The name of the younger generation is one word heavier than the name of the older generation.
The names of the younger generation are heavier than the names of the elders. A child's name is the first gift that parents give their children, but it is often difficult to get a name in life. After all, a good name is a walking card for a child's life. Share the names of the younger generation and elders below.
The names of the younger generation and the older generation are all weighted by one word. 1 Speaking of today's name, it can be said that it has been highly valued by parents. Like in the past, everyone in the countryside was illiterate, so we just took a name to distinguish who was who. What two dog, Er Dan, San Suo, San Mei, Hua Er and Si Xi are just one thing;
However, now that children are born in rural areas, it is difficult to choose names. Some people even pay a high price to ask Mr. Zhugua to give it, so there is a lot of attention to naming. In particular, the names of the younger generation must not be the same as those of the elders, or even a word. The name conflict between the younger generation and the elders in rural areas brings a lot of embarrassment, so when naming the baby of a friend, they will deliberately ask to avoid the words used by these close relatives and elders!
(1) Modern naming is exquisite, and the younger generation can't have the same pronunciation as the older generation. Some people say: it's really hard to name!
Recently, I saw a man on the Internet asking a question:
A relative of the younger generation gave birth to a child whose name collided with mine. Anyway, I just won't change it. What should I do?
A seemingly simple question has aroused the discussion of many netizens!
In response to this problem, netizens launched a heated discussion. Some people think this is irrelevant! Nowadays, people don't care so much about names, as long as they have a name that sounds good to them. The name is just a code name, but there is no need to be so particular!
Some people think that you must avoid having the same name as your elders when naming a name, which will not only make a lot of jokes, but also be really embarrassing sometimes!
For example, if you give your child the same name as your parents or grandparents, do you think your parents or grandparents will kill you? Or just give the child the same name as you?
(2) the embarrassment caused by the conflict between the younger generation and the elders!
A netizen said that my neighbor's child was named Yu Ting, but as a result, Yu Ting's grandmother (that is, the grandmother of this child's parents) was named Mei Ting. I didn't know how I ended up like my grandmother. Therefore, they get together for dinner every New Year's Eve. Parents often call her children "Tingting, Tingting", and sometimes they always feel that they are calling her grandma!
Now everyone's cultural level is constantly improving, and it is difficult to think of a name. They are also very particular about names, so they can't have the same words as their elders, so some people say: names are really difficult to remember!
Even some people take out their genealogy after giving birth to their children, for fear that words will collide with their elders. Some people even plan names for their future babies years before they get married or even date. How important is a good name now? Today's name is by no means comparable to that of two dog and Sanyan. If you want to name a child, you have to read all kinds of historical records, or you have to pay someone to name it. It seems that you are embarrassed to give your child a domineering name!
It used to be a "rule" to choose names according to seniority in rural areas, but now it has been "abandoned" Nowadays, most rural areas are no longer named by generations, as long as they can have a nice name!
If it is easier to name according to the previous generation, one word has been decided, and another word will do. However, now there are not only three words behind foreigners, but even four or five words!
(3) The scientific truth that the names of the younger generation and the older generation cannot overlap.
1, which will cause embarrassment and ambiguity of duplicate names;
Since ancient times, what we Chinese people pay most attention to is the difference between the old and the young. If the names of elders and juniors overlap, it is easy to have ambiguity.
If in the same scene, the elder and the younger generation have the same name, it will be embarrassing for the younger generation to be called, and it will also make people feel that they have lost respect between the elder and the younger generation. So the names cannot overlap.
2, will cause confusion of elders and younger generations:
There are still many places where the concept of ancestral hall exists, that is to say, the appellation of elders and juniors will be determined according to their seniority. If the names of elders and juniors overlap, wouldn't it be a generational confusion? In other words, isn't that commensurate with elders, sisters and brothers? Social order and emphasis on moral virtues will not appear.
3, will cause gossip:
At present, most families still can't accept the same name for the younger generation and the older generation. Once an open family doesn't pay attention to these things, it will cause gossip from people around it and do great harm to children, so it's better to minimize duplicate names.
The name of the younger generation is one word heavier than the name of the older generation, 2 1. Can't the name be homophonic with the elders?
In ancient times, it was not allowed to name the baby's descendants with the same sound as the elders. This is an ancient custom, mainly to show respect for the elders, so the names with the same name and the same sound as the elders are taboo. However, with the development of the times, such ugliness is gradually eliminated.
