An arrow goes through the heart: a person's mouth is really a feng shui of a family.
Li Baoli never thought that this was the first thing Ma Xuewu said to her after she moved into her new house.
She didn't expect that the next few things made her unexpected.
Nuo Nuo's husband, who has been very passive in front of her, began to go out early and come back late, and went to the hotel to check in with his female colleagues.
Li Baoli followed her and secretly reported them to the police for prostitution, which led to her husband being dismissed by the unit and then being notified to be laid off.
Ma Xuewu jumped into the river in despair, leaving no message for Li Baoli in his suicide note.
My friend Xiao Jing said there was something wrong with their house.
Ma Xuewu was the director of the new house. In Xiao Jing's view, seven or eight roads downstairs pass through the house, like a sharp arrow shooting at the house, which is called "an arrow through the heart" in Feng Shui.
But Li Baoli doesn't believe in anything. She vowed to make this family glow.
Facing the elderly mother-in-law and young son, she just provoked the whole family with a "shoulder pole", and her son was successfully admitted to the university.
From this perspective, Li Baoli is a very strong woman, which is very sympathetic and admirable.
But in the eyes of her mother-in-law and son, she always owes her mother-in-law a son and her son a father. She will spend the rest of her life paying off her debts.
My son disowned her and kicked her out of the house after he was admitted to the university.
"Brother, although we do rough work, our wives are very virtuous, so we live much more comfortably than you."
"You are a foreigner, and you are also a cadre, but so what? It's pathetic that you have been in charge of such a woman all your life. "
Although Li Baoli is only a market vendor, he has an innate sense of superiority. He looked down on Ma Xuewu, who was born and raised in his bones, and married him purely because he was an intellectual.
Strong personality, and tide wait for no man's mouth, haggle over every ounce, aggressive, let Ma Xuewu is a scholar met a soldier, rational couldn't say for sure, naturally no position at home.
Even if Li Baoli called him a "son of a bitch" and a "useless man", he could only choose to smile and be silent.
The anguish in my heart can be imagined.
This is the stupidity of Li Baoli.
After Ma Xuewu filed for divorce, she quickly told her young son about it, hoping to get sympathy from the child's tears.
After discovering her husband's affair, she suddenly stood at the commanding heights of morality and had no reflection on herself.
When a friend goes home for dinner, he scolds her husband in front of outsiders, with no regard for his own dignity.
My mother-in-law's old house was demolished and betrayed. She put on an act in front of her mother-in-law, directly exposed her husband's ugliness, praised his shortcomings and poked him where it hurts.
Strong, nagging, caring, revealing ugliness, promoting short, getting along with husband and wife, Li Baoli almost stepped on it.
Can feng shui be good at home with such a mouth?
It doesn't matter how strong a woman is out there. At home, she should have the gentleness and thoughtfulness peculiar to women. Otherwise, she is polite to outsiders but aggressive to her family. So, how can home be home?
"Bao Xiao, have you finished your homework?"
"Bao Xiao, go to bed early."
Li Baoli could do nothing about his son's study. He can only say something weak and can't give substantive help.
Even in life, she has never really communicated with her husband and son. She just said she was cool, thinking that as long as she said something, she had done her duty, and the rest had nothing to do with it. It is her own speech credit, and it is someone else's fault that it is broken.
This verbal and task-oriented couple is doomed to have an irreparable rift between her and her son.
In fact, it is the cultural level that limits her concept and living habits that limit her cultural level.
My son Bao Xiao took a picture of Zhou Fen and said to her, "I found this in my father's book. He knows you can't find it without looking. "
Li Baoli thinks this woman has ruined her family.
The son asked, which one is broken?
Li Baoli's alarm directly caused Ma Xuewu to lose his official position, be laid off, lose face and dignity spiritually, and find no place for his unit and family.
This is unreasonable and unforgivable in her son's eyes.
Li Baoli is sincere, she just wants to save her marriage-although she doesn't cherish it, she just uses the wrong method.
Without culture, it's terrible.
Not reading is the most terrible thing.
Reading is not to get a diploma, nor can it reduce much trouble for people, but the cultivation of knowledge can make a person deal with some difficult problems more rationally and calmly.
If Li Baoli were more knowledgeable, the situation would be very different.
"With my appearance, it is his blessing to choose him as a village person. Why can't he be good to me and want me to be good to him? "
Li Baoli's beauty and Ma Xuewu's talent are a perfect match.
However, does a perfect marriage have to be a perfect match?
Marriage is an equal relationship between two people, and no one loses, wins or owes. Once one party pretends to be above something, the relationship will not last long.
Li Baoli always thought that Ma Xuewu owed himself. The villagers talk about it every day, tease it, laugh at it, incite it and scold it.
In Ma Xuewu's eyes, his wife's provocative behavior made him afraid, helpless, disgusted and disdainful.
Some people say that Li Baoli is outspoken and Ma Xuewu is weak and hypocritical.
However, self-cultivation and self-cultivation are not hypocritical, and it is not straightforward to deliberately embarrass people.
Li Baoli is not without love. She is kind to her sister-in-law, but in turn, she is cruel to her husband.
Ma Xuewu is not heartless. If Li Baoli had given him at least respect and maintenance, he would not have been destroyed.
After all, they are not the same person.
Differences in living habits, education level, interpersonal relationship, etc. Often let two people live in the same room, but ignore the silence.
Do not be a stranger, do not enter the house.
Accidentally entered a house, closed the door, one willing to fight, one willing to get, but also peaceful.
Once one day, one party is unwilling, then this relationship will be difficult to maintain.
For Li Baoli, maybe architecture suits her.
Jianjian is a gangster, and his so-called dignity means nothing to him.
After he got out of prison, people avoided him, but Li Baoli took the initiative to cater to him.
With the same shrew appearance, Jianjian can brazenly echo her, or return her rudely.
But Ma Xuewu can't. His personality, knowledge and accomplishment make him unable to compare with people like Jian Peijun.
Everything has its vanquisher.
Yi Shu said that happiness is a feeling of matching, which varies from person to person. Only when we have the same wisdom, knowledge, interests and life goals can we be happy. If you disagree, you will naturally be unhappy.
Fang Fang, the original author of the film, was fired because of Wuhan Diary during the epidemic, but aside from political issues, this work is still very fresh and grounded.
The structure of the adapted film is very simple, with Ma Xuewu jumping into the river as the dividing line. The first part tells the story of the storm between Li Baoli and Ma Xuewu, and the last part tells the story of Li Baoli's hardships.
There is no complicated relationship between characters and tortuous stories, but seeing the big picture from the small, Wuhan people write a story of an ordinary Wuhan woman, which gives people a lot of reflection and enlightenment.