Extract five examples from literature and art.
Listen, you moved half the things, and I have nothing. Please go first! "He said the word" please "loudly and kindly. Then he clung to the wall and let the women go upstairs before he went downstairs.
Liu Bei visited the cottage three times. In the battle of Guandu, Yuan Shao's counselor Xu You went to see Cao Cao, who was so happy that he didn't even wear shoes.
exist
In America, a well-known rich man was walking by the roadside when he met a ragged and scrawny young man who was selling old books in the street and eating moldy bread in the cold wind. The wealthy businessman who had the same experience suddenly felt pity.
Without thinking, he put $8 into the young man's hand and walked away without looking back. Not far away, the rich businessman suddenly felt that this was wrong, so he quickly returned and picked up two old books from the stall. I'm sorry.
He clearly explained that he forgot to take the book, hoping that the young people would mind. Finally, the rich businessman solemnly told the young man, "In fact, you are both businessmen like me."
Two years later, the rich businessman was invited to join a merchant cloud.
At the charity fundraiser, a young bookseller in a suit and tie greeted him, shook his hand and said gratefully, "Sir, you may have forgotten me a long time ago, but I will never forget you. I always thought that my whole life.
I had to beg for the fate of setting up a stall until you personally told me that I was a businessman like you, which helped me build up my self-esteem and self-confidence, thus creating today's performance ... "
Businessmen never imagined that an ordinary sentence two years ago could help an inferior person build up his self-esteem, help a down-and-out person regain his self-confidence, and let a self-righteous person see his own advantages and values, and finally succeed through unremitting efforts.
It is not difficult to imagine that even if the rich businessman gave a lot of money to young people, young people would never have experienced great changes in their lives without that respect and encouragement. This is the power of respect.
week
Prime Minister Ryan is a diplomat with elegant demeanor. During a meeting, Premier Zhou met with the leaders of a country whose national strength is much stronger than that of China. At the meeting, the leader actually kept gloves.
Asking to shake hands with Premier Zhou. The Prime Minister did not shy away or say much. But shake hands with the guests at their request. Just as the leader proudly thought that he had successfully insulted China's collar on the land of China.
When guiding the masses, Premier Zhou took no time to ask his entourage for a white handkerchief, gently wiped the hand he just shook hands with, and then threw the handkerchief into the dustbin in front of the leaders. The people around him,
All cheered for the prime minister's decent and powerful counterattack.
A quiet night, it was raining outside the window, interpreting poetry. At this moment, it suddenly occurred to me that I had heard such a story:
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In an extremely ordinary family, when winter and spring change seasons, my mother takes out the daily necessities that have been put away all winter. My mother accidentally discovered that my daughter just bought a pair last autumn.
Shoes are no longer suitable, but there is no suitable person to send them. What should I do? Although these shoes are relatively new and beautiful, I finally decided to throw them away. My daughter took the initiative to throw them into the trash can.
But my mother wouldn't let me say, "Don't be busy." She took the shoes, took out the shoe polish and brush, and carefully wiped and oiled them. The daughter asked, "Don't you want to throw them away?"
"Yes," the mother replied without looking up, "but these are a pair of wearable shoes, which may be worn by garbage collectors or others. We should clean our shoes, which is a respect for the recipients. "
The shoes are so polished that they can hardly be thrown away. The mother handed them to her daughter: "Here, now you can put them next to the trash can."
"Wouldn't it be better if you gave your shoes to the garbage collector?" The daughter asked again.
"No," mother shook her head. "People who pick up garbage are self-reliant. They are not beggars. Giving them things in person will make them feel embarrassed. Putting them there to pick them up happily is the real charity-don't let them feel like charity. "
So the daughter did it.
After ...
Come on, mother and daughter on the balcony, through the transparent glass window, saw the scavengers happily and carefully put away their shoes and embarked on a much lighter way home than before. Maybe he can't wait to put them away.
This beautiful new gift is for your beloved daughter? Will he put his hand with shoes behind his back, let his daughter guess what good things he brought back to her, and then tell her vividly that he accidentally got this baby?
What happened? Mother and daughter talked to each other, and their hearts were full of joy.
Losing a pair of shoes that can't be worn in is a trivial and unusual life. However, the mother in the story played it.
Into such a warm story. This change only comes from mothers' respect for others. Yes, respect can work miracles, although it may be just a shallow smile and a cry.
