Is there a moment when you want to ask your parents what kind of consideration they gave you this name?

Forever, I will go to a new place and meet new people. Everyone thinks my name is a boy.

Unlike many names, people think that both boys and girls can use it, or that the name may be a boy. I am. There is no dispute. Everyone thinks it's a boy. No one denies this. . .

Actually, my grandfather named me. Mom originally wanted to use the word "Xin", which means thriving. Because I was not in good health when I was born, my mother didn't have any expectations for me, just wanted me to be in good health, grow sturdily and get better and better. My mother thinks it's a girl. It's called gentle.

But grandpa is really obsessed. According to mom, they were angry for a long time because of this name. Because I am a girl, according to common sense, I don't need to take names according to my family tree. But because my father is the eldest son, my grandfather has no daughter in my life, and I am the first granddaughter, so my grandfather attaches great importance to it (so my grandfather was very kind to me since I was a child, haha), so my name must be based on my family tree. Mother doesn't think it necessary to follow the genealogy because she is a daughter. You can follow the family tree if you really want to. The names of those three words, the last word, I have decided that it is ok. Then grandpa said, no, it's Kun. This is the name grandpa has been thinking about for a long time. This word is for his daughter, if he has a daughter. But it's no use never having a daughter. Moreover, there are not many daughters and many sons in the whole family, so sons are not very valued. So grandpa didn't think of the names of his three sons. Grandpa thought about the word carefully, but it was useless. Finally, when I was born, he felt that he must use it.

Kun, selected from the Book of Changes, "Tian Xingjian, the gentleman strives for self-improvement, the terrain is Kun, and the gentleman carries things with morality". Kun represents in gossip, and grandpa wants me to be open-minded and tolerant. Moreover, Kun also refers to women's articles, such as Kun Che, Kun Biao and Kunning Palace (Kun's English word is female, please look it up).

Later, my mother didn't twist my grandfather, and all three words in my name were decided by my grandfather. In my mother's words, it is a baby paper, and the name doesn't count.

Actually, I like my name, too. Although I am often said to be like a boy, I still think it is cool.

Think about it, actually Xin is not bad. Why don't you go home and tell mom that my nickname is this? Ha ha laugh