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Hunan people's marriage customs, according to the process, are as follows: matchmaking, blind date, changing Geng, setting Geng, going through the door and paying homage to the bride,

A complete set of ceremonies such as noisy rooms and returning to the door. Most marriage customs are the same.

Matchmaker is indispensable: the status and role of matchmaker is as important as ever. although

Free love, no matchmaker introduction. As long as you get married in your hometown in the countryside, this procedure cannot be reduced. oneself

By falling in love,

Ready to talk about marriage,

The old people at home have to find a matchmaker to propose marriage for you.

Otherwise, it is inconsistent.

Politeness will be looked down upon by neighbors. Then an engagement dinner was held, and parents and important relatives of both parties were invited to attend. Until marriage.

Marriage, the matchmaker has been involved from beginning to end, but things are much less. If it is introduced by the matchmaker, the matchmaker

People's position and role are very important.

The mutual understanding between the two families,

Communication,

Resolving contradictions is meaningful.

Pass it on through the matchmaker.

The matchmaker's most important moment is the dinner at the man's house the day before the wedding.

That's for the matchmaker.

Yes, when the matchmaker takes a seat, important relatives of the man's family will come to propose a toast. This meal is called "accompanying media". end

There must be someone to play cards with the matchmaker. Because the matchmaker is not important on the wedding day, it is called "the daughter-in-law marries the door,

The matchmaker threw it across the river. The man will give the matchmaker a pig's head, a pair of shoes and a piece of meat.

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Ciba, Ciba

The cake must be red)

The first step is to send the man's birthday to the woman's life through the matchmaker.

The men sent by Chen Ba, some superstitious parents, think they are responsible for their children's marriage and often pick them up.

After the red post, please ask the fortune teller to calculate and see if the "date of birth" of both sides is consistent, such as

Fruit incompatibility; Marriage will be reconsidered. Fortunately, most modern people don't believe this, so even if

Red post exchange is often just a form, and some even dispense with the form of post exchange.

After "changing posts" and "matching eight characters", the matchmaker should choose a good date and get engaged with the man as a gift.

Giving gifts is a big deal. In general, the active parties of marriage (both men and women) should give each other a heavy gift.

The gift must include at least one pig elbow.

A pair of wine, a pair of chickens and ducks, and a pair of parents.

Settings. A pair of shoes and socks, a package, and some things for girls. How much was sealed in the envelope for aunt?

Mom, some engagement gifts. Mom said that when they were young, men wanted to give them to women.

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A kilo of pork, some candy

The scarlet letter said when to go out and when to go in.

"Grandma's farewell ceremony is an extra gift": The selection of the farewell ceremony is quite strict and there are specific arrangements.

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A yellow flower eldest daughter, cousins mainly choose dowry, at least eight people, such as

If you have few cousins, you can also let your good friends choose. It's grand to choose a dowry all the way.

Have face. Why should my cousin choose a dowry? It turns out that the man's family wants to give a red envelope, fat.

Water does not flow out! And parents, brothers and sisters, uncles, etc. Who used to be a mother

Seeing the bride off is suspected of "marrying only women and not mothers". Up to now, habits have changed a little, mom.

You can see your parents off together, but when mom and dad eat, they must not sit in the same room, let alone sit together. Grandfather generation

Yes, I won't attend the farewell ceremony, let alone my grandmother. It's too far. Up to now, grandma still

It is synonymous with "ignorance". If you are unclear, people will say, "How to talk to that old woman?"

What a good sample! "。 If you reinvent the wheel, people will say, "that's grandma's farewell dinner!" " "

I will cry when I get married: Fung Wong-Nui goes out in the middle of the night and at night.

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Call a weighty old man later.

Mother uses embroidery thread to make her hair, and there are twelve colors. After getting dressed, she sat at the door.

Put a brazier in front of the door and wait for the auspicious time. It's auspicious time to let the elders at home carry it on their backs, but their feet can't.

When landing, the matchmaker plays a red umbrella on the side, and it is the same when entering the man's house. still

There should be incense table, whip (firecrackers), candles, money, paper (money), incense (incense) and oil on the wedding day.

Sesame beans and ginger, as well as fish (must be carp), meat, drinks and fruits.

Everything is available. I knelt down and knocked on the memorial tablet of the ancestors and bid farewell to the ancestors. Since then, I have never recovered.

