Is it really determined who a person will marry?

In fact, there is nothing predestined about who one marries. The two childhood sweethearts originally got along day and night, but they separated due to various reasons. Neither of them wanted to separate. However, the reality is so cruel. , originally the two of them thought they were destined to get married and have children naturally, but they broke up as they walked away, and naturally found their respective significant other. Do you think this was destined by God? Others have found it. One after another, they thought this was their companion for this life, but one after another they broke up. In the end, the person they got married to was not the person they wanted the most. That is, life is so helpless, but the person who will accompany you to the end is the one. The one you are destined to protect.

I am a Feng Shui fortune teller. From a metaphysical point of view, who a person will marry is destined. As for what method to use, whether it can be seen is a matter of personal level.

There is no fate or encounter for no reason in the world. Many people often say that their destiny is in their own hands. However, it is only after they get out of society that they realize that people can’t help themselves in the world. Our development, thinking, and abilities are all affected and restricted by many objective factors. Therefore, the trajectory of destiny is basically fixed from the moment of birth. This is also similar to the Western view that "character determines destiny". At the same time, the trajectory of destiny should also consider the social environment, national destiny, etc. at that time. This is the general environment and has a relatively large impact.

From the perspective of horoscopes and facial features, some information can be seen about the person you want to marry, such as the other person’s education, general facial features, height, career, development status, and other basic information. As a couple, the information of both people has something in common, such as synchronization of marriage information, synchronization of children's information, synchronization of luck information, synchronization of wealth information, etc.

Therefore, who a person marries is basically destined, and everything is the best arrangement. It took a hundred years to cultivate in the same boat, and it took a thousand years to cultivate to sleep on the same pillow. No matter who you are destined to be, you should cherish your fate in this life, be more tolerant and considerate in everything, and work together to manage your marriage well in this life.

Let’s analyze Teacher Wang Feng’s four marriages.

First wife: Qi Dan

When Wang Feng was least famous and worthless. He resolutely quit his job in Sichuan and came to Beijing to accompany Wang Feng and be his strongest support. Four years later, the two got married silently without a wedding. Could this be said to be true love? But in the end, they divorced quietly in less than a year.

Second wife: Ge Huijie (unmarried)

Ge Huijie is China’s top supermodel. Although she has never officially married Wang Feng, she gave birth to a lovely daughter together. Little apple. Wang Feng also loves Little Apple very much.

Third wife: Kang Zuoru

Wang Feng’s third wife is suspected to be Kang Zuoru. On October 15, 2012, Wang Feng's second daughter's full moon party was held in a hotel near the Workers' Stadium in Beijing. Many celebrities were present, which exposed the fact that Wang Feng's second daughter was born.

The fourth wife: Zhang Ziyi

The journey between Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi can be said to have been turbulent, and countless people speculated whether the two could finally achieve success. Until Zhang Ziyi posted a photo of a family of three shaking hands on Weibo. All this is settled.

If marrying one person is destined, then why did Wang Feng have four marriages?

The personalities of these women are very different, and their experiences and lives are also completely different. It shows that people will meet all kinds of people, and there is no such thing as destiny. Aesthetics and experience are also changing. We must believe that fate and fate are all human-made.

From these four marriages, it can only be said that marriage involves many factors and is a process of continuous adjustment and exploration. It may be due to incompatible personalities, different outlooks, or various external and internal factors that may lead to the breakdown of a marriage.

Destiny comes and goes, there is no destiny. Only when you become good will you have more choices.

Whether others believe it or not,

I believe it anyway.

When you go to school, you talk about falling in love.

If you are completely committed, you will be considered a person for life.

Even if it really comes to the point of talking about marriage,

In the end, we still couldn't get together.

I met my current husband earlier than my first love.

He has been pursuing me.

At that time, I just didn’t have the urge to fall in love with him. /p>

So the two have always been good friends.

I didn’t expect that after knowing each other for more than ten years, the two of them were still single.

And they had feelings for each other. It was a strange fate.

If that If we were together when we were together,

we might have broken up a long time ago

Now is the right time to be with the right person,

The right time and the right place for the right person Both are important

So cherish the fate around you.

Marriage is destined! I think it’s destined, just take my husband and me as an example. I started working at the age of 24, and I had been dating on and off to find a partner, and I was almost desperate. When I talk about my partner, my family sighs, becomes gloomy, and almost becomes anxious to death.

There is an eldest daughter in the family who is worried about getting married. When relatives and friends ask about her parents, they become speechless. The leftover girl hated to get married and was extremely depressed at that time. I turned 28 in 2015. At the end of that year, a friend (later his brother-in-law) introduced us on a blind date. When I first saw that my husband was tall and handsome, I felt a little happy. Will this be the end of my blind date? [Admiration] At that time, I kept staying up late and working overtime, and my condition was not very good. I was disgraced and had a little low self-esteem. (It was only after we got married that my husband said he felt good now that he was used to it. During the blind date, he thought I was old and ugly [I want to be quiet], so he reluctantly tried to get in touch with me. The premise here is that I am a civil servant. He is a freelance worker. So if girls are not good at software, they still need to have certain advantages in hardware.) Closer to home, we started to feel good after gradually getting in touch with each other, and the development was rapid. We got engaged in less than two months [yeah], and his family was in a hurry. , my family is even more anxious, and I can’t wait to make him my own [laughing and crying] We got the certificate when we went to work on the seventh day of the first lunar month of 2016, which happened to be Valentine’s Day. I got married in the seventh lunar month of 2017 and immediately got pregnant and gave birth to a baby. We had small quarrels, and would soon forget to make up after that. He would tolerate me and I would accommodate him, and we would go on like this for the rest of our lives. Thank you fate for allowing us to meet. It must be a special fate to become a family along the way!

I posted this Weibo on November 29, 2015, when I was in a terrible state. The following December 15th, I went on a blind date with him. It was destined by fate. It was so magical.

We were going to get engaged at that time. This is what I posted on Weibo at that time.

Our baby is 7 months old

Girl, don’t worry, the best is coming later, it’s just that the time hasn’t come yet! Meeting the right person at the right time is a lifelong love!