Gentle greetings. But for you and me, this is enough, because it means the beauty of life and the harmony of society. This kind of atmosphere is the goal that we pursue tirelessly.
"Old me and old.
People are old, we are young, and people are young. "This is respected by Confucianism. We can see that it emphasizes a typical example of pushing yourself, but it is also the only way to build a harmonious society. It is like a word.
The book says, "I'll exchange my heart for yours. I first met you." Indeed, only by truly treating others according to their own needs and "don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you" can we truly realize that we should pay attention to the existence of each individual and truly do it.
Respect others as you love yourself. The so-called "mutual appreciation", I think, can be understood from this level.
"The small building listens to the spring rain all night, and the deep alley sells apricot flowers." There seems to be a clear and indirect selling voice of the flower girl in my ear. Many people will stay, enjoy it and buy it. A respectful smile on a stranger's face is more beautiful than apricot flowers in spring.
Many, many years ago, a young cellist went to casals, the greatest cellist of this century, for advice: How can I become an excellent cellist?
Facing the ambitious young people, casals replied meaningfully: First, become an excellent and atmospheric person, then an excellent and atmospheric musician, and then an excellent cellist.
Casals's answer is very meaningful. How can I become an excellent talent? Personality charm is always the first.
Song Lian was a knowledgeable person in the Ming Dynasty. He loved reading since he was a child, but his family was poor, so he couldn't afford to go to school and had no money to buy books. He had to borrow books from others. Every time he borrows a book, he agrees on a deadline, returns it on time, and never breaks the contract. People are willing to lend them to him.
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Next time, he borrowed a book, and the more he read it, the more he couldn't put it down and decided to copy it. But the deadline for returning the book is coming. He had to copy the book overnight. It was in the middle of winter and the twelfth month, and the water was dripping into ice. His mother said, "Son, it's midnight. This is. "
It's cold, copy at dawn. People are not waiting for this book to read. "Song Lian said," Whether people wait for the book to be finished or not, they must return it within the time limit. This is a question of credit and a sign of respect for others. If you don't keep your word,
How can you get others' respect by taking advantage of and breaking promises to others? "
Once again, Song Lian is going to consult a famous person in the distance and make an appointment to meet. Who knew it would snow on the day of departure? When Song Lian picks up the luggage, it's ok.
When she was ready to go on the road, her mother said in surprise, "How can you travel far in this weather?" Besides, the teacher has closed the mountain in heavy snow. You old cotton-padded jacket can't resist the cold in the mountains! "Song Lian said," mom, don't start today.
You will misunderstand the days of apprenticeship and stand you up; Standing up is disrespectful to the teacher. No matter how heavy the snow is, I will go. "
When Song Lian arrived at the teacher's house, the teacher was deeply appreciative and said, "Young people, be trustworthy and eager to learn, will certainly achieve something in the future!" "
Liu Qi learns by burning. During the Liang Dynasty, Liu Qi, a native of Pengcheng, studied hard.
Su Ting blew a fire to read. "Without the will of my father, I often mix with my servants and husbands, but I study tirelessly. Every time he wants to read a book, he always has no lights and candles. He tastes it in the stable and recites it by the fire. It's so bitter. "
Chang Lin took the plow and hoe. At the end of the Han Dynasty, Chang Lin said, "I am eager to learn and take a plow and hoe. My wife often pays for herself. Although Lin is in the field, she respects her guests. "
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When he was a teenager, Shimi was sent to the court of Yang Di as a bodyguard. He is flexible by nature. When he is on duty, he looks around. When Yang Di found out, he thought the boy was dishonest, so he was relieved of his post.
Shimi was not depressed. After returning home, he studied hard and determined to be a learned man. Once, Shimi rode an ox to meet his friends. On the way, he hung Hanshu on the loudspeaker and took the time to study.
Be passed down as a much-told story
Dong Zhongshu didn't peek into the garden for three years. Dong Zhongshu devoted himself to research and worked tirelessly. Although there is a garden behind his study, he devoted himself to his study and didn't go into the garden to enjoy it for three years. Dong Zhongshu was so absorbed in his research that he became a famous thinker in the Western Han Dynasty.
Guan Ning sat down alone. In the Han Dynasty, Guan Ning and Hua Xin were friends of old classmates. One day, they were studying together, and some dignitaries drove by. Guan Ning was undisturbed, studying as usual, and Hua Xin went out to see it, envious. Guan Ning saw that Hua Xin and he were not really like-minded friends, so they sat apart. Guan Ning finally made a career!