It hasn't belonged to this family since then,

It's time to marry someone else.

so-called

"Water spilled by married women"

Then I will cry loudly to show my filial piety and gratitude. Yes, if you get married far away, it won't work for many years.

If you go home once, think about that sad moment, think about the family that gave birth to her and raised her, and don't cry.

I can do it. Mom said that when the aunts got married, they began to cry a few days before they got married and cried for a week.

In the meantime, with the changes of the times, this custom has also changed. When my brother got married, my sister-in-law cried.

No more than three hours. The content of crying is generally to cry about your unhappiness with your family since childhood.

It doesn't matter what you cry when you leave, it's your parents who cry.

Crying about going to a man's house to be obedient)

Gift money: it is difficult to give gifts. First of all, you must determine your relationship with married people or their families, and determine

Gift money, but also ask about the level of the wedding banquet at any time to determine the gift money. Everyone at the wedding is here.

At that time, there was a special welcome, setting off firecrackers to greet them, shaking hands and offering tea and cigarettes. Shao Kun, take the lead in receiving.

Ritual platform, write a complimentary book. The giver should take out cash and ask Mr. Gift Book to write his name and register the gift money. give

How many, there are many people around to see it! Why don't you be a city dweller, red envelope, 1200 whatever you like,

Send more, send less, others don't know! When writing a gift book, the host family will give you a pack of cigarettes and a red envelope. If so

Wang Furong, you should at least take 200 yuan. If it's golden white sand, it's at least 100 yuan. If you don't deliver cigarettes,

Look at fifty. The red envelope returned by the main family is usually ten yuan. After dinner, my family also sent you a pack.

Melon seeds, peanuts, sugar, a box of drinks. If it's a birthday party, change a box of longevity noodles. If you ...

If you can't afford a gift at the moment, you can still pay the bill. Write a gift book first, indicate the bill and return it within one year.

Yes, you can.

Welcoming the bride is the climax of the wedding.

When the sedan chair stopped in front of the hall, the maid of honor invited by the man stood among the flowers.

When the car was in front, the ceremony had already begun. On the incense table, cigarettes are lingering, red candles have a high fever, and relatives and friends officials

Personnel in position.

The two bridesmaids appeared as "Zan" and "Zan" respectively and began to praise.

Gift.

The bride and groom began to worship the bride according to the praise ceremony.

The procedure of the ceremony is as follows:

Praise: the groom bows (handing over the bride)

Zan: The bride and groom are in position (before the incense table) to play music and fire guns.

Tong Zan: The bride and groom put incense sticks (to the shrine and ancestral tablet).

Zan: kneel down and offer incense. Light candles, burn incense, burn incense, crawl, stand up and stand back.

Tong Zan: Kneel down, kowtow, kowtow again, kowtow three times, and you will be happy.

Then, there is the traditional "three worships"-"one worships heaven and earth, the other worships parents, and the husband and wife worship each other".

"Introducing the bridal chamber"

This is the end of the ceremony.

When the bride comes in, the unmarried girl will fetch water to wash her face. The washbasin is the bride's dowry.

There is a red envelope on his face. Couples with sons, with harmonious families, should be wedding beds.

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Bride's dowry quilt

There is a red envelope on his face, which is for the person who makes the bed. Before eating, the bride and groom should salute all the elders, change their words and grow up.

I want to give the bride a present. If you want to eat at night, you have to worship your ancestors. When making trouble in the bridal chamber, you should cook rice cakes.

For guests and matchmakers, rice cakes are red.

Wedding banquets usually last for two days, instead of three days. On the first day, "female relatives" eat first, and the next day is

"Male relatives" eat first. The matchmaker has already left before the wedding reception is over. This is called "running away". If you don't leave,

Media cleaners will wipe their faces into the bottom of the pot. After the wedding reception, "Shangqin" left the room first.

Have a rest, eat some snacks, and say some polite words accompanied by the man's elders until the handyman moves his seat.

After sweeping the floor, it's time for the big kiss to get up and leave. Speaking of getting up, the man should "send" clothes, shoes and socks.

And red envelopes. "Send a big kiss" is another lively scene that all decent people in the family want.

Send it to your door, and shoot a gun and play music to show respect. The groom and his parents should send the guests to the village entrance.

