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What does "anti-bone" mean?

"Anti-bone" mainly means that a person is rebellious and likes to oppose others no matter what. In other words, this person does not listen to the teachings of his elders, teachers and friends, and everything goes his own way.

"Anti-bone" is a bad behavior, and this wrong concept should be corrected in time. In daily life, if we call a person a rebel, we will also call him a rebel. Anti-bone is often a sign that children are in the rebellious period of youth, because at this time, children think they are adults, but parents still treat them as children, so there is a generation gap between parents and children, which is what we often call anti-bone. & gt

Physically, it is normal to have anti-bones on your head. Anti-bone refers to occipital bone, also called back bone. Some people with occipital protuberance have anti-bone foundation, which you can ignore. If there are no symptoms, don't worry too much. Parents who are psychologically rebellious should master communication skills. Generally, children who are in a rebellious period are "born rebellious", so parents should change the way of communication with their children in time. Many parents always think that "I am your parents, so you should listen to me", and treat children as their own belongings, completely ignoring their feelings and thoughts.

Respect children's feelings and needs and give them help when they need it. It's called sending charcoal in the snow. Children don't make demands, but you impose them. This is called excessive love, also called control.