Kuang Heng dug a hole in the wall to steal the light. In the Western Han Dynasty, there was a particularly learned man named Kuang Heng. When Kuang Heng was a child, his family was poor. In order to study, he dug through the wall of his neighbor's illiterate family. By stealing candles to study, he finally touched the illiteracy of his neighbors. With everyone's help, Kuang Heng Jr. learned something. During the Han Dynasty, he was recommended by General Shi Gao of Fu and Che Qi as a doctor.
Che Yin reads the capsule shadow at night. Che Yin, my son, was born in Nanping (now Hubei Public Security Bureau) in Jin Dynasty. He comes from a poor family, but he studies very hard. "Poor people don't often produce oil, but Xia Yue practices pouring dozens of fireflies to take pictures day and night." The story of Che Yin's reading in Langya was passed down as a historical story, which inspired later literati.
Chenwangchao
Endure humiliation and study hard. Chen Ping was famous in the Western Han Dynasty. When he was young, his family was poor and he lived alone with his brother. In order to maintain his father's orders, he showed off his family background and studied behind closed doors, but his eldest sister-in-law did not allow him. In order to eliminate the contradiction between brother and sister-in-law, he was repeatedly humiliated.
With the aggravation of my eldest sister-in-law, I finally couldn't bear it. I ran away from home and wanted to travel all over the world. After being recovered by my brother, I let bygones be bygones, preventing my brother from divorcing my eldest sister-in-law, which became a beautiful talk in the local area. Finally, an old man came here,
Free apprentices teach, and after the completion of their studies, they assist Liu Bang and achieve a hegemony.
Lu Yu abandoned Buddhism and became a writer. Lu Yu, a famous scholar in Tang Dynasty, was an orphan since childhood and was raised by Zen master Zhiji. Although Lu Yu is in the temple, he doesn't want to.
I read Buddhist scriptures all day, but I like reading poetry books. Lu Yu insisted on going down the mountain to study, which was opposed by the Zen master. In order to give Lu Yu a difficult problem and educate him better, the Zen master asked him to learn to make tea. He is studying tea art.
In this process, Lu Yu met a kind old woman, who not only learned complicated tea-making skills, but also learned a lot about reading and being a man. When Lu Yu finally brought the Zen master a steaming cup of Kuding tea, he meditated.
The teacher finally agreed to his request to study down the mountain. Later, Lu Yu wrote the widely circulated "Tea Classics" to carry forward the tea culture of the motherland!
Bao Zheng, a teenager, learned to judge cases. Bao Qingtian and Bao Zheng were smart and diligent since childhood.
Q: What is your reasoning and decision? My father has a close relationship with a magistrate. Bao Zheng learned a lot about judging cases from an early age, especially the case of burning a temple and killing a monk. Bao Zheng peeled silk according to the clues at the scene to find out the criminals.
After the suspect, he pretended to be the prince, trying to find out the truth, helping the magistrate catch the murderer and kill the people. He worked hard to learn the knowledge of law and punishment, which laid a deep knowledge foundation for solving crimes and vindicating the people like a god when he grew up.
ten thousand
Si Tong studied hard behind closed doors. Wan Sitong, a famous scholar and historian in the early Qing Dynasty, participated in the compilation of Twenty-four History, an important historical book of China. However, Wan Sitong was also a naughty boy when he was young. Wan Sitong is very naughty in front of the guests.
He was criticized by the guests before losing face. In a rage, Wan Sitong overturned the guest's desk and was put into the library by his father. Wan Sitong thought behind closed doors from being angry and disgusted with reading, and learned from The Book of Tea.
Encouraged, he began to study hard. In a blink of an eye, more than a year has passed. Wan Sitong has read many books in the library. His father forgave his son, and Wan Sitong understood his father's kindness. After a long period of hard work, Wan Sitong finally
Become a famous scholar who is familiar with history books and participates in the compilation of Twenty-four History of Ming Dynasty.
Tang Bohu devoted himself to painting. Tang Bohu was a famous painter and writer in Ming Dynasty. He was there when he was a child.
Painting shows superman's talent. Tang Bohu, who studied under the great painter Shen Zhou, studied harder and quickly mastered painting skills, which was praised by Shen Zhou. Unexpectedly, due to Shen Zhou's praise, he made one this time.
Modest Tang Bohu gradually became complacent. Shen Zhou see in the eye, in mind. At dinner, Shen Zhou asked Tang Bohu to open the window. I found out his window that it was actually a painting by Mr. Tang Shen Zhou.