Actually, it doesn't mean that you can't have pressure with your elders. If your elders are "noble families", there is nothing to prevent you from emphasizing or emphasizing words with them, and you may be blessed by your elders.
Clothing is based on name. The elders like this dress, and the younger generation can wear it. Doesn't mean that the elders can't wear it. There are no rules.
The name given to the baby should be responsible for the child, full of good wishes and expectations.
2. Is it really easy for them to get the same name as their family?
Just to see if the new name and surname have the same words. In China, it is considered disrespectful and a custom to have the same name as one's elders, but not in foreign countries! ? The combination of family members' names is to prevent the names from conflicting with parents' names and avoid adverse effects. Naming is about: happiness is mutual, but avoidance is mutual.
I checked the relevant information. It has a long history that the names of the younger generation can't be emphasized in the words of the elders, but this is just an ancient custom. In order to show respect for the older generation, avoid their names and words. In fact, this custom is not so strict in modern times. Some people deliberately have the same name as their elders to show their respect for them, which is very common in western languages. For example, Chang Xiangyu's granddaughter is called Xiang Yuxiao.
When naming a name, you don't have to stick to the ancient law. Of course, if the elders can't accept this, don't be too stubborn, respect their opinions and choose another name. Just to see if the new name and surname have the same words. In China, it is considered disrespectful and a custom to have the same name as one's elders, but not in foreign countries! When a name is pronounced, it will produce a sound magnetic field, a good name will be pleasing to the ear and a bad name will cause interference.
Many artists or writers use another name or a different font size. If parents plan to help their baby choose their own name, they should pay attention to whether the name sounds indecent or not, so as to avoid future troubles. The combination of family members' names is to prevent the names from conflicting with parents' names and avoid adverse effects. Naming is about: happiness is mutual, but avoidance is mutual.
The names of the younger generation and the older generation are weighted with one word. 3 What aspects should be considered in naming?
(1) Don't use too many words or weird words.
Traditional Chinese characters refer to characters with complex strokes and structures, which are troublesome and unsightly to write. Therefore, if there are too many complicated words in the name, it will cause an imbalance between black and white, which will make people feel suffocated.
Strange words refer to words that are not easy to read and are not commonly used. Most people don't know such a word, and they can neither understand nor understand its meaning. Using this word to name a name will affect communication and hinder the normal function of the name. Even if the name is artistic and interesting, it can only be a literal symbol in front of most people who don't understand it, and even cause jokes, misunderstandings and undue losses. So use common words when naming names, not "complicated" words.
In order to avoid the repetition of children's names with others, many parents choose some traditional Chinese characters that are particularly difficult to write. Although the rate of duplicate names is avoided, many traditional Chinese characters are unknown to everyone.
Moreover, children spend a lot of time in the process of writing, especially in exams. Just writing names, children waste too much time. Therefore, it is best not to use traditional Chinese characters to name children. You can consult classic ancient books or consult the elderly at home. The name had better be simple and easy to remember and write, so as to praise the name.
(2) Don't use homophonic words and circuitous words.
Just like the name of the Chinese husband's daughter in the case, I didn't pay attention to the homonym when I named the child, so I made the child very embarrassed after school. Therefore, when parents name their children, it is best not to use homophones. Read it twice after writing to see if there are any homophonic places, such as Alipay, Stone and so on.
Such a name will not only make children become the laughing stock of classmates after school, but also lead to more and more serious inferiority complex. Some children even hate their own names and are hostile to their parents. Therefore, parents must be careful and take names seriously.
As for the words around the mouth, it has been said that names should be based on the five behaviors of birth and birth, combined with good sound and meaning words, which do not meet the requirements of "righteousness and beauty" and should be avoided. However, since ancient times, the phenomenon of naming names with derogatory terms has emerged one after another, which should be paid attention to.
Let's take a look at the typical examples of naming names with derogatory terms: Bei, Ji Que, Meng Lou worships slaves, Shame, Zheng Bacai, Zhang Laixia, Ge, Yan Guai Yu and so on. The derogatory meanings of these names are clear and obvious, and need no explanation.
There is another kind that needs a little comment, such as history (mistakes) and careless reading (confusion). Some names are difficult to read and pronounce, otherwise they will be mispronounced and misunderstood.
What is the reason? Choosing a name with awkward words is almost a tongue twister. Such as Ling Zhoujiu, Shen Jiji, Sun Zhouqiu, I, Jin, Zhou Xiaochao, Hu Fufen, Geng, Zhang Changshang, Chen Zhenren, Hu Chufu, Chen Yunlin, Lu Lizhi, Fu, etc.
