Guo Jia Jia Xun
First, respect our ancestors.
Ancestors are the foundation of human beings, and their branches and leaves are glorious. If you don't practice at all, you can't honor the branches and leaves. Ancestors are far and near, modern ancestors, modern people respect them, but distant generations don't know how to respect them. Without distant ancestors, I don't know where modern ancestors came from! Because modernity is my ancestor, the ancestors of more modern ancestors are far away. I don't respect my distant ancestors, but the hearts of modern ancestors are uneasy. Therefore, I must submit my book again. I can only say respect when I pursue the distance. The ancestor worship meeting will be completed on time. If the tomb is built for ancestors, it will be occupied and destroyed by others if it is not built. Our people must never despise and show the bones of their ancestors.
Second, filial piety to parents.
The son of man was born as a parent, and his kindness is like heaven and earth. Filial piety is a matter of course, and losing your support and respect is bad for your family. All my people practice filial piety and keep it in mind.
Third, with brothers.
There is nothing like a brother. A brother is a man nurtured by his compatriots. Roommates, such as brothers and sisters. People often value their friends and love their wives, but between brothers, they turn to participate in business, but they don't know that brothers and sisters are rare. All my people must not hurt their brothers and sisters because of competing for production and wealth.
Fourth, teach children and grandchildren.
Children and grandchildren don't have to be smart and handsome to study, even if they are stupid, they have to study. A wise man is expected to become a talent, but a fool's reading is not obscene. If they can't continue their studies after fulfilling their obligations, they should also be educated and cultivated in their business, especially to avoid extravagance and lewdness, so that their children and grandchildren can be parents for their bad behavior, and they are worthy of teaching their children well for their ancestors.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) harmonious family
Clan, my relatives, thousands of roots are homologous, ten thousand veins are homologous, the beginning of an ancestor, not in harmony with clan, not respecting ancestors, just like an animal. All my people must never bully each other and hurt their vitality.
Sixth, close neighbors
All old and new relatives, rich or poor, should be polite and love each other. As for neighborhood cohabitation, how many benefits and troubles are caused by harmony, and it must be made.
VII. Abide by national laws
The way to stay at home is kindness and happiness, and the policy of self-protection is safety first. The dignity of national laws is nothing more than prohibiting people from doing wrong and guiding people to do good, which is in line with human nature and morality. People can reason, reason, and not commit crimes. If we treat the code as a joke, we will fall into the French Open, which will be a great shame and ruin our lives. We will worry about our parents and leave our wives around. Therefore, a gentleman should be virtuous, and all of us should abide by the law and be a well-behaved person.
Eight, efforts
Did food and clothing fall from the sky? It's all about manpower. Both men and women are hardworking and should do their best. Although one-year-old income, public and private use, there is not much left, but accumulated over time, rich family, children and grandchildren to keep it for the rest of their lives. Laziness is followed by poverty. All performing arts industries are based on diligence, so there is no hunger and cold.
Nine, service agriculture
The country is home-oriented, food is the most important thing for the people, and there is no agricultural instability. Agriculture is necessary for food and clothing. It can support parents in the world and raise children in the next, so it is the foundation of survival. If you don't work hard, it will lead to desolation. All my people can't be lazy, so they will be hungry and cold all their lives.
Ten, to luxury.
The cost of extravagance and even natural disasters. A family spends a lot of money, so you can't quit when you use it. If you don't use it properly, you must be frugal in order to have a surplus. I'm still very extravagant, and I don't know how to scrimp. I should be careful when my income is limited and unlimited at the age of one.
XI. Heresy
There is a common law for leftists to mislead people, and law firms will not allow it. Recently, there are hooligans who often use bad luck and good luck as an excuse to sell illusions and talk nonsense. At first, he lured money to enrich himself, and gradually he became mixed and allied with the party. Yang steals the name of good, while Yin hides evil plans. Once you find that punishment is punishment, you will be very painful, so you can not be afraid! All my people should show their heresy to correct their family style.
Twelve. forbid gambling
Family style depravity, fornication, and heinous; Gamblers are the root of destruction. Gambling is harmful to people, the family property is exhausted, and there is no way to borrow money. If you don't rob for a living, you steal for a living. So thieves who love gambling love to gamble in this destination. Even if you are not a thief, you are hungry and cold. It is illegal to make trouble. Those who have property in the clan should be severely punished, and unhealthy practices should be stopped.
Thirteen. Prohibition of drug abuse
Drugs are also very toxic in China! If you are big, it will harm your life, destroy it, and if you are small, it will harm your existence. If you can't help but quit, it will not only harm your predecessors, but also harm future generations. All my people can't take drugs to harm others and themselves.