Bohu was ashamed and devoted himself to painting.
Qu Yuan studied hard in the cave. When I was a child, regardless of the wind, rain or cold, Qu Yuan hid in a cave to read the Book of Songs, regardless of the opposition of his elders. Three years later, he familiarized himself with 305 Poems of Poetry, and absorbed rich nutrition from these folk songs, and finally became a great poet.
Fan Zhongyan broke his porridge. Fan Zhongyan grew up in a poor family and saved money for studying. Finally, his diligence touched the elders of the temple, who sent him to Du Nan College to study. Fan Zhongyan still insists on simple living habits and refuses to accept gifts from rich children to sharpen his will. After studying hard, he finally became a great writer.
department
Ma Guang's police pillow is very inspiring. Sima Guang is a playful and sleepy child. To this end, he has been punished by his husband and laughed at by his peers. Under his inculcation, he is determined to get rid of the bad habit of sleepiness. In order to get up early, he drinks before going to bed.
He was covered in water, but he didn't wake up in the morning, but he peed in bed. So smart Sima Guang made a police pillow out of logs. When I turned over in the morning, my head fell on the bed board and I woke up naturally. Since then, he has got up early to study every day.
Book, perseverance, and finally become a knowledgeable person, wrote "History as a Mirror".
Xuanzang studied Buddhism assiduously. Xuan Ji was a monk in the Tang Dynasty. In order to obtain the original Buddhist scriptures, Xuanzang left Chang 'an in August of the third year of Zhenguan, trudged to Wan Li to learn Buddhist scriptures, and finally arrived in India. It lasted 17 years, and he wrote The Tale of the Western Regions of Datang, which made great contributions to Buddhism, human progress and world civilization.
high mountain
Fly to learn martial arts. Yue Fei, a national hero, was born in troubled times, and his family was poor since childhood. With the support of his neighbors, he learned martial arts from Zhou Tong, a famous Shaanxi teacher. During this period, he witnessed the broken mountains and rivers, displaced people, sprouted the ambition of learning to serve the country and overcame his arrogance.
Proud and complacent. Under the careful instruction of the famous teacher Zhou Tong, he eventually became a Yue family thief, and led Wang Gui, Tang Xian and other partners to join the patriotic torrent of resisting gold and saving the country.
Li Guizhen
Learn to draw tigers. Li Guizhen, a tiger painter of the Five Dynasties, liked to draw tigers since he was a child, especially when he was young. But because I have never seen a real tiger, I have always painted it as a sick cat, so I decided to go deep into the mountains to visit the real tiger and experience it for thousands of years.
With the help of Uncle Orion, he finally saw the real tiger. Through a lot of sketching and copying, his tiger painting skills have advanced by leaps and bounds, and the tigers in his paintings are lifelike, which is almost confusing. After that, he spent most of his life.
Time traveled to many famous mountains and rivers, saw more birds and animals, and finally became a generation of painting masters.
Shen Kuo went up the mountain to see peach blossoms. "In April, the world is full of flowers, and the mountain temple is full of peach blossoms." When reading this poem,
Shen Kuo's eyebrows condensed into a knot. "Why are the flowers here defeated and the peach blossoms on the mountain open?" To solve this mystery, Shen Kuo and some friends made a field trip to this mountain, which was in April.
In fact, it is still warm and cold at first, and the cool wind strikes, making people tremble with cold. Shen Kuo is in full bloom. It turns out that the temperature on the mountain is much lower than that under the mountain, so the flower season comes later than that under the mountain. With this spirit of seeking and demonstrating,
Method, Shen Kuo wrote "Meng Qian Bi Tan" when he grew up.
Xu Xiake is interested in the world. One day, a strange thing happened by the river. Many people are salvaging the fallen stone lion, but they can't find it. At this time, a child named Xu Xiake said that as long as he goes up the river, he can find the stone lion. Sure enough, the stone lion was found, and everyone praised the child for his cleverness. It turned out that he was Xu Xiake who became a great geographer and traveler when he grew up.
Li Sheng became an archer. Li Sheng's father is a great general, and Li Sheng hopes to be like his father when he grows up. But his father always said that he was too young to practice martial arts. Li Sheng didn't want to learn archery secretly. In the end, he became an archer, which made his father sit up and take notice.
