"She is only 20 years old, but she has a bright future."
Later, I felt that I was getting farther and farther away from the "bright future" and suddenly remembered this sentence.
"Xu Duan went home with wine, turned on the light, took off his coat, picked up the water prepared by the porch in the morning, and went into the bedroom to change it.
Clothes, ready to take a shower.
Bian Jiuxu joined a foreign company after graduating from university. With the reputation of a good university, I entered this company with a good salary.
It's just that she is very busy every day, having a lot of social activities, traveling everywhere, meeting all kinds of people, signing one business after another from them or people around her, making a lot of money and living the life she wanted as a teenager.
Take a bath with wine while listening to music to vent-cherish those hours of the day that belong to you.
After taking a shower, she put on a mask and ordered aromatherapy-it helped her sleep. By the way, she picked up The Weakness of Human Nature and read a few pages. When she felt sleepy, she turned off the bedside lamp and went to bed. Tomorrow is another tough battle, and she has no leisure time to waste on insomnia.
Foreign companies are like this. Outsiders seem to be very successful, and there is unspeakable pressure behind the glamorous identity. Of course, a drink is also a decent work and lifestyle for her.
Good books are useful, good universities are useful, good jobs are useful, and you can earn money with dignity. They are the embodiment of success, at least it seems so.
She never despises the happiness she gets outside the workplace. She thinks that those housewives are vulgar and short-sighted like frogs at the bottom of a well, and the happiness flowing in the market is very sad.
Only those who don't study hard at school and work hard will feel that rice, oil, salt and vinegar tea is happy. She looked at those who haggle over every ounce for a few dollars' food from a height, feeling both sympathetic and ridiculous.
They must not have worked hard at that time.
No one will pay for your youth and hard work.
It's too cold at high altitude, but you can reach the moon at high altitude. "
The above is a fragment of a novel I wrote a long time ago, which I think is "a bright future".
Successful inspirational books recommended by teachers, biographies of celebrities bought by parents, and even novels of Mary Su read secretly by myself all have the same definition of "a bright future"-a person has been admitted to a good university, found a good job after graduation, earned a lot of money, lived in a big house, and has a bright future, but what has not been decided is a cursory tour.
So at that time, I only felt that "Zhang Hua was admitted to Peking University, Ping Li went to a technical secondary school, and I worked as a salesgirl in a department store. Only Zhang Hua has a bright future. "
This idea, after many years, has become a "prejudice" in my heart. And I am a person who is not set, and I have no "bright future".
I never deny that the template of "bright future" is positive energy.
But "a bright future" is not an objective question, and there is no standard answer.
The existence of diversity was too scarce in my previous environment.
I once fell into a vicious circle of pursuing someone else's "bright future":
I was admitted to the key high school of "stepping into the university with one foot". I am one step closer to a bright future. I failed in the college entrance examination and got into two books. I am one step closer to a bright future. ...
Whether my future is good or bad is defined by others.
This is ... so depressing.
It took me a long time to accept sincerely:
"Everyone's life map is different, and everyone's bright future is different. There is no need to be the same.
We should find the right answer that we like, and the other answers are all references, or even no references. "
The following story happened around me and I want to share it with you. Maybe your experiences are similar, or maybe your experiences are very different. It doesn't matter.
The important thing is that they have a bright future, and so do you.
She hasn't studied math.
But she has a bright future.
? He is preparing for the judicial examination now.
Want to be a lawyer who can help others.
He has a bright future.
? She wants to go to kindergarten to take care of the children.
She wants to take an examination of preschool education.
She has a bright future.
? She is fighting for her career now.
She has a bright future.
On that day, I saw a sentence in Guan Wei, Xiamen University.
Let me share with you:
"We are moving forward, not in the same direction, but in all directions before us."
We all have bright futures.
I may be getting farther and farther away from the so-called "standard answer", but I seem to have found my own answer slowly.
I am anxious, I am confused,
But I am slowly moving forward on my own territory, and the future is bright.
If you ask me now-
I will not hesitate to answer: yes!
Our life will shine one day.
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Girls who want to have "seventy-two changes"
"You also have a bright future.
Because you still have unlimited possibilities. "
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