Secret: Why did Shi Xiangyun alienate Daiyu and choose to be close to Baochai?

In the 21st novel, Zhi Yanzhai once criticized that Xiangyun and Baoyu would follow the old lady when Daiyu was around in the future. Now Xiangyun has gone, Daiyu has come, and she is old. Baoyu has his own house and Daiyu has her own house, so Xiangyun should be with Daiyu. That is to say, since Lin Daiyu entered Jiafu, Shi Xiangyun came to Jiafu again and lived with Daiyu. Judging from the tone of Zhi Yanzhai's comment on writing, it is most reasonable for Xiangyun and Daiyu to live together. But in the thirty-seventh chapter of the novel, Baochai invited Xiangyun to rest in Wu Hengyuan, and Xiangyun has lived in Wu Hengyuan ever since. In the forty-ninth novel, who knew that the bowling Hou had moved to another provincial and ministerial official and would soon take his family to his post? The old lady could not bear Xiang Yun, so she kept him and took him home. It was fatal for Xi- feng to build another place to live with him. Shi Xiangyun insisted on not living with Baochai, that's all. From the change of Xiangyun's residence, it is not difficult to see that the relationship between Xiangyun and Daiyu is gradually alienating, and the relationship with Baochai is getting closer and closer.

Why did Shi Xiangyun suddenly get close to Baochai while alienating Daiyu?

The twenty-second novel shows the relationship between Xiangyun and Baochai for the first time. The novel says: First of all, Shi Xiangyun stayed for two days because he wanted to go back. Jia Dao: "Wait for your baby sister's birthday and go back after the play." Shi Xiangyun had to stay. In just three sentences, we can see the relationship between Xiangyun and Baochai. Xiangyun didn't know Baochai's birthday, and because Jia asked her to wait for Baochai's birthday before going back, Xiangyun "had to stay", which seemed helpless! In other words, Xiangyun and Baochai had a very general relationship at first. Although Xiangyun thought Baochai was an impeccable person and better than Lin Daiyu, Xiangyun and Baochai were not close. So why do they get closer and closer as time goes by?

In the thirty-second chapter of the novel, Shi Xiangyun appeared in Jiafu for the second time. She talked to xiren and suddenly praised Xue Baochai. Xiangyun said, "I think at home every day that none of these sisters is better than Sister Bao. Too bad we're not sons of bitches. If I have such a sister, it doesn't matter if I don't have parents. " Xiangyun first appeared in Jiafu, and had a bickering with Daiyu and went to the theatre with Baochai on her birthday, but she didn't mention her association with Baochai. But the author deliberately tells the story of two people from Baochai's mouth, which is the thirty-second time in the novel. Jia Yucun wants to see Baoyu, and Aaron sends him a fan. He met Xue Baochai, and Aaron said he wanted Xiangyun to help him glue his shoes. Hearing this, Baochai looked back and saw no one coming and going. She smiled and said, "Why can't you be considerate for a while?" I've been watching Miss Yun's expression recently. It sounds like she's not in charge at home at all. Their family thinks the cost is too high and they don't need those sewing people. Most things are done by their women. Why did he come here several times? He talked to me. When no one was around, he said he was very tired at home. I asked him a few more questions about his daily life. His eyes were red and his mouth was full of words. Considering its shape and scenery, naturally, children have never suffered from their parents. When I looked at him, I felt heartache. Last time he told me that if I worked at home for the third night and did some work for others, his grandmothers were still useless. Baochai's words revealed a very important message: Xiangyun has been to Jiafu several times since the twenty-second novel, and Baochai's original words were "Why did he come here several times", so the relationship between Xiangyun and Baochai gradually narrowed during these visits to Jiafu. In another article of mine, What's the Entanglement between Shi Xiangyun and Lin Daiyu, it was mentioned that Xiangyun and Daiyu had a contradiction because of Baoyu, which planted the seeds for their alienation. Because of Baoyu, they were unhappy in Baochai's birthday theater. Because of Baoyu, they can read Baoyu's poems together and coax Baoyu. So the relationship between Xiangyun and Baochai is getting closer and closer. Is it related to Baoyu?

There must be a relationship, but it is not the most fundamental reason. Baoyu doesn't have Xue Baochai in his heart, so Xue Baochai and Xiangyun have a certain relationship to some extent. Before Daiyu entered Jiafu, Xiangyun and Baoyu were childhood friends and had deep feelings. After Daiyu came, they completely replaced Xiangyun's position in Baoyu's heart, and even greatly surpassed Xiangyun's position in Baoyu's heart. Then Baochai and Xiangyun will not be jealous at this time, and their conversation will not be as undercurrent as Xiangyun and Lin Daiyu. This is also one of the reasons why Xiangyun and Baochai are easy to cultivate their feelings.

Moreover, Xue Baochai is a man who is uncompromising and never gives offence. She is not only a person, but also the person who can read minds and get words from others. In chapter 2 1 of the novel, there is a conversation between Baochai and xiren. Aroma said with a smile, "Brother Bao still has time at home!" Baochai knew as soon as she heard it. Aroma sighed again, "My sisters are kind-hearted and measured, so they won't make trouble in the dark in broad daylight! No matter how people persuade them, they turn a deaf ear. " Baochai thought, "Don't be wrong about this girl. Listen to her, but she knows something. " Ask him his age, hometown, etc. In the slow gossip and pay attention to it. His speech is very respectable. Baoyu came and Baochai went out. Baoyu asked Aroma, "Why did Sister Baoyu talk to you like that and run away when she saw me coming in?" As soon as Baochai heard what Aroma said, she understood and began to gossip about Aroma. Baochai left as soon as Baoyu came in. Baochai's scheming here should not be underestimated! In the process of getting along with Baochai, the simple and bold Xiangyun was naturally studied by Baochai as transparent as glass, which made Baochai know the plot of Xiangyun in the historian like the back of his hand. Contact Baochai to give the bird's nest to Daiyu. It can be seen that Baochai is the most considerate and helpful to others. Therefore, Baochai must have said a lot of words to comfort Xiangyun and helped Xiangyun a little, which won Xiangyun's "Thinking at home every day, these sisters are not as good as Sister Bao." Too bad we're not sons of bitches. Whenever I have such a sister, it doesn't matter if I don't have parents.

