Some people say that a person’s face is a person’s feng shui. Why do they say that?
People often say that if you want to know the quality of a melon, you need to look at its shape and color;
If you want to know the strength of a horse, whether it is a good horse or a slave It depends on its expression and breath;
The same is true for people.
I heard a saying: Character is written on the lips, happiness is revealed in the corners of the eyes; talent and bearing can be seen in the stance, self-awareness can be seen in the gait; recent mood is reflected in the expression, and past years are revealed between the brows. ?
Although the face is small, the meaning is big.
Your face can often determine your Feng Shui.
01CY Story
Your face has your smile
I went to a breakfast shop and everyone called the boss "Uncle Li".
The business of this store has always been good. Every time I pass by, I can always see a long queue in the store, but the breakfast restaurant next to it is deserted. I only found out the reason after asking other customers carefully.
It turns out that Uncle Li’s breakfast is not only of good quality, but also the service attitude is more popular among everyone.
When customers come to buy breakfast, he always greets them with a smile and greets them in a friendly manner. He also silently writes down the preferences of regular customers and gets along well with them.
Selling breakfast requires getting up early and staying late at night. At the end of the day, people's spirits are often exhausted, and it is rare to be able to maintain a smiling face.
Compared with the breakfast shop next door, the clerk always has a straight face, as if someone owes him money, and no one is willing to go in after seeing it.
The winner is a smile.
The face looks kind and gentle, and the constant smile on the face not only makes oneself happy, but also warms others.
After handing out a warm "business card", others will feel the sincerity and approachability;
Imagine, life lasts only thirty thousand days, who doesn't have joy and sorrow? .
Who doesn’t have troubles and sorrows in life, and who doesn’t experience setbacks and hardships?
People who love to laugh do not mean everything goes well in life, but they understand that it is never depression that defeats suffering, but optimism and smiles.
Even if you can't control the blessings and misfortunes of your destiny, at least you can decide the smile on your face.
My heart is full of sunshine, so I am not afraid of the darkness ahead.
Seize every opportunity to smile, and have fun even in the midst of suffering.
Be a cheerful person, be a warm person, be an upward person, be a person full of positive energy.
02CY Story
Your face reflects your character
After a person reaches a certain age, all his experiences will be left on his face trace. Our "mask" is our "character" in the eyes of others.
Zeng Guofan, who is regarded by the world as the most perfect person throughout the ages and the first of the four famous officials in the late Qing Dynasty, has great achievements in recognizing and employing people, which comes from the "secret book" of "observing goods by form".
On one occasion, Li Hongzhang brought three people to see Zeng Guofan and asked him to assign duties to them.
Zeng Guofan, who returned from a walk, did not wait for Li Hongzhang to tell him his intention, and said: Facing the hall door, the man standing on the left is a loyal man, and he can be assigned to do logistics and supply work;
The one in the middle is a shady person who is not worthy of trust and should only be assigned some insignificant tasks; the one on the right is a general who can be entrusted with important tasks. ?
Li Hongzhang was very surprised when he heard this and asked: "They haven't been appointed yet. How did you find out, sir?" ?
Zeng Guofan said: When I walked past them, the one on the left had a docile attitude, lowered eyes, and cautiousness. It can be seen that he is an honest and cautious person, so he is suitable for work such as logistics supply;
The man in the middle looked respectful on the surface, but after I walked by, he looked around and looked inappropriate. It was obvious that he was a duplicitous person and should never be reused;
The man on the right, He always stands tall and straight, with a majestic air and a stern gaze. He is neither humble nor arrogant. He is a talented general and his future achievements will not be inferior to yours or mine. ?
The "general talent" Zeng Guofan refers to is Liu Mingchuan, who later made great military exploits and became the governor of Taiwan. The appearance comes from the heart, the heart can be seen from the face, and the character can be seen from the heart.
The faces of people with rough personalities and bad conduct are of course violent and cruel;
The faces of people with tolerant temperaments and soft hearts are full of , naturally harmonious and friendly.
And those who behave correctly and have lofty ambitions must have magnanimity, openness and responsibility on their faces, and they are worthy of heavy responsibilities.
03CY Story
Your face reflects your cultivation
The ancients said, "If there is a heart but no form, the heart will follow each other; if there is a form but no heart, the heart will Destroy at will. ?
After reading all the vicissitudes of life, everything a person has experienced will not disappear out of thin air, but will form a second appearance of the person.
Those who cannot withstand the blows of time will become haggard and even stern-looking faster; only those who have experienced ups and downs without changing their true colors will become more and more beautiful.
There was a sculptor who suddenly found that he was getting uglier and uglier. He tried many famous doctors to no avail.
By chance, he visited a temple, and an elder said, "I can cure your disease."
But the condition is that you have to sculpture several Guanyin statues with different expressions for me. ?
The sculptor readily accepted it and continued to study and imitate various forms of Guanyin.
Half a year later, when the sculptor finished his job, he found that he had become dignified in appearance, and then he realized that the reason why he had become ugly was because he had sculpted a large number of ugly yakshas.
Although faces are innate, we can do addition, subtraction, multiplication and division on this basis.
If you want to become kind-hearted, then have kind thoughts in your heart and practice them;
If you want to look fierce, just be an arrogant and unreasonable person , to be an uncertain person.
The quality of a person’s appearance ultimately depends on the person’s degree of self-discipline and self-cultivation.
Be strict with yourself, do what you do and don’t do, say what you can say and what you don’t say, and form a set of rules for walking in the world. Then you will not be afraid of ugly people and things, and you will not be afraid of aging. .
04CY Story
Your face is your life
Research has found that 25% of a person’s appearance comes from innate inheritance and 75% from Acquired behavior.
So Lincoln said: When a person reaches the age of forty, he should be responsible for his own appearance. ?
But some people hold the objection: ?People should not be judged by their appearance. ?
Actually, the word "appearance" here only refers to appearance, which is what we now call "appearance", and the definition is relatively narrow. The underlying logic of judging people by appearance is that appearance comes from the heart, and the environment is created by the heart.
As the saying goes on the Internet: It is absolutely scientific to judge a book by its appearance. Character is written on the lips, happiness is revealed in the corner of the eyes, talent and magnanimity are revealed in the stance, self-awareness is revealed in the gait, recent mood is reflected in the expression, and past years are revealed between the brows. ?
In a person's face, there is his or her character, character, cultivation, pattern, and luck, and all of these make up his entire life.
Therefore, those who truly love beauty are those who are willing to cultivate their minds.
Life, time flies by and youth grows old easily.
The skin will wither and the appearance will fade. Only those who have truly cultivated their heart and spirit will have their own charming life.