"My" nine years of youth were fed to dogs like this
This is a true story that happened to me.
Su Xiaoyu and Yang Shi have been classmates since junior high school. Amelia Su is very beautiful, tall, with an oval face and a pair of big, clear and shining eyes like a deer. Moreover, she has a cheerful personality and is generous in dealing with things. No matter how depressing the situation is, she can always liven up the atmosphere with a few words. She is a veritable little live treasure.
? A girl with both intelligence and appearance is naturally indispensable for her suitors. Since junior high school, people have been chasing Amelia Su, and there are several hardcore suitors. . But among a group of suitors, Su Xiaoyu chose Yang Shi, a poor boy with an unattractive appearance and quite unsatisfactory conditions. This made many people unable to understand. Could it be that all the good cabbage was given to pigs? Su Xiaoyu couldn't remember why she liked Yang Shi. Maybe it was because his profile looked so good when he was doing his homework seriously, or maybe it was because his love letters were beautifully written, but it didn't matter. What mattered was that she fell in love with him. , that's enough.
After graduating from the third grade of junior high school, the two secretly held hands, and then went to the same high school and the same university together. Almost all the first times for girls, Su Xiaoyu dedicated them to Yang Shi, the first time holding hands, the first kiss, the first time clumsily knitting a sweater, the first time... Su Xiaoyu accompanied Yang Shi through life. The best years of youth.
Amelia Su is a child from a standard well-off family, an only child, with excellent living conditions. Compared with Su Xiaoyu, Yang Shi was much inferior. A family of three lived in a small house of less than fifty square meters. His father had a serious heart disease and his monthly medical expenses cost more than two thousand. His mother gave him She works as a nanny to support the family income. This love affair, destined to be in the wrong family, was naturally opposed by Amelia Su's family. The first time Su Xiaoyu brought Yang Shi home, Su Xiaoyu's parents had a very cold attitude. Of course, as a pair of well-educated and face-saving parents, they did not express their disapproval explicitly, but privately told their daughter more than once, "You guys The two of them were inappropriate, but Amelia Su acted as if she didn't hear anything and kept bringing her boyfriend to the house on time every week to report. Gradually, Amelia Su's family accepted Yang Shi's existence. However, it is one thing not to object, but another thing not to like it.
? Society is a melting pot, and the tests that come from life can often show a person's true character. After graduating from college, Su Xiaoyu worked as a secretary in a large company, and her work went smoothly. Yang, on the other hand, joined a medical company to run business and hit a wall. Although quarrels are unavoidable in love, Amelia Su gradually discovered that the differences between the two were getting bigger and bigger, and she saw more and more shortcomings in each other. Some shortcomings are tolerable, but the damage caused by some shortcomings is fatal. Especially after the two worked together, the more they got along, the more intense the collision of their values became. Su Xiaoyu discovered that Yang Shi had many problems, such as being bitter and mean, and having a typical hatred of the rich. In his heart, There is no good person in the second generation of rich people. They are all wastes who eat, drink and have fun. For example, they are lazy and ignorant, and they always go to Su Xiaoyu's house. Yang Shi always sits on the sofa, eating fruit and watching TV, waiting for dinner, and never reaches out to help.
? In fact, there are many things in life that come from small things. Su Xiaoyu’s mother has talked to her daughter more than once. The details reflect a person’s quality and character, which makes it difficult to understand. The daughter opened her eyes. But at this time, Su Xiaoyu and Yang Shi had been better for more than eight years. Eight years is enough for one person to become another person's habit. To be honest, it's not that Amelia Su hasn't met a better and more suitable suitor after dating Yang Shi, but whenever she wavers, she will think, I gave Yang Shi my best time, I I gave him all the first time. How could I just give up? I should insist on staying with him. People are like this. Many times we are used to calculating the costs we have consumed in love, and then fall into a vicious circle of thinking in self-persuasion.
The past is certainly worth remembering, but if there is no hope for the future, why should you deceive yourself and others into being a moth fluttering into the flames?
