Have you ever bought a cemetery for your parents in advance?
In the folk, most people are taboo on the topic of death and never dare to talk about the word "death" because it is unlucky and brings bad luck. However, birth, old age, illness and death exist objectively and no one can escape it. Therefore, this article will "face" death head-on.
Recently, a netizen named "Lao Mu" from Lin'an, Hangzhou, was very confused. It turns out that his parents are nearly 80 years old. Although they are in good health, they want to buy a cemetery for their parents in advance considering that the old man is so old and unpredictable. Of course, he just had such an idea and did not take any action. After all, this matter is quite sensitive. Should I buy it in advance? This is where he struggled.
If you really buy a cemetery for the old man in advance, does it mean that you are looking forward to the old man leaving? Moreover, should we discuss this matter with the old man? If you want to discuss it, you will face problems such as how to talk to the elderly and how to choose a location.
If you don’t buy it in advance, then the cemetery may become more and more expensive in the future, not to mention the issue of whether you can afford it or not in the future. Once the old man suddenly leaves, there will be no preparation and it will be too hasty. It can be difficult to find a suitable cemetery at once. So, the old man's fate after a hundred years has finally become a big problem. If it is not handled well, it will be unfilial to the children and they will definitely feel uneasy.
"Old Mu"'s entanglement and worries are not unreasonable. On the one hand, the elderly in the family are generally superstitious and taboo about talking about death. It would be really hard for the old man to speak up if he didn't take the initiative to talk about it. If the children take the initiative to tell the elderly about this matter and cause the elderly to misunderstand, then the problem will be serious and this is no joke.
On the other hand, cemeteries are indeed not cheap. If you don’t plan ahead, you may not be able to afford one in the future. Let’s just say that in Lin’an, Hangzhou, where “Lao Mu” lives, the price of cemeteries is getting higher year by year. Five years ago, I bought a cemetery for more than 30,000 yuan, and now it costs 50,000 yuan. Who knows what the price of cemeteries will be in the next five or ten years? Turn as much as you want.
There was an old man in Lin'an who did not shy away from discussing issues after death. She chose her own cemetery. However, she believed in Feng Shui very much. If she didn't like this place, that place was not good either. In the end, she spent several years and spent 100,000 yuan to buy a "Feng Shui treasure land".