Why is the word "little sister" popular?
Someone on the Internet asked: Does anyone know how the word "little sister" came from? Someone replied: Because she is old, but refuses to admit it, she is called Little Sister. A word "small" embodies the present sense of obedience and naughtiness, and "big sister" embodies the tolerance and gentleness of age, and together they complete the perfect image of an otaku who obeys and leads tolerance.
I don't know how this word became popular. In online vocabulary, ABB word formation itself has a feeling of being young, cute and coquetry, such as sleeping, eating and eating. To put it bluntly, it is selling cute. My little sister is very young, but she is very mature. She has her sister's thinking and can be the master. Most of them look immature, but they have learned to adapt to the mature way of doing things, so the little sister has the meaning of coquetry, and it is also mixed with the subtle expectations of girls for adults.
Someone on the Internet summed up the twelve characteristics of Little Sister.
1. Dealing with others can be tactless, but there must be principles.
2. Don't blindly follow, don't compare, what suits you is the best.
3. Be able to listen to opinions and have opinions.
4. Economic independence
5. No selfies, no chicken soup.
6. Every festival will be very ceremonial.
7. Seek common ground while reserving differences and respect others' choices
8. Caring, willing to help others within their own ability.
9. I like sports and know how to control my desires.
10. Read useless books and talk about people's livelihood.
1 1. Walking at any time can be at the forefront of fashion. I don't chase explosions, but I am explosions.
12. No matter what the occasion, you are graceful, energetic and leisurely.
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Miss China, maturity is better than innocence, sexiness is better than loveliness, and wisdom is better than confusion. She may be a schoolmaster, a writer or a professional elite. She won more respect than love for the title of Little Sister. However, the word "little sister" is really suitable for girls who are fresh, immature and childlike, but for mature women who have developed smart bodies in the secular world, it is not so comfortable to use this word. You're like Yan Ni.
If you remove a small word, the word miss will become ambiguous immediately. This word has played too many roles and meanings in the course of history. Sister in the word "Miss" originally meant "Mother".
Xu Shen in the Eastern Han Dynasty said in Shuo Wen Jie Zi that Shu people called their mother and sister. During the Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties, musicians engaged in song and dance activities were also called "sisters". In the Song Dynasty, maids and concubines, prostitutes and female musicians were all called ladies. Only the goddess Bai is collectively referred to as the little lady. During the Ming and Qing Dynasties, the maiden name of a rich family was Miss. In the Republic of China, this young lady turned into a modern new woman with an open mind. After liberation, the working people became masters of their own affairs, and both men and women were called "comrades". After the reform and opening up, the political color faded, and the word "miss" once again floated to the table and became the dominant title of communicative women. Professional women are called ladies, and service women are also called "ladies". It's just that a small number of young ladies are not in place, and serious women are embarrassed to call them young ladies. No matter how beautiful or ugly, they are all called beauties.
I remember Hong Huang, a famous celebrity in Beijing, once said a famous saying: How many men can a woman sleep with in her life? If this statement is the rise of feminism in the new era. Then modern men looking for a lady can be understood as a sign that male power is weak on women's rights. Miss phenomenon means that men want to find someone who can take care of you, understand you and won't care about you.
Little sister is not a good wife and mother in the past, but an object of freedom and equality in intelligence, ability and finance. From a little sister, men can find the feelings of affection and love, the feelings of partners and colleagues, and the feelings of friends and opponents at the same time. These feelings are mixed together to reshape the relationship between the two sexes.
The word "little sister" is the first time that men show weakness to women in sexual consciousness in China. In the traditional relationship between men and women, men appear more as strong men than as weak women. The popularity of the name "Little Sister" is evidence that men are slightly weaker than women. The marriage and love market in China has undergone a qualitative change, and the buyer's market began to tilt towards the seller's market. Maybe the word "marry a wife" will become "marry a man" in the future. Look at the national bride price list some time ago and you will understand everything.
This reminds me of a joke: a buddy is getting married, and the bride price is 1.5 million. That buddy couldn't get it out, and he pointed bitterly at his mother-in-law: What if your two sons get married in the future and the other family wants 1.5 million? The prospective mother-in-law thought for a long time and raised the bride price to 300 thousand. ...
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This theory is translated into popular language: girls (goods) are too expensive for men (consumers) to buy. But girls always need it. What do you want men to do? Maybe only some of them can castrate themselves (single), give up buying or change their sexual orientation, or cut expenses through bargaining. It is said that the small fresh meat now is really too girly. Self-mockery and flattery are essentially a sign of weakness and bargaining.
Moreover, the appearance of the word "little sister" means the collective awakening of adolescent sexual consciousness. With the economic downturn, exam-oriented education is getting heavier and heavier, and fierce competition has shifted from society to campus. Young teenagers are increasingly eager for the love of the opposite sex, that is, to prove the value of their existence through others. However, due to the influence of traditional education, minors have no right to talk about sex and love.
Although it is definitely impossible for two minors to fall in love, it will slightly increase the legitimacy of this love if there is a slightly longer little sister as support and guidance. On the surface, the word "little sister" takes the family as the breakthrough point, but in essence it expresses the awakening of minors' sexual consciousness and the appeal of legal love.
Falling in love with a little sister is different from traditional sister-in-law. Little sister is a kind of existence with both mother and daughter characteristics. The former has the attributes of motherhood and dedication, while the latter is the embodiment of youth and vitality. The young lady who combines the two can be said to be a perfect contradiction. She is young and mature, pure and attractive, capable and tolerant, and is the other half of the ideal mate for young people.
At the end of the article, I was thinking that when God first created women, it was not like this. They are used to it on earth. In a girl's heart, there may be a Alin Daiyu, a Zhen Xuan, a Hua Fei and a Qu Xiaoyu. If Tang Jing is compared to the representative of Miss Sister, she will become Luo Zijun sooner or later. The mountain is high and the road is far. Watch while walking.
In fact, what is more important than love and knowledge in a young lady must be education.