What do three aunts and six wives mean?
Yapo is an intermediary who is responsible for the success of the transaction and collecting service fees from it. Steady woman is a midwife. The medicine woman is a pharmacist. The matchmaker is a staff member of a marriage agency.
please refer to the theory of "three aunts and six grandmothers"
In China's old novels and lifestyle, "three aunts and six grandmothers" represent a rather bad image. This image includes gossiping, doing nothing, gossiping, gossiping, media lewdness, mercenary, selling superstition, seductive, ignorant, stealthy and so on.
We are familiar with "three aunts and six grandmothers", but we seldom inquire into its origin. In fact, "three aunts and six grandmothers" refer to: nuns, Taoist aunts, divinatory aunts, dental aunts, matchmakers, teachers, pious aunts, medicine ladies and stable ladies. Among them, nuns and Taoists are a kind of identity; Medicine woman and stable woman are a profession. A medicine woman sells medicine, and a stable woman is a midwife. Bitch and matchmaker are both acts of matchmaking. It turns out that these people are not all bad elements. It's just that they usually go deep into the family and get in touch with good women. In addition, most housewives in the past were ignorant and deceivable, so "three aunts and six grandmothers" often succeeded again and again when they lured women to seek personal gain. Over time, there are many disadvantages, and "three aunts and six grandmothers" have become a figure that everyone hates. Not only is the "three aunts and six grandmothers" ugly in itself, but even women who have a little contact with the "three aunts and six grandmothers" are regarded as immoral. Zheng Banqiao, a great scholar in the late Qing Dynasty, repeatedly warned women at home not to have anything to do with people like "three aunts and six grandmothers".
On the surface, the term "three aunts and six grandmothers" belongs to the past. In fact, its function still exists today. The former "three aunts and six grandmothers" existed because the old women lived in seclusion on weekdays, didn't know the outside world, and had no one to talk to. The "three aunts and six grandmothers" are well-informed and rich in topics because they often come and go from all walks of life, and they are good at observing words and feelings and taking advantage of gaps, which has won the favor of women; Often deceived and unconscious, they still turn to them for help. Of course, people can understand the society in which ancient women lived and their weaknesses. Modern women, on the other hand, can receive higher education, go abroad for sightseeing, study for a doctorate, become a prime minister, be free to fall in love, choose a job in many ways, be a female manager, speak eloquently with men, and make men candidly admit defeat ... Their ability does not make men cringe, and their knowledge and knowledge seem to make people believe that "the world is one day, and women account for most of it"!
However, among today's "capable women", there are still "three aunts and six grandmothers", and many women still take the initiative to accept and rely on "three aunts and six grandmothers". When they have nothing to do, they go to an altar to worship, and when they have something to do, they rush to ask for advice from sticks and witches. From the husband's failure to meet his son's grades, he can ask for a visa and ask questions. As soon as I heard that the five elements were in harmony with each other and there was a rush in the northeast, I changed my name to Feng Shui, put a cursive figure under my bed and put a spell in front of my door, which was full of tricks. If you are deeply poisoned, ask the right date of birth, operate on time and have children. With modern medical skills and ignorant superstitions, you will give birth to children who are less than weight-in order to achieve the dream of becoming a phoenix.
It should be said that we have gone through the absurdity that "wearing red trousers can ward off evil spirits and eliminate disasters", tasted the pain that "a chicken blood needle can cure all diseases" but killed people, and also learned about all kinds of exposed deception of "master elixir" and "qigong master". The harm of "three aunts and six grandmothers" should have made today's women even more.
It is not a shame that there are "three aunts and six grandmothers" among women, and there are also robbers and bandits who commit crimes among men. But it is shameful that those who cannot live without "three aunts and six grandmothers" rely on "three aunts and six grandmothers"; Shamefully, I don't accept it myself. When I meet a woman who is more independent than myself, I immediately turn myself into a "three aunts and six grandmothers" and then influence others. Shamefully, these amateur "three aunts and six grandmothers" rely on their cleverness and methods, and often pay attention to those who have caused estrangement between separated couples in other people's families ...
It can be said that since the social development, women have really achieved equality because most of them have already surpassed the consciousness of "three aunts and six grandmothers", and this transcendence is great. Those who contact or are willing to be "three aunts and six grandmothers" should turn back and be alert: ignorance is bound to be humiliated, self-abased and "equal"!
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