In "Only Thirty", Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan divorced, what should Xu Ziyan do?
If Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan divorce, if the child Xu Ziyan is awarded to one party, the other party will still need to perform corresponding obligations and bear corresponding support expenses. If both parties agree, they can also take turns raising the children. But I think it is more likely that Xu Ziyan will be awarded Gu Jia.
Since the birth of Xu Ziyan, Gu Jia has been with the child, responsible for all aspects of the child's food, clothing, housing and transportation. She has a good understanding of the child's daily life, behavioral habits, etc., and under Gu Jia's care, Xu Ziyan has grown up Very good. If Xu Ziyan must award one of the parties in accordance with the law, living with his mother Gu Jia will be more conducive to his physical and mental health development and will not cause major changes in his life. On the other hand, Gu Jia is not With no financial ability, Gu Jia now has an empty mountain tea factory. Although the early development was not very smooth, in the new video, we can learn that Gu Jia's tea factory has received investment and is heading towards a good direction, so, Gu Jia also has the financial ability to raise and take care of Xu Ziyan.
On the other hand, although Xu Huanshan currently has the financial ability, he cheated first, which shows that he does not have a good sense of responsibility and is usually busy with work, so he rarely has time to accompany Xu Ziyan. , we know very little about Xu Ziyan, not as much as Ziyan’s mother. In addition, after Xu Huanshan divorced Gu Jia, it is very likely that he will be with his extramarital affair Lin Youyou, and Lin Youyou is a A newly graduated college student has no experience in taking care of children. What's more, Lin Youyou is not Xu Ziyan's biological mother. Relatively speaking, there is a big gap between her and Xu Ziyan. To rashly let her take care of Ziyan is very harmful to Xu Ziyan's physical and mental health. It may cause very adverse effects.
However, if the divorce parties Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan agree to sign an agreement when they divorce, it is not impossible for the two to take turns raising Xu Ziyan, but no matter who raises Ziyan, the two parties should also fulfill their duties as parents. obligations and bear corresponding expenses. Let children grow up healthier.