In A Farewell to Lovers, what harm does Wang Qiuyu Zhu Yaqiong's negative partner life bring to the relationship between husband and wife?

In Goodbye, Lover, the lifestyles of Wang Qiuyu and Zhu Yaqiong are mutually negative, which brings many contradictions and conflicts to the relationship between husband and wife. Because we all know that in the process of communication, if a person only considers his own feelings, then he does not care about his partner's needs. It is psychologically unacceptable for such a person to always maintain a perfunctory and indifferent attitude towards his partner and degrade his partner to nothing.

Wang Qiuyu, a repressed lover, is actually a repressed lover. His wife is a super girl in 2006, and her musical talent is obvious to all. At that time, Wang Qiuyu's wife wrote a song for herself, which was affirmed by professional teachers, but he belittled the song written by her. In the program, his wife also sang this song, and other guests except Wang Qiuyu praised and affirmed Zhu Yaqiong, but Wang Qiuyu felt that he had no feelings for this lyric.

The state of collapse, so we can also see that if your partner has been suppressing himself, it will make people psychologically collapse. Two people were separated from each other for work. Zhu Yaqiong missed her husband very much and called him. However, Wang Qiuyu didn't tell her how much she missed her. Instead, she accused and abused her wife. He told his wife that he was busy at work and had no time to answer the phone. After scolding each other for half an hour, her husband hasn't realized his mistake yet.

Can't communicate equally. I don't have time to answer my wife's phone, but I have time to scold her. Two people always feel a little inconsistent. They are husband and wife, not enemies, but they get along worse than enemies. The husband has no praise and respect for his wife, and at the same time, he doesn't even have an equal evaluation. No matter who he is, he will feel uncomfortable. Wang Qiuyu's neglect of his wife is unacceptable in nature, so if their relationship can't last, everyone can accept it.