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A person's Feng Shui often depends on your attitude towards your parents, believe it or not

Everyone is brought into this world by his or her parents. Everyone is born, from crying for food, to babbling, to learning to walk, to hold chopsticks, to write...

Parents accompany us and guide us through these necessary processes in life. We're done.

Some people say that a person’s moral character can be seen by looking at his attitude towards his parents.

Some people are gentle and soft-spoken to outsiders, and do not lose their temper at all, but when they speak loudly and yell in front of their parents, they reveal their true colors.

In fact, being patient with your loved ones, not speaking loudly, and caring for them meticulously are the true qualities of a person.

It doesn’t matter how you treat others. No one will replace your parents or your relatives. If a person can't even tolerate his own parents' minor mistakes, who else will he tolerate?

Therefore, the attitude towards parents determines a person's Feng Shui.

When we come into this world, we are raised by our parents and are filial. This is everyone's obligation. It’s not something you think about, it’s something you have to do.

As we grow up and reach middle age, our parents are old and have become delicate and sensitive. If we say or do something without considering their feelings, they will definitely feel particularly uncomfortable.

I once read a story about a girl who worked in the city. Her parents were farmers in the countryside, but her mother missed her very much and could not see her all year round.

So her mother did not tell her, but secretly walked the mountain road to the county, and then traveled hundreds of kilometers by car to see her.

She doesn’t know where her daughter lives. I only know the name of my daughter’s company.

So she carried big and small bags of her daughter’s favorite foods, including potatoes, peppers, chicken, mushrooms, etc., waiting for her to get off work at the door of her daughter’s company.

She didn’t know if her daughter would be there, but she thought she would just wait here. After waiting for several hours she saw the figure of her daughter, well dressed.

When she and her colleagues were discussing where to go for a dinner, she was so excited that she stepped forward and called her daughter's nickname "Yanzi". Yanzi looked at her mother in surprise, with a complicated expression on her face. I was happy to see my mother, but also a little embarrassed. She said nothing.

Colleagues asked Yanzi who this was? Yanzi still didn't answer, and the mother knew about Yanzi's embarrassing situation.

He quickly said: "Oh, girls, I am Yanzi's aunt. I came to the city to see my daughter. I saw Yanzi here. You are laughing at me. I am a bad old woman. You go and eat. "Okay, I'm leaving."

After saying that, he was about to turn around and leave, when his colleagues took Yan Zi away. Mother carried a lot of things on her back, turned around and walked away with difficulty. Yanzi told her colleagues that she had something to do, so she would not go there for the time being and ran to her mother.

Mom, Mom, wait for me. " Yanzi's mother was so happy when she heard her daughter calling her.

She even apologized to Yanzi: "Yanzi, Mom has embarrassed you and embarrassed you. Mom shouldn't have said hello to you. I came to see you, but mom misses you. Mom just wanted to come and see her precious daughter.

Yanzi could no longer hold back her tears and cried. I hugged my mother and cried bitterly. She hated what she had just done, not introducing her mother to her colleagues.

She felt embarrassed. She was filled with regret at the moment. She really wanted to slap herself a few times. That was my mother, that was the woman who raised me! How could I dislike her?

The mother comforted Yanzi not to cry. Yanzi apologized to her mother: "Mom, I'm sorry, I just..."

Before she could finish her words, the mother stopped her: Don't say you're sorry, dad. When Mom was in her hometown, it was you who sent her living expenses.

Your parents only have a daughter, and we are grateful to you. When you were 3 years old, your parents adopted you home, and now you treat us like your biological parents. We are already very content!

Yanzi is still crying: "Mom, I shouldn't have just introduced you to my colleagues as my mother, but I hesitated. I will never do it again. Mom, you are tired." Come on, I'll take you to dinner, and then we'll go home."

The mother smiled and said nothing. Yan Zi carried her favorite food that her mother had brought and led her to eat.

On the road, the mother and daughter were talking and laughing. Yanzi hadn't felt so relaxed for a long time. She seemed to have seen her mother and felt that this place had the warmth of home.

That night, Yanzi squeezed beside her mother. She felt as if she had returned to the time when her mother coaxed her to sleep when she was a child.

This story moved me deeply. Each of us has something dissatisfied with our parents when we grow up.

You may not understand their living habits, and you may think they are slow, but your parents are old, right?

Time waits for no one, and filial piety cannot wait. The most regrettable thing is that a child wants to be raised but cannot be loved.

If you have the ability to honor your parents, you must spend more time with them and talk to them more.

Don’t wait until you have money to fulfill your filial piety, don’t wait until you have time to fulfill your filial piety, and don’t wait until you have a family and a career to fulfill your filial piety.

It is never too late to show your filial piety.