains and change your destiny, you must learn to solve yourself.
a few years ago, when I was playing with my friends, I passed a temple and went in for a visit. I happened to meet an old monk. After seeing the two of me, the old monk asked my friend, "What troubles have the donors encountered recently? Things? "
My friend said, "Master, when my friends met the other day, I accidentally said a wrong sentence and offended a friend who was there at that time.
After that, that friend used his job to slander me everywhere, spilled my dirty water and ruined my reputation.
I offered to apologize, but he didn't accept it. Later, I learned from another friend that he saw me unhappy a long time ago. This is just an excuse.
this has a great impact on my work and life. Now, I really don't know what to do. "
After listening, the old monk smiled and said,
"People have a thousand faces and everything. The world under the tip of the iceberg is the real world of undercurrent. Life needs the gaze of illusion.
has it ever occurred to donors that these constant troubles are actually related to your heart? If you continue to think like this, it will only aggravate the conflict. "
After listening, my friend eagerly asked the old monk how to solve it.
Seeing his friend's sincere attitude, the old monk taught him two sentences and warned him: When there are little people around him, please read these two sentences quietly and then solve them.
All evil conditions have a causal relationship.
Learn to solve them with patience.
The old monk said, "Everything has a cause and effect. Life is not smooth sailing. When things are not going well, don't get angry and argue with others in a hurry, but reflect on yourself and learn to solve them with patience."
There has been a saying in China since ancient times: It is a better choice to solve the enemy rather than settle down.
patience is an important lesson in life. As long as a person is alive, it is impossible not to encounter it. It's too harmful to get hysterical every time you fight.
in fact, most successful people know how to solve problems patiently.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Chen Lin, consultant of Yuan Shao, wrote three articles about Cao Cao's crimes. He not only called Cao Cao worthless, but also criticized Cao Cao's father and ancestors and angered Cao Cao.
However, after defeating Yuan Shao, Cao Cao not only did not get rid of Chen Lin, but also took on a heavy responsibility. As a result, Cao Cao won a reputation for being good at accepting advice and respecting wise men, and attracted powerful generals and celebrities from all over the world to vote.
As the saying goes, "When the wind and waves subside, take a step back and broaden the sky" is not unreasonable.
mature ears of wheat know how to bow their heads. In many cases, tolerance and bowing are to protect yourself, avoid letting yourself eat too much unnecessary losses, don't be impulsive when encountering things, and solve these problems with patience to gain advantages and avoid disadvantages.
If we stick to each other's mistakes and keep calm in negative emotions, we will not only be unable to solve the problem, but also our work and life will be affected by bad conditions, which will make the situation chaotic.
yelling is not the root of the problem. On the contrary, tolerance, patience, inner peace and virtue are the opposite.
There is a proverb in China: Everything should be put aside so that we can meet each other in the future.
It means that we must have room to do things, and we can't absolutely do this, otherwise it will be embarrassing and difficult to do in the future.
impulse is the devil. From the moment resentment and anger began, you lost.
Therefore, no matter what you do, you can't do it at once, let go of your grievances, think more about the difficulties and difficulties of others, don't care about others, "let go" and let go of the past, so don't worry. , can solve the threat of villains.
The villain will also change you
This is a reverse bodhisattva, which can provide you with diligent help.
The old monk said, "No villain has only evil thoughts in his heart. Maybe he is a villain who hurts you today, but in the future he may be your noble person, a bodhisattva who helps you move forward. "
as the saying goes, En is impermanent.
Life is alive, ranging from decades to hundreds of years. The so-called "feng shui turn", the changes in the relationship between people are often subtle.
Granny Liu in A Dream of Red Mansions was once a "rural old woman" looked down upon by the Jia family. Who would have thought that when the Jia family fell, it was Grandma Liu who saved Wang Xifeng's daughter.
everything has two sides.
According to Buddhists, the so-called villain is actually here to help you. He is a reverse bodhisattva and can provide you with diligent help.
A reader said: I met a terrible leader when I was a child. The other side counted all the bureaucracies and lied. He always gives me small shoes. I must do everything he admits, but I owe all the credit to his name. .
My heart is very painful, but due to the pressure of life, I dare not face him, so I can only take my dissatisfaction home after work, making my family miserable.
Later, I couldn't stand it anymore and decided to go out alone, so I have my present company. Although the first few years were really difficult, looking back now, I really appreciate this leader.
if it weren't for him, if it weren't for his desperation, I might still be paid a small salary, looking at the faces of big leaders and small leaders, and then living trembling.
As the saying goes, "The sharp edge of the sword comes from sharpness, while the fragrance of plums comes from bitter cold."
Every adversity is self-tempering and progress. You think those frustrating things may be the factors that force you to move forward.
We shouldn't hate villains,
On the contrary, we should be grateful.
There is a saying in "Mencius: Tell the world": Therefore, heaven will come to Sri Lankan people. They must first endure their thoughts, exercise their muscles, starve their skin, empty their bodies and destroy their actions, so they are willing to endure it. Nothing.
one can endure as much slander as possible and as much praise as possible. Getting rid of suffering will make you have stronger spirit and ability to accomplish things that you could not do before.
The existence of villains makes us more aware of our own shortcomings and deficiencies, and accumulates the strength to move forward in constant injuries.
Therefore, we should not hold grudges against villains, on the contrary, be grateful.
As the old monk said to my friend,
The villains always cheat, frame up and betray their faith, all of which will destroy the blessing.
They use the price of harmful blessings to realize their own lives. If you don't appreciate it, will you still blame each other?
thinking like this suddenly makes the whole person clear!