? Su Xiaoyu was the last one among her classmates to get married. When her best friend’s daughter was able to hang out and make soy sauce, the two finally talked about getting married. . At that time, it was already the ninth year of their long-distance love affair with Yang Shi. It was not that Su Xiaoyu had not wanted to get married early, but whenever he brought up the topic, Yang Shi always rejected her on the grounds that she had no conditions for marriage. For the last time, when Su Xiaoyu threatened to break up, Yang Shi compromised. The two of them jointly paid for a down payment of an affordable house of less than 70 square meters. Su Xiaoyu asked for a symbolic 50,000 yuan. As a bride price, she married herself.
? The day before the wedding, the upright best friend hugged Amelia Su and cried like a mess, "Xiaoyu, I just feel wronged for you! Marrying yourself so casually, that What's so good about Yang Shi? Why are you obsessed with him? After all these years, I really feel that he is not worthy of you. You are so good and you should find someone better." Su Xiaoyu smiled bitterly and looked into the corner of her eyes in the mirror. The subtle wrinkles were not easy to detect, but there was no answer. Many times, you will never understand many things without putting yourself in their shoes. The lively little living treasure that he used to talk and laugh about is long gone, replaced by a carefree woman who hates getting married, and that's all.
? This is indeed a marriage that is not very blessed. Both Amelia Su's parents and best friends feel that Yang Shi is not worthy of the excellent Amelia Su. Despite the heavy pressure, Amelia Su married herself. There was no doubt that she loved Yang Shi, otherwise she would not have spent so many years with him. But why did you marry him? Is it for love or because you don’t want to admit defeat in your bones? Even Amelia Su couldn’t explain clearly.
? Many times, we can stick to our pursuits and believe in the wise saying in love, "Only your feet know whether the shoes fit properly." However, sometimes, we should also listen to other people's opinions. The so-called authorities are blind to the beholder. If one person objects to something, we can turn a blind eye. But when everyone does not support it, we should calm down and think about why.
On the third day of their wedding, Amelia Su discovered a deceiving fact: Yang Shi had fucking cheated on her. Looking at the WeChat account that Yang Shi had not had time to switch to, there were various intimate photos of him and a girl, hugging and kissing in a cute way, and the only missing photo was the bed photo, in which Yang Shi smiled brightly, as if he was another person. What made Su Xiaoyu even more shocked was that the person Yang Shi cheated on looked like a short, fat man with a large birthmark on his face. At that moment, Amelia Su's self-esteem was completely shattered. Looking at Yang Shi lying drunkenly on the bed, she didn't say a word, but silently packed her clothes, packed them, and left.
Yang Shi's phone rang at almost noon the next day. Su Xiaoyu didn't answer, but silently sent a text message, "Meet you at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau at ten o'clock tomorrow morning." Blocked her, turned off her phone, swallowed a few more sleeping pills, covered her head and continued to sleep. Who knew that she would be woken up by the banging on the door soon. Su Xiaoyu originally wanted to turn a blind eye, but she really couldn't stand Yang Shi's aunty-like murmur at the door, "Xiaoyu, I know you are at home, I think we We need to talk." "Hurry up and open the door, or I'll call our mother..."
? Amelia Su stood up and opened the door, surprisingly quiet, "Come in, Tell me something in the house." Yang Shi may have been frightened by Su Xiaoyu's calm look. He was stunned for a moment, then immediately put on a pleading look, "Xiaoyu, I know I was wrong. I will change it in the future. Come home with me." "I The only one I love is you. We have been together for so many years, but you still can’t trust me. That woman came to me on her own, really...
? Su Xiaoyu Listening to Yang Shi's constant explanations, listening to him blaming the fault on that woman, she felt really bored. She stared at Yang Shi quietly, and then slowly uttered the word "divorce". Yang Shi was stunned by Su Xiaoyu's eyes. For a moment, he seemed to see the sought-after goddess again.
But then, Yang Shi came to his senses again, haha, goddess, you are so high up there, you were pulled down by me too!
? Yang Shi stared at Amelia Su, "Are you sure you want to leave?"
? "Li" "Okay" "It's okay to get a divorce, but you have to return the gift money to me." Su Xiaoyu was stunned. He looked at the familiar but unfamiliar Yang Shi in front of him and listened to his shameless divorce conditions. For the first time, he felt deeply, Maybe she never really understood Yang Shi.
