Why is the TV series "Little Joy" rated so high?
Because some of the lines and truths in the play are impressive!
1. A daughter is a little cotton-padded jacket, and a son is a poncho
Fang Yuan has a saying: A daughter is a little cotton-padded jacket, considerate and warm-hearted. And my son is a poncho. It can rain several times a year. The role of my son is to stand in the front row during our seventieth birthday, major festivals, and our funeral, saying to those who come: Thank you for coming to see my dad.
2. Your self-righteous love is the greatest harm to your children
Surveys show that the most annoying sentence for children is "I am doing it for your own good." The examples of Ding Yi's suicide and Qiao Yingzi's suicide have shown that your self-righteous love is actually the greatest harm to your children.
3. In an intimate relationship, the biggest killer is the sense of dedication
Song Qian often said to Yingzi: "I have given up so much of what I want to do for you, you are worthy of me "The feeling of giving is a super scary thing, because it implies a logic: If I give, I should get the same reward. Therefore, people with a stronger sense of giving will be more aggressive.
4. We are drifting apart from our parents, only missing an apology
Ji Shengli bent down and sincerely apologized to his son: "I was wrong." Ji Yangyang's eyes were filled with tears. Tears, moved by my father. This scene caused many children to scream: "My parents never apologize to me." Many times, children and parents drift away, only missing an apology.
5. Father’s overall situation, mother’s good mood
After seeing the good father “Fang Yuan” and the good mother “Liu Jing”, I deeply understood one sentence: Father The overall pattern and mother's good mood are the best feng shui for a home.
6. True maternal love is a decent exit
What psychologist Claire said: True maternal love is not a permanent possession of a child, but a decent exit. quit. The first task of maternal love is to be close to the child and care for the child's growth. The second task is to separate from the child and promote the child's independence. Parents who don't know how to let go cannot raise happy children.