The first child came to repay the debt, so we should keep it. Is this a scientific proof or a superstitious legend?

However, sometimes the arrival of a baby at an inappropriate time will also bring a lot of troubles to mothers, especially for young women in the workplace, having a baby too early will have an impact on their career, and there are also some unmarried pregnant women in society who are not happy but even more afraid when they look at the arrival of a new life.

When faced with the unexpected arrival of a new life, many women will decide to have an abortion, but when the doctor hears that it is the first child after arriving at the hospital, many experts will say that the first child is to pay off debts, and it is best to keep it.

As an educated youth of 2 1 century, few people will believe the theory of reincarnation, but since doctors have suggested keeping the first child, there is naturally a scientific basis. Why on earth do most doctors want women to keep their first child and not to have an abortion easily?

The first-born child develops best in the mother.

There is a time limit for women to have children. Around the age of 24, it is the golden age for women to give birth. At this time, women's physical function is at its peak. At this time of pregnancy, the child can get the most adequate nutrition in the womb.

When parents combine genes, the first-born child is more likely to have an excellent gene match. Considering the development of mother and fetus, the doctor suggested keeping the first child. If they give up having their first child, it will be a pity for both women and children.

Abortion is risky and will damage the health of pregnant women.

Although the technology of induced abortion is mature now, there are certain risks no matter what operation. For the sake of our health, doctors don't recommend women to have an abortion in the early stage of pregnancy, unless the physical condition doesn't allow it.

It is easy to fall into the "root cause" after surgery.

Just like a woman who has given birth to a child, if she does not pay attention to her diet and daily life, it is easy to cause symptoms such as backache and joint inflammation. If she doesn't take good care after abortion, it will easily lead to infertility and serious gynecological diseases, which will affect her health all her life.

Forced abortion, women will have psychological shadow.

Many times, women's decision to have an abortion is not voluntary, but more out of helplessness in life. However, the decision made in this case, thinking of the unborn children in the future, many women will also have too much pressure and feel ashamed of their unborn life.

It is precisely because of the guilt after abortion that many women bear too much psychological burden and are too nervous in the process of preparing for pregnancy in the future, leading to infertility. Every time they think about their unborn children, they feel sad, which is extremely harmful to women's health.

Since the first child is so important and doctors should advise women to keep the first child, what should we do to help the development of the first child and the health of mother and child before pregnancy?

I don't want to repeat the importance of the first child. If both husband and wife are not ready to be parents and do not want to welcome a new life, then please take precautions for young men and women. This is not only responsible for your own health, but also for future children.

Both husband and wife should do pre-pregnancy screening to eliminate hidden diseases.

During pregnancy preparation, both husband and wife must pay attention to pre-pregnancy screening, go to the hospital in time to conduct a comprehensive investigation, check whether they have a history of genetic diseases, and understand the doctor's advice on pregnancy preparation.

Pay attention to the high-risk factors that may occur during pregnancy, protect your health and protect the development of the fetus. Timely adjust the problems in pre-pregnancy examination to increase the possibility of pregnancy.

Pay attention to keep healthy, especially during pregnancy.

Pregnancy pays attention to contingency, the most important factor is human factors, which requires both husband and wife to be in a healthy state, and both men and women should try their best to avoid bad habits such as smoking and drinking. Only in this way can we ensure the quality of sperm and eggs and prepare for the birth of healthy babies.

At the same time, for mothers, folic acid needs to be supplemented during pregnancy, which helps to promote the baby's neurological development and spinal health. If women used to take birth control pills for a long time, they should stop taking them in time during pregnancy, preferably with an extended withdrawal period.

In order to make a qualitative leap in physical function, both men and women should pay attention to strengthening exercise, especially women. Doing some aerobic exercise during pregnancy and pregnancy will help them maintain good physical strength during childbirth and contribute to their own health.

Keep mental health and be happy.

In addition to congenital genetic factors, psychological factors also have a great influence on pregnancy. For women, if they are often depressed, too much psychological pressure is not conducive to pregnancy. What pregnant mothers need to do is to maintain a healthy and scientific diet and a good lifestyle, just wait for the baby to come naturally.

After pregnancy, mothers should also keep a happy mood, so as to avoid depression during postpartum pregnancy and affect their health. Every woman has the right to be a mother and the right to choose.

If we are not ready, we can choose not to be a mother. If we choose to start getting pregnant, then we should also make positive psychological preparations. During pregnancy, I will definitely suffer from pain I have never experienced before, such as nausea, vomiting, drowsiness, dizziness, fatigue and so on. And I will also bear the unbearable pain of life during childbirth.

In the face of these, we must be psychologically prepared. Being a mother is a great thing, and it is also a very hard thing.

When our first child arrives, if physical conditions permit, we should try to keep the first child. If you have to remove the child, you should also pay attention to the aftercare of the body after abortion. May every woman be free to have children, and may every mother be safe and happy.