XIV. Positive interpersonal relationships
Human feelings, the source of the nine clans, exist between the squares of life, while seniority and seniority have their own priorities, followed by discipline and discipline. All my people should say their names, be obedient and not be incestuous.
Fifteen, careful marriage
Marriage is the beginning of human relations. Marriage should be judged by its character and character, and its turbidity and whiteness should be investigated. Marrying without choosing a wife will be a lifelong harm, and the sound of losing your home is not small. Anyone who marries before the fifth generation of our family should be regarded as incest, and should be punished by all the people and sanctioned by national laws.
Sixteen, Jing Xian
Respect for good people is our people's greatest hope. Sage as teacher, knowledge inheritance, etiquette acquisition. It is foolish to ignore a saint and not be a man. All my people should respect the old and the virtuous to show their civilized clan style.
Guojiagui
Compared with the laws formulated by the state, family rules belong to the category of folk customary law. Family relationship is the most basic social relationship in China. Family laws and regulations regulating family relations have a long history and are self-contained, which is the main symbol that China's legal system stands on its own feet in the world legal system. In the past, there were many studies on the laws formulated by feudal countries in the legal field. However, there is little research on the folk customary law in China feudal society. In particular, there is a lack of understanding of the importance of family laws and regulations in adjusting civil relations. The profound historical influence of family laws and regulations on ideology is also rarely paid attention to. Absorbing historical nutrition and drawing lessons from historical experience does not hinder overcoming the backward factors and adverse effects brought by history. Service is fundamental. Ordinary people, whether simple or not, should take the fundamental task as the first priority. For example, if they can follow the fourteen fruits in "Family House" and be cautious as before, they will be worthy of being the fathers and brothers of virtue in this world and the descendants of virtue in the next world. Inheriting the past and opening up the future can be done at the same time. Be careful not to give up on yourself, which will damage your family's voice. Teach hard. Children's sages are taught by their fathers and brothers, and if they are left unchecked, they will never succeed. My people should train at any time, and don't mix with bandits and become cheap servants. If there are unscrupulous descendants who despise the advice of their families, dare to do all kinds of illegal things, or be punished or sent to investigate, they must not be condoned, which will lead to great disasters.
Maoji
The relationship between inheritance and sacrifice is light, and it is appropriate to be intimate and sparse, to tell the ancestors according to family rituals, and to write books according to the contract. Still the step-by-step son, parents don't want to. That is, in the other room. Love and build a moral person and listen to him. A family that has not been established may not compete for heirs. A son who has been established may not take his grandson as his ancestor and his brother as his brother, but he will certainly have a good heir.
Anti-usurper party
The law is clear without a son standing. Asking for a son with a different surname is a temporary expedient, but he can't afford the sacrifice and will have to go to court in the future. Is to die at the root, and the baby is not small. The childless descendants, either successful or accepting mistakes, should always embrace them as soon as possible, and be careful not to caress the children with different surnames and send them away.
Collect survivors
Different surnames should not be confused, and surnames should not be abandoned lightly. There are daughters in the clan who take care of different surnames and don't marry them. In-laws should also pay special attention. If we can find out that they are real, we will let them be Hui, and we will not order them to do nothing about his clan, which will lead to the collapse of Zongzong.
Strict matching
"Poetry" is the first sentence, and "Yi" is the first sentence. Courtesy is the most important in ancient times. If a brother marries a sister-in-law, if a brother marries a brother's sister-in-law, if the wife of this clan is born to a husband, or if this clan remarries and becomes a concubine, it will be punished by the people. What's more, it is shameful that widowed women sit in court and recruit husbands without any excuse, and the offenders are screened out.
Treat marriage with caution
When a man marries a woman, only the door is equal, and the matching is relative. If the surnames are the same, it is forbidden to marry each other. A descendant with the same surname has migrated from different countries for a hundred years, which means that the same surname does not belong to the clan, but they are married. It is known that ancestors have different blood lines, and blasphemy does not stop there. Offenders divorce.
Zhengfu avenue
Women are mainly obedient, and spinning, cooking and weaving are also their duties. If you call names, be unfilial to your aunt, lose your virtue and adopt a daughter-in-law, you won't be afraid. In addition to punishing her husband, if he is a child, you will immediately spread it to her mother's house, discuss punishing her, stand up for her, and only whip her back.
Chongzu tomb
The ancestral graves are safe, and those who have been invaded will not stand a monument, and the sacrifices will be empty. As descendants, we should think about where we come from, without any negligence, whether it is far or near, we should be close. If there is no monument boundary, it should be carved, that is, the boundary should be established and the note should be made from the mountain, so as to analyze and change careers for later brothers.