(3) ugly words cannot be used.
Ugliness is the antonym of exquisiteness. We should name it "Good Name". Of course, avoid using words that express the meaning of "ugliness".
Due to the influence of unscientific and uncivilized stereotypes and backward consciousness, the word "ugly" has a long history in China, and it needs to be seriously abolished.
Anything that shows fierceness and is harmful to human beings should belong to the category of fierceness and badness. "Evil" and "bad" are the enemies of the people, and we should do everything possible to destroy them and defeat them.
Naming with such words is against people's will, an absurd act and should be terminated. For example, Dongfu Li, floods, dark clouds, yellow sky and so on. Some of these names are "flood" and "beast", which threaten people's lives and are enemies of mankind.
(4) The word "severe disability" cannot be used.
The word "bad" here includes two meanings, one is about conduct, and the other is about the consequences of "bad".
Naming with these two meanings will have a sense of rebellion against honest and kind people, so it is not desirable. Such as vertical Diao, Diao Xie (evil), Tang cunning, crazy cunning, Xiong Yi, Zhao She, Tian Heng, An, Li Hunzi and so on.
Injury or disability is a very painful thing. It is immoral to expose people's scars in the name of their own disability. If the name is banned, both the caller and the host will feel unhappy.
However, the phenomenon of naming with forbidden words has existed in ancient and modern times. Sun Bin, a famous strategist in the Warring States Period, was originally named Sun Bin. However, due to his punishment, his kneecap (i.e. kneecap, also known as writing bone) was cut off and later renamed Sun Bin.
(5) The words on the suspect can't be used.
The so-called "doubt" refers to some words that people are particularly sensitive to, such as tortoise, tortoise, bald, donkey, vinegar, sour, smelly, green towel and so on.
There are almost no such words directly used in names, but homophonic conversion into such words still happens occasionally and should be avoided. Such as Wu (Wu) Jingui (tortoise), (Ba) Ye, Lu (Qing) Jin (towel) Rong, Xiang Shang (top) Tu (bald), Ban and the couple (donkey).
The so-called "offending" refers to taking advantage of others, and one is the second predicate used to respect elders, such as father, uncle, male, old, uncle, ancestor, patriarch, aunt, mother, wet nurse and grandmother.
My father, Uncle Wen, Shi Weng, Jigong, Lao, Zheng Guangzu, Liezong, Li, Zhang and Yunsipo were named after these words. These names, if echoed, are suspected of "offending".
The other category is words used to express official titles, professional titles and honorifics, such as Xiang (Prime Minister), Yin, Ling, Gong, Hou, Prime Minister, Minister, Section Chief, Division Commander, Company Commander, Political Commissar, Professor, Senior Engineer, Expert, Star, Manager, Mr. etc.
(6) Don't use insolent words.
Don't be too arrogant and presumptuous when naming names. Because arrogance and licentiousness are manifestations of lack of self-cultivation, not only a kind of self-exposure, but also a disrespect for others, which is easy to cause disgust.
In ancient times, people named after "arrogance" were, Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty, Zhang Yuanxun, Li Cunba, Sun Wanshou, Ruan Wanling and so on.
In modern times, there were Zhenqiu, Qiu Guan, Guan Xiong, Yuhuan, Zhenqiu, Zhenhuan, Jin Woo, Ren Jie, Guan Ying and Tianbao. Therefore, the name should not be "beautiful" because of "ugliness", which is why the word "arrogance" should not be used in naming.
Coarse and fine are relative, and wild and literary are relative. The so-called "rough" characters are rough, unprocessed and original. The name of beauty should be a delicate and delicate work of art, and "coarseness" is incompatible with it.
There are three main manifestations of naming with the word "coarse": first, the words are rude, tacky and unprocessed. Such as dog eggs, wild cats, cowboys, stones, the Black Sea, Mao Mei and so on. Most of these are birth names, and some are used as big names.
Second, although some words have been processed, there is still a wildness between words, which gives people a stubborn impression. Such as Lei Gong, Yong Jiu, Hu Ni, Li Fu, Tong Ti, Pei Yun, Ray, Xuan Tao, Liu Shagui, Wu Dalie, Yu Leiwa, Ren, Shan Zhendian, Liu Hei Cangue, He Yichen, etc.