Some routines commonly used in love rat are mistaken for true love by many silly women. Don't be silly. What routine?
How to judge whether the people around you are "love rat"? No one has an absolutely correct identification method. However, there will always be clues to love rat. Let's look at the subtle changes revealed by love rat.
1. Pretending to be weak can win women's sympathy.
Love rat knows the characteristics of women very well. After all, they contact too many women. For love rat, the most common method is to pretend that he is a weak person, or even make himself a weak person by taking advantage of unsatisfactory reality or bad family. If a man always shows his diligence in front of you, but the reality always depresses him, then he just wants to attract you with this. Generally, sensible and obedient girls want to use "companionship" to alleviate men's pain.
2. Sweet talk deceives feelings
He always gives you false promises, but he always stays in words and never keeps them. He always gives you illusions and enhances your emotional value, but the promise never has a deadline, just saying "wait for the opportunity". Love rat is good at sweet talk, but he actually has only one mouth and never takes any practical action.
3. Just be jealous and pretend to love you.
? Love rat knew that the girls were very worried and jealous. If he doesn't care at all, it will naturally make women want to give up. However, love rat doesn't want to break up with you. When a woman is in contact with other members of the opposite sex, even if she doesn't feel jealous, she will behave a little appropriately in order to let you be with him.
It's neither too hot nor too cold for you, but you won't lose touch.
Love rat's mood is always as gloomy and unpredictable as the winter weather in the south, whether it's usual chatting or daily communication. Sometimes I am kind to you, and sometimes I am cold to you, which makes you unpredictable. Sometimes after a long time, he replies to your WeChat. Don't doubt that he is just having sex with someone else.
5. Intentional physical contact, blurring boundaries
He didn't confess to you, but he often made cross-border actions to you inadvertently, such as physical contact and raising privacy issues. When you notice, he will immediately return to the safety line as if nothing had happened. There is always a man around us who likes to test you "intentionally or unintentionally" when chatting. What seems to be a test is actually testing your bottom line to see if you are successful.
Therefore, girls must keep their eyes open, keep their heads clear, and don't be too eager to give themselves to anyone. Good love will definitely make you happier and happier. If you feel wronged and sad, you should give up in time.