"Women are afraid of being born at noon, and men are afraid of being born in the middle of the night?" What is the meaning of birth time? The ancients cared so much.
"Women are afraid of being born at noon and men are afraid of being born at midnight", which literally means that girls are afraid of being born at noon and boys are afraid of being born at midnight. Why is there such a statement? Why did the ancients care so much about the birth time of their children? Let's find out.
According to our traditional concept of yin and yang, girls are considered feminine because of their feminine nature. Boys are considered masculine because they are naturally masculine.
Noon is the warmest time of the day, and the sunshine is the most abundant. If a girl comes at this time, she should have been feminine, but she turned into masculine. So people think that girls born in this period are often strong-willed and ill-fated. So the saying that "women are afraid of being born at noon" has been passed down.
Midnight is the period from eleven to one in the evening. Originally it was night, and my feet were feminine. If boys are born in this period, the original masculinity will be negatively affected, and the yang will be insufficient and become feminine. So the ancients thought it was not good to have boys at this time. So the saying that "men are afraid of midnight" has been passed down.
Of course, we know at a glance that this statement has no scientific basis. The ancients classified everything according to yin and yang because of their limited understanding of the world. This is just a feudal superstition.
But now some people, this kind of hearsay without any evidence, are mysterious and mysterious, but they will care more.
My mother had a colleague before, and the prenatal examination after pregnancy was normal, but after she heard the saying that "women are afraid to give birth at noon and men are afraid to come in the middle of the night", she became very concerned.
After a period of consideration, she finally managed to ask someone to find a relationship to realize her desire for caesarean section, just to avoid two hours at noon and midnight. As a result, the child was very weak after birth and always got sick intermittently. She heard that it was related to the child's caesarean section, so she often regretted it.
Instead of spending time and energy on these unconfirmed rumors, women should spend more time and energy on how to prepare for childbirth. As the saying goes, "pregnant in October, one delivery", pregnancy and delivery is a major event for women and families, so we should use a scientific attitude and method.
a regular health checkup
Choosing a regular hospital during pregnancy and checking on time can effectively avoid the risk of maternal and child diseases and lay a good foundation for the final smooth delivery. My mother has a colleague who doesn't pay attention to the prenatal examination after pregnancy. Sometimes she remembers to have a checkup, and sometimes she hasn't had a checkup for months. As a result, one day after seven months of pregnancy, she suddenly had unbearable abdominal pain. After the family sent her to the hospital, the doctor kept sighing after the examination. If the check-up can be made on time, small problems will not drag into big problems and the fetus will be hopeless. Therefore, regular check-ups are very necessary, which should attract the attention of pregnant women and their families, and should not be ignored because there are no special circumstances during this period, especially before labor.
Prepare for delivery
Before labor, family members should help to make preparations, prepare comfortable clothes for the parturient, prepare necessary articles such as bottles, milk powder, clothes and bedding for the newborn, and put them in different bags so that the parturient can take them to the hospital in time when there are signs of labor. In addition, pregnant women should be encouraged. When they are in labor, it is inevitable that they will feel nervous about the coming labor. At this time, the care and encouragement of family members is very important. Family members should make good material and psychological preparations together and welcome the arrival of new life happily.
Aunt's conclusion:
The birth of a child is a natural thing. Parents should never listen to rumors. Instead, we should make scientific preparations, prepare all kinds of articles needed by pregnant women and newborns, and care and encourage pregnant women psychologically, instead of focusing our time and energy on unconfirmed legends. As the saying goes, when the melon is ripe, the prospective father and mother should correctly welcome the natural arrival of new life.
Today's topic: How to prepare for delivery?