Lu you's book is very diligent. Lu You, a poet in the Southern Song Dynasty, was diligent, sensitive and studious since childhood. In his family, books are placed on the table, in the cupboard, and piled on the bed, which is called a book nest. He is diligent in writing, leaving more than 9,000 poems in his life and becoming an outstanding writer in the history of China.
Liu Xie borrowed books from the Buddhist temple. Late at night, there was a loud sound of reading in the Buddhist temple. The young monk was frightened and thought there was a ghost inside, so he immediately reported it to the old monk. So the old monk led the young monk to catch ghosts. Unexpectedly, the "ghost" turned out to be a poor boy named Liu Xie, who was reading with a Buddha lamp. After studying hard, Liu Xie finally became a great writer.
An example of stealing light from the wall
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Heng, a native of Donghai in the Western Han Dynasty (the name of Han County, now east of Pixian County in Jiangsu Province and east of Ziyang County in Lianshan East Province). He was born in a peasant family, and his grandfather and father were farmers for generations. He went to Kuang Heng, but he likes reading.
My family was poor when I was a child. Make a living as an employee during the day and have no time to study at night. But my family is too poor to light candles. The light in my neighbor's house is very bright, but it just doesn't work. Kuang Heng figured out a way to stick to his neighbor.
Dig a hole in his wall, "steal" some light from it, and let the neighbor's light shine on him. Holding a book, he reflected light in front of the cave to read.
Kuang Heng's family is too poor to afford books. There is a rich man in his hometown. He has a large collection of books.
Rich Kuang Heng went to his home to work, but he didn't receive any money. The rich man felt very strange and asked Kuang Heng why. Kuang Heng said, "I don't want to be paid. I only hope that you can lend me all the books at home, and I will be very satisfied. "
After listening to this, the rich man was deeply moved by his studious spirit and agreed to his request. Since then, Kuang Heng has had excellent reading opportunities. According to historical records, Kuang Heng was full of energy, extraordinary and rich.
Fu's collection of books and his hard work finally made him a learned scholar. At that time, there were even a few words passed down from mouth to mouth among the literati: "Without Poetry, I decided to come; Kuang, Jie
Person H (No one can explain the Book of Songs, Kuang Heng has just arrived; Kuang Heng explained the mystery of The Book of Songs to everyone, and everyone laughed happily. "It can be seen that his reputation is very high. At that time, many scholars worshipped him as a teacher and followed him.
He studies.
During the Han and Yuan Dynasties, Zhang Heng was recommended as a doctor by the imperial court and later promoted to a doctor. At this time, there was an eclipse and an earthquake, and Emperor Han Yuan was afraid of the disaster omen from the sky.
I asked the ministers about the political gains and losses. Last week, Kuang Heng cited historical facts to explain that the astronomical phenomena are only a natural change of Yin and Yang, and the good and bad all lie in people's actions, the ethos of human society, and more importantly, the enlightenment, advocacy and influence of the court.
Therefore, the emperor should cut down the expenses of the court, get close to loyal officials and upright people, alienate disloyal officials and villains, select talents, and open up the way to accept advice, and so on. Emperor Han Yuan appreciated Kuang Heng's knowledge and promoted him to Doctor Guanglu and Prince Shaofu.
The emperor of the Han Dynasty and her son Ding passed the Empress and Prince Chao. Kuang Heng earnestly exhorted them and thoroughly analyzed the principle that "the family should be ruled by the world" to prevent national disasters. Kuang Heng participated in the discussion of the major policies of the imperial court, quoted classics and expounded legal principles and morality, which was highly appreciated. As a result, he was promoted to an ancient scholar, Guang Luxun, and later became a prime minister and was named Hou Le 'an.
Han/Han/Chinese/human
When Yuan Di was in power, the eunuch Zhongshu ordered the sages to monopolize power, excluding and framing the sages. Kuang Heng was afraid of him, too, and dared not criticize him. After the death of Emperor Yuan of Han Dynasty, Emperor Cheng of Han Dynasty ascended the throne, and Kuang Heng and Zhen Fu jointly impeached Shi Xian, exposing Shi Xian and his henchmen.
Sin. Shi Xian and his minions were duly punished. However, some ministers in the DPRK believe that Kuang Heng, as an assistant minister, did not participate in the exposure in time in his early years, but did not fulfill his responsibility and impeached him. Kuang Heng also felt guilty.
Ashamed, he repeatedly asked to resign, and was finally dismissed for occupying more fiefs.
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