What is the enlightenment of a dream of red mansions to life?

The enlightenment of A Dream of Red Mansions to life is that a man should know the way of the world, so he is not secular, smooth and true. In other words, the best way to live is to know the world, not the world, to experience the world, and finally to maintain an inner innocence.

You know, any external whitewash can't cover up your true self. Many times, the inner pain comes from our efforts to suppress and force ourselves for various reasons, but in the end we lose ourselves and even become our most annoying appearance.

Reflections on A Dream of Red Mansions:

Cao Xueqin, the author, exposed the darkness of feudal society at that time through A Dream of Red Mansions and expressed his dissatisfaction and anger. The story tells that Lin Daiyu, who was sickly since childhood, came to Guo Rongfu and gradually fell in love with Jia Baoyu, the son of Jia Zhengzhi, who was born with psychic jade and stubborn personality. Because Xifeng used the switch device, Jia Baoyu married Xue Baochai with a golden lock, and Lin Daiyu vomited blood to death. From then on, Jia Baoyu was disheartened, saw through the world of mortals and fled into an empty net.

I really sympathize with Lin Daiyu and their tragic fate. But there is nothing wrong with pursuing the characters themselves. On the contrary, it is the feudal traditional concept that people hate.