A compassionate family
The distant relatives of this family come from the same ancestor. Those who have no heirs and far power are difficult to find, and they are nearby, so they must patrol at any time to avoid being invaded. Cold food, Qingming hangs and sweeps, the price is a few, but the accumulated virtue is not small. In the eyes of others, if you don't know that it has no future, dare to possess it? Be careful not to be indifferent to the alienation of the family.
Du greedy selling
The grave boundary is wide and narrow, which has existed in ancestors, and future generations should keep it and lose it. Storing and banning trees is a spectacular sight protected by shade, so it is not allowed to cut them down without authorization. This is bad feng shui. Even if the boundary of the field is wide, it is not allowed to cut it down and sell it to others for petty gain, which will cause fatigue at the beginning of participation and offenders will be severely punished.
Be careful of being buried.
Life and death are the same, and the burial method must be known. When a place is buried together, Zhao Mu's men and women must not be confused, not on it, not in front, and must be close to the prescription. In terms of birthright, the daughter-in-law is attached to Weng, the sister-in-law is not allowed to be attached to her husband and brother, and the sister-in-law is not allowed to be attached to her sister-in-law. Offenders will be expelled.
Cumulative public project
No matter how big or small public goods are, they must be managed by mature and cautious people, and they will accumulate more and more, or once every three years or once a year, and they must not be abused, misappropriated or taken care of. If the term is not full, this person will be in a deficit state, and should be advised to repay as soon as possible, so as to avoid long-term difficulty in repayment and lead to poor overall situation.
Precious genealogy
Genealogy contains all the relics of ancestors and the elements of the same family, which has a great relationship. Collection is indispensable, and protection is indispensable. Never be corrupt, moldy, pawn lost and lightly cherished. If there is a bad example that is not serious, let it be destroyed and lost, and find out hell to pay.
Guo genealogy exhortation
The nature of heaven and earth is precious to people. People are endowed with the principle of five elements (fire, water and earth in Jin Mu). They are just and kind, and they don't know anything at all. A gentleman does it without fear. The villain is arrogant and extravagant, but he is fierce. Therefore, The Book of Rites and Wang Zhi clearly put forward that "seven religions" should be used to invigorate the people and "eight strategies" should be used to prevent prostitution. Sages praised the revision and deletion, and recited the "Six Classics" (Confucian classics such as poems, books, changes, rituals, music, spring and autumn). For example, the book of songs has a kind of beauty (the book of songs has praise and depreciation), and the book of songs has a kind of beauty. In other words, he wrote the history book of Spring and Autumn Annals in the early years of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty, in which there were praises and denials, and there was no distinction between good and evil, which made the rebels feel frightened. If future generations want to be good, afraid and not evil, then saints will have deep hearts to teach. It consists of sixteen articles, one is a warning, the other is a warning, which makes future generations excited and scared when they see this, and there is a little (slightly) supplement.
Eight articles on supernatural persuasion
First, filial piety to parents
Five punishments (five punishments with different degrees of severity, such as ink and shame in ancient times) belong to three thousand crimes, which is greater than unfilial. Filial piety, the classics of heaven, the meaning of the earth, and the trip of people. As for Shu Ren, since the Emperor of Heaven, there has been no end to filial piety, and there is not much to lose (in fact, there is no such thing). Therefore, anyone who keeps his parents warm in winter, cools them in summer and visits the elderly at dusk and early morning should commit suicide over time. Confucius said, "Live with tribute, raise with pleasure, grieve with pain, mourn with sorrow, and sacrifice with severity. Five things can be prepared first and then approached. As a son, he is good at inheriting good stories (good at inheriting ancestors) and doesn't have to learn from others. Mencius said, "If you are close to the land, you can ..."
Second, friends and brothers.
Today all people are brothers. Brothers are people with the same spirit. Young people fall in love, or listen to women for a long time and compete for money, so that they are not friends with their younger brothers in history, and their younger brothers have no respect for their younger brothers. I'm sorry. The ancients burned moxa sticks to divide the pain (Song Taizu Zhao Kuangyin's younger brother was sick, and burned his body with moxa sticks, indicating that it was his brother's pain). It is a great event that big quilts are shared with each other (Li Longji brothers in Xuanzong of Tang Dynasty were friendly and often shared big quilts). My people are not allowed to follow the thorn of the horn bow (the poem "Emperor Xiaoya writes about brotherly love and entertains brothers, and" Brothers are interested in money "are all" left-leaning "(they are not United, but they are bullied by foreign countries). My brothers are happy and worried about their parents, so it goes well!
Third, the end of boudoir.
