A person's character determines that person's "financial luck". What do you think?
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How is a person’s character formed?
From the moment a baby is born, he is constantly accepting and learning (active learning and passive learning) what the outside world teaches him; and from baby to child, to youth, and then to adulthood. , what plays a decisive role in his character is his native family and his living environment.
A person's personality is mainly influenced by two aspects: the family of origin and the acquired living environment.
The influence of the family of origin on a person’s personality is the most important and far-reaching; basically, the education method of the family of origin and the emotional depth of the parents determine what the person’s character is like.
For example:
The parents are in good marital status, the relationship between the parents is very good, the parents have relatively good personalities, and have relatively positive outlook on life; then, the personality of a child born in such a family will be He is often confident, considerate, and meticulous. Moreover, his personality is cheerful and sunny, and he is not easily disturbed by external factors.
On the contrary, children whose parents are divorced, have domestic violence, and have grown up with quarrels and conflicts between their parents, tend to have low self-esteem and tend to be introverted.
Another factor is: the way parents educate their children also plays a decisive role in a person's character as he grows up.
Some parents play the role of "loving fathers and strict mothers", and some parents play the role of "strict parents". They have been urged by their parents since childhood, beaten, scolded and belittled by their parents, and rarely praised. As people grow up, their personalities are often prone to "self-denial".
Lack of self-confidence, low self-esteem, self-denial, dare not take the initiative to strive for, for fear that they will be criticized if they do something wrong, and appear timid in everything they do.
On the other hand, those parents who educate their children from an early age and like to use praise and rewards often become better at expressing themselves and their strengths when they grow up; they are confident, proactive, cheerful and optimistic.
So, a person’s character is really closely related to his parents and the environment of his family of origin.
Another major factor that affects a person's personality is the environment in which that person grows, studies, and lives.
If this person lives in a relatively depressing environment, and the people around him are better than him, and he has no advantages among this group of people; what he thinks is excellent will be compared to others. It's also much worse; then, if you live in such an environment for a long time, this person will gradually lose confidence in himself, slowly become indecisive, and become less confident.
This person's working environment and emotional status will all affect this person's personality.
What kind of character you are and what kind of person you will become, to a certain extent, has already been determined.
It’s just that as you grow up the day after tomorrow, all your experiences and feelings will optimize and subtly change your personality.
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A person’s character determines that person’s financial fortune
In most people’s minds: a person’s financial fortune is equal to this A person's work and career; if he has an excellent job and career, a high income, and makes a lot of money, it means that the person has a very prosperous financial fortune.
Character will have a great impact on a person's work and career; people with a character who are prone to success will naturally do well in their career, and if they do well in their career, they will have good fortune.
I have seen a set of data research before: about the relationship between the personality of men and women and their income (career success or failure).
This kind of research, the academic name is "MBTI", was studied by the Briggs-Myers team in the United States. It was classified according to human psychology and mental functions, and was then evaluated by psychology experts. Continuously expanded, and eventually expanded to Type 16 personality types.
In a set of data studies I have seen before, what type of personality types of men and women have higher incomes and are more likely to succeed in their careers?
The top two highest-paid male personalities: ESTJ and ENTJ.
The top two highest-paid personalities for women are: ENTJ and ESTJ.
Men and women have just adjusted their order, but the personality types with higher incomes and easier career success are ESTJ and ENTJ.
Let’s briefly analyze these two personality types.
ESTJ personality: more careful, paying more attention to details, and doing things in an orderly manner.
This kind of person pays more attention to details whether he is doing business or work. He will think carefully about every step he takes and rarely make mistakes. Such people are often more rational and pay attention to small things. Links, key links in work, career details and analysis all have strong advantages.
ENTJ personality: They are more capable of leadership, have a strong overall view, and have their own unique insights and vision for planning things.
People who can serve as leaders and start their own businesses are often ENTJ types because they have strong leadership skills and have their own unique plans for the future development of their careers.
The ESTJ personality type is more like an indispensable team leader in this company. He is careful, organized, and pays attention to every step to prevent mistakes.
Back to people’s personalities, people who are more likely to succeed are often those who are cheerful, optimistic, have leadership skills, and are careful and methodical in their work.
On the contrary, if a person's character is always timid, timid, and has no courage no matter what he does, then such a person may only have a stable job and will not have a big career. Even if there is a breakthrough, you will not lose your job.
But it is basically impossible to get rich.
Those who have successful careers and rising incomes must have strong advantages in character.
So why would someone say such a thing? A person's character determines whether the person can succeed, and also determines the person's financial fortune.
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No matter what kind of personality you are, if you stick to the industry that suits you, you will always succeed
Let me tell you the truth around me example.
There is a neighbor in my hometown whose current occupation is "scrap collection".
He has been working in the waste collection industry for 10 years. He used to do business, sell vegetables, and open stores, but all of them closed down. But only the waste collection business has grown bigger and bigger, and now it only lasts a year. Can make hundreds of thousands.
For someone like his neighbor who is uneducated, has little education, and only knows how to do some accounting and small business, it is particularly difficult for him to achieve his current achievements.
When I first started collecting waste, I rode a pedal tricycle, then I switched to a motorcycle, then a truck, and now, there are many garbage sorting and recycling stations.
In fact, it means perseverance, finding an industry that suits you, an industry that you are confident of doing well, and that you can persevere in.
Although a person's talent has an impact on that person's success, it depends more on acquired hard work and persistence.
Just like when Yao Ming and Yi Jianlian entered the NBA at the same time, many people said: Yi Jianlian is not as talented as Yao Ming.
But both of them worked hard. After Yao Ming retired, Yi Jianlian took the lead alone. All the slander and disapproval in the past have turned into praise.
A person's talent may not be high, but if he works harder, he can still achieve career success.
The so-called wealth is half luck + half talent + half of hard work. In the end, success is achieved.