When the man's uncle comes, the uncles will set off firecrackers as soon as they arrive at the man's house.

As soon as men listen, they will start to play, and uncles will also play like men.

On the day before the traditional wedding, the man's home has been decorated with lanterns, and its layout is roughly as follows:

Main room:

A couplet in front of the door, plus a horizontal batch.

There is a square lantern hanging in the middle of the room, and the four sides of the lantern are painted separately.

"Husband and wife?

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","from Guanyin.

"Zi", "Top Scholar" and "Family Happiness" modes.

A pair of huge red candles on the incense table. .

Put a photo of "companion" on the opposite wall on both sides. .

After the "golden wall is brilliant", the six characters of "heaven and earth, closeness and separation" were posted, and they were written straight from top to bottom. These six words

Writing is particular: the sky should be flat, that is, the two horizontal lines of the word "sky" should be written flat and not bent; The ground should be wide, that is,

Write the word "ground" wider, not too narrow; If you don't speak, the word "Jun" must be completely closed and you can't leave.

Gap; If you don't close your eyes, you can write the traditional "pro"

See you at "Word, on the right".

"The words can't be put.

The last horizontal line of the word "mu" is completely sealed; The teacher has no other meaning: the traditional "teacher"

Write one apostrophe less,

Write "teacher"

New house:

Stick a pair of couplets on both sides of the door frame, and add a horizontal batch (horizontal batch generally writes the words "husband and wife");

Put a big red double happiness on the door;

Hanging lanterns in the middle of the new house;

Paper-cut big red double happiness characters are pasted on the window, and paper-cut butterfly patterns are pasted on the four corners;

Put couplets on both sides of the window;

Calligraphy and painting are hung on the wall.

Kitchen:

There is a couplet at the front door, which is commented horizontally, and the word "Xi" is posted on the door.

Others:

The word "hi" is posted on the doors of all rooms.

Wife's dowry: cotton shoes: before

50-60

double；twofold

at present

20-30

double；twofold

Insole: Before

50-60

double；twofold

at present

20-30

Double (mom said her little daughter's

Sometimes, when you do a wedding, you will let her embroider the insole. At that time, you could embroider a lot in one night. )

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Bedclothes, cabinets, furniture, fire clips, curtains (this curtain is the woman's brother)

My brother took it and gave it to my brother-in-law when he entered the man's house, and if the brother-in-law wanted to give his brother a red envelope,

Without a younger brother, I don't have to give it to my brother-in-law. I have to add whatever my brother asks his brother-in-law to add to that mosquito net.

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Of course, before him.

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Two barrels (meaning don't worry about drinking)

Bowl chopsticks (meaning not to worry about eating)

Two open bottles.

(Boil water for guests to drink on the wedding day)

Baskets (for the market) and things sent by women should be put in the grain.

Seeds, corn candy.

Return to the door: After three days of marriage, the bride and groom will return to their parents' home together, also called "return to the door". this

Is an indispensable etiquette. On the day you go home, you should hide sugar, money, melon seeds, peanuts and cigarettes in the new house.

The more of these, the better. You must have someone from the woman's family pick you up before you can go back to the door. When you get to the bride's house, set off firecrackers.

Tell everyone to go to the new house to find something. besides

The old man of the bride attaches great importance to it.

the third day

return

Door, so the groom should be prepared in advance in thought or gift, and strive for joy.

The mother-in-law left a pleasant good impression.

Prepare gifts in advance and buy gifts that the bride and the elderly like.

Generally, there are four items. Huimen usually leaves at nine or ten in the morning. The bride and groom should attend the wedding.

Dress up carefully to maintain a beautiful and handsome image at the wedding.

Go back to the bride's house, groom,

The bride should greet the old man first. At this time, the groom should change his mind and call his parents-in-law like the bride.

Mom, you should be natural and kind, and treat your relatives, friends and neighbors with kindness, enthusiasm and gentleness.

Polite, say hello first, treat people with courtesy.

When eating, the bride should accompany the groom, a parent,

Relatives, friends and neighbors raised their glasses and thanked everyone for their wishes for their wedding. On the day of returning home, newcomers must be at

Stay at your mother's house for one night. When I came home the next day,

You should take the initiative to invite two old people and brothers and sisters to your house to do it.

Guests can also invite relatives, friends and neighbors.