The ceremony begins with your husband and wife. Men are outside and women are inside. The book says: "When you hire (hens) as morning maids, you can only find a home." The hen crows, which is a metaphor for women in charge, and is considered as a symbol of family decline. Confucius said, "Women are meaningless." Yan Ying (Qi Xianggong in the Spring and Autumn Period) said: "A husband is a soft wife, and an aunt (husband and mother) treats her well." As long as the husband and wife get married, the ups and downs of the family will be long, and the relationship will be (not) light. Therefore, the wife (wife) is called a virtuous person, and the crow of chickens must be restrained (pay attention to the dawn), and the emblem sound has an heir ("Poetry, Great IELTS": "The big heir emblem sound" means that the German sound has an heir. ) don't say it. Every woman is obedient to her father at home, marrying her husband and her son. Women should have morality, speech, tolerance and work. ), you must know.
Fourth, choose marriage.
At the beginning of marriage, you must choose a suitable door, so that you can form an alliance with Qin Jin (Qin Jin once formed an alliance in the Spring and Autumn Period, which means getting married). So, don't be greedy for money and hate poverty and meanness, which is also the beginning. The worldly greed for makeup (dowry and wealth) makes married people or owls (a fierce bird compared with evil women) ominous and arrogant (with the word "mouth" on the left). Children of future generations are suitable for Su Yan, but what do they regret? All my relatives still judge everything! I hope to treat this matter with caution. All, all. )
Verb (abbreviation for verb) harmonious family
There are differences between clans, the distance between relatives, the strength of the rich and the poor, and the number of people. If you are close to each other, the rich bully the poor, the weak and the violent, why should the nine families kiss each other? "Book" says: "Enjoy (with" you "on the left) and tell nine families." Chen Fu said: "Although there is a little anger (anger, anger), I will not abolish (American) relatives." All my relatives should cherish their ancestral roots, respect their ancestors in an orderly manner, respect their elders and children in an orderly manner, share differences, share weal and woe, live in harmony without losing humanity.
Sixth, class poetry books
Human nature is good. Mencius said that human nature is good, while Xunzi said that human nature is evil, and there is no basis. However, things are polluted by the customs when they are covered. Non-poetry can't change temperament. Ancient sages and sages, with children educated, sincere filial piety and close relatives, continue to study literature. If endowed with intelligence, it should be Bo Gu's general history and famous Confucianism; Even ignorant people should explain The Analects of Confucius, The Book of Filial Piety, Primary School (Phonology) and Textual Exegesis to let them know how to behave. Paraffin said, "Love your son and teach him integrity." (See Zuo Zhuan's Three Years of Seclusion) Serge Dumont said: "The room of loyalty and filial piety is the land of my family (that is, the so-called" land where future generations plow without paying taxes "). Really see that you can have no clothes to wear when you are cold, no food to eat when you are hungry, and you can't stop reading for a day. "
Seven, diligent cultivation and weaving
"The husband does not plow hunger, and the woman does not weave cold." (For the language, see Jia Yi's On Storage and Sparseness in the Western Han Dynasty. ) Men are diligent in farming, while women are diligent in weaving. "The old people eat meat, and the people are not hungry or cold." (See Mencius, Qi Huan, Jinwen, Zhangzhi) The kingly way is also important. Therefore, a gentleman is willing to do his will, and a villain is willing to do his thing. The Book says: "Only scholars love to hide their hearts (only scholars are loved and kind-hearted)." The poem says, "A hundred rooms are full, and women and children are at peace." (See The Book of Songs, Zhou Song and Liang Ji, which means that all families are well fed and their wives and children are safe. All my kin, bow (pro-farming) is grain, and pro-performance (spinning) is clothing. Summer rain is cold and chickens crow. "It is both profitable and great-grandson." There are hundreds of millions of stones with enough food, which our great-grandchildren are grateful for. )
Eight, maintain the first business
My family has been handed down from generation to generation, from the Han and Tang Dynasties in the Zhou Dynasty to the Yuan and Ming Dynasties. Or loyalty, or loyalty. ? (The word "bamboo" means "dragon" and the word "sky" is not checked. ) cicada company (a cicada that is constantly emerging for bureaucrats) will never be replaced. The Book says: "The rate is what our ancestors did." "Poetry" says: "What a gentleman wants (good deeds)." The person who entrusts it to his grandson should be "sincere and trustworthy, self-cultivation and family." A son and father treat his brother sincerely, encourage his brother and honor his ancestors. Cowpea, sacrificial vessel, refers to the ancestors who were sacrificed. Be able to keep pace with our ancestors. (gram, yes; Pure and consistent; Wushu, footwork, pace. )