"Return the gift to you? Hahahaha, Yang Shi, you are a fucking bastard, bastard..." Su Xiaoyu burst into tears from laughter. "I'm a bastard? I'm not a human being. I wasn't forced by you. Who in your family has ever looked at me seriously? All of you look down on me, think I'm poor, think I don't have a good job, and don't have a good family, but I'm easy Well, look at your mother, every time I look at me, I act aloof, and secretly introduce you to blind dates behind my back. Don’t think I don’t know, in the eyes of your family, I’m just a fucking A fool, a beggar!"
? When Su Xiaoyu looked at the hysterical Yang in front of her, the remaining bit of unbearability in her heart was shattered. Nine years, nine years Ah, it turns out that my youth was given to such a scumbag. The funny thing is that I still regard this scumbag as my treasure. "I won't refund a cent of the bride price, and the house is also our property. If you don't get divorced, I will spend it with you. I have plenty of time. I have all the nude photos of you and my mistress here. I don't mind. Take it to your unit and talk to your leaders and colleagues, and then go back to your alma mater and talk to your teachers and classmates. Anyway, if you are not afraid of being embarrassed, I will be even less afraid.”
? Su Xiaoyu knows Yang Shi very well. He is a typical Aries boy with strong self-esteem, loves face, and cares too much about other people's opinions. Sure enough, Yang Shi looked at Amelia Su with a determined look in front of him, got scared, and began to be humble again, bringing out his past feelings, how we were so romantic and so loving back then, in an attempt to impress Amelia Su. Su Xiaoyu can guarantee that she has never seen so many faces of Yang Shi in nine years. Haha, the hardest thing to guess is indeed the human heart! In the end, Su Xiaoyu said, "If you keep stalking me, I will start a live broadcast on Moments" and successfully pushed Yang Shi back, and the bitch walked away in despair. Looking at Yang Shi's retreating back, Amelia Su could no longer hold back her tears...
? Do you think this is the end of the matter? NO! The next day, Amelia Su's mother-in-law came to her door and said she was taking her daughter-in-law home. She had a righteous talk with Amelia Su. In the conversation, not only did she not accuse her son of cheating, but she said, " He advised Su Xiaoyu with "serious words and sincere heart" that cheating on a man is a normal thing, so just put up with it, who told you to love him! Yes, you heard it right, these are the exact words of the mother-in-law, "Who told you to love him, just bear with it!" Su Xiaoyu instantly felt that her outlook on life had been refreshed, damn, cheating can be explained with such a crown spring, I love your son so I deserve to be cheated on? The best and the weirdest, there is no one else, it is really not like a family does not come into the same house, how come I was obsessed with it before! I can't listen to other people's advice.
? Later, Su Xiaoyu and Yang Shi went through the divorce procedures. On the issue of bride price, Su Xiaoyu refused to give in. This may be the only way for her to retain her self-esteem.
? Su Xiaoyu said that she spent nine years, but in the end she could not see anyone clearly. Amelia Su said that she no longer believed in love.
? This is a true story that happened around me. I think that in nine years, someone as smart as Amelia Su might not have clearly understood Yang Shi's character. It’s just that many times, we are willing to stay in the past and refuse to move on. We are used to using the little good things in the past to offset the various shortcomings of the present, deceiving ourselves and others and forcing ourselves to calculate an account called the consumed cost—— I have already given so much, my youth has been invested in it, how could I give up halfway. However, have you ever thought that if the direction is wrong from the beginning, will it still make sense if you persist endlessly? The future is more precious than the past. Therefore, in love, you should also stop appropriately, settle accounts calmly, and learn to stop losses in time.
? Just a few days ago, I saw Amelia Su’s brand new travel selfie in Moments. She cut off her waist-length hair and replaced it with a refreshing one. With neat short hair and sparkling eyes, she was sitting by the Erhai Lake with a bright smile on her face.
? Good girl, you still have to believe that if you bloom, butterflies will come. You have to believe that true love exists in this world. As for the scumbag, just think of him as a calamity that you experienced when you came to earth, and tell yourself that those few years of youth were just a waste of time. Then turn around silently and embrace a new life!