Since then, the relationship between Xiangyun and Baochai has become close. Compared with Daiyu, Baochai is not jealous of Xiangyun, but also considerate of her life experience. Xiangyun will naturally be closer to Baochai. This is the root of their close relationship, so what is the direct reason why Xiangyun asked Daiyu to kiss Baochai? There are two important things that directly promote the change of the relationship between the three people.

The first thing: the fan cover incident. In the thirty-second chapter of the novel, there is a passage in the conversation between Xiangyun and Xiren: "Theoretically, I don't know how much your business bothers me, and you must know why I don't do it today." Aroma said, "I don't know." Shi Xiangyun sneered: "I heard that I made a fan cover the other day to compare with others. I'm angry again. I heard about it a long time ago, and you kept it from me. Now I am asked to do it again. I am your slave. " How did Xiangyun know about the fan cover hinge made by Baoyu for her? Who told her? From what Xiangyun said, it can be seen that the informer is not xiren, let alone Baoyu and Daiyu. Who else? Xue Baochai, of course. Xue Baochai and Xiangyun are getting closer and closer. Xiangyun came to Jiafu, and Xue Baochai and Xiangyun talked a lot. Isn't it right to talk about Xiangyun's needlework at home in the middle of the night and say fan? If Xiangyun didn't say to help Baoyu make a fan cover, how could Baochai know that Xiangyun "did some work for others, so his grandmother and wife wouldn't need it." The most interesting thing is that when Xiangyun complained to xiren about the cover-falling incident, xiren publicly praised Baochai and belittled Daiyu for the first time, and by the way, she complained that the old lady loved Daiyu and added fuel to the fire, which aggravated Xiangyun's dissatisfaction with Daiyu. Therefore, the estrangement between Xiangyun and Daiyu is also due to Baochai and xiren.

The second thing: the host event of Xiangyun. In the thirty-ninth novel, Xiangyun heard that the sisters in the Grand View Garden were writing poems, and she was extremely anxious. Hearing this, Baoyu immediately asked the old lady to send someone to pick up Xiangyun. Bai Haitang's poems written by Xiangyun are very popular. She was very excited and didn't think much, so she said she wanted to be a host. In the evening, Baochai invited Xiangyun to rest in Wu Hengyuan. On how to set an eastern topic under Xiangyun lamp. Baochai listened for a long time, but it was all inappropriate, because she said to him, "If you start a cooperative, you have to be the host. Although you are stubborn, you should look forward and backward. You should be cheap and not offend people, and then everyone will be interesting. You can't make decisions at home, and a month is not enough for those strings of money. Now you're doing this unimportant thing again. When your aunt heard this, she complained more and more about you. Moreover, it is not enough for you to take it out as a host. Is it necessary to go for this family? Still want to be here? " This sentence reminded Xiang Yun that he hesitated. Then Baochai said her idea, that is, to hold a crab feast. On the one hand, some people in Baochai's family just sent a few baskets of big crabs, and on the other hand, more than half of the Jia family like to eat them, so the encirclement of Xiangyun was solved. Xiangyun was impressed by this and praised him for his thoughtfulness. With Baochai's understanding of Xiangyun and her considerate mind, she had already made up her mind and invited Xiangyun to live in Wu Hengyuan. This crab feast not only helped Baochai's family, but also made Grandmother Jia overjoyed, relieved Xiangyun and fulfilled her promise to be the host. After this incident, Xiangyun was infinitely grateful to Baochai, and their relationship was one step closer. Finally, Xiangyun didn't go anywhere, just lived with Baochai.

These are the reasons why Xiangyun alienated Daiyu and became close to Baochai. Because there are some bad feelings between Baoyu, Xiangyun and Daiyu. Baochai and xiren added fuel to the fire and used the fan cover incident to deepen Xiangyun's dissatisfaction with Daiyu, which led to the growing estrangement between Xiangyun and Daiyu. However, Baochai is good at observing words and feelings and won the hearts of the people. Through the spiritual comfort and economic help to Xiang Yun, she lost her parents, the care of her aunt and uncle, and Xiang Yun, who once held the highest position in Jiafu, and found warmth and care again here, which led Xiang Yun to get closer and closer to her. But Xiangyun doesn't know how much Baochai cares about Xiangyun and how generous and considerate she is. After the Grand View Garden was raided, she deeply realized the fact that she was still regarded as an outsider by Jia Fu, and left the Grand View Garden sadly. Where can she afford Shi Xiangyun? At this time, Xiangyun once again realized loneliness, and finally returned to Xiaoxiang Pavilion with Lin Daiyu, and issued a message, "Hateful Sister Bao, sisters are madly in love every day. It has been agreed that everyone will enjoy the moon in the Mid-Autumn Festival this year, so it is necessary to start a club and add a sentence. Today they abandoned us and went to enjoy the moon by themselves. " Where does poor Xiangyun know Baochai's mind?