Have you ever heard a true story that makes people collapse after three views?
Zhao Zhiguo is an honest and frank middle-aged man. 19 years ago, he adopted an abandoned baby named Zhao. The couple love their children very much. Zhao always thought that she was her adoptive parents' own flesh and blood until she was six years old. At the age of six, from the intentional or unintentional conversation of the villagers, the precocious Zhao knew that she was not her own daughter. Therefore, she bears a grudge for abandoning her biological parents.
After several years of marriage, the couple were infertile and adopted Zhao as an infant under the introduction of relatives. In fact, even after they had their own daughter, the Zhao couple still regarded it as their own daughter. Zhao Zhiguo's monthly income is about 1500 yuan, and a family of four lives in poverty. Seeing this situation, the youngest daughter took the initiative to drop out of school and went out to work to make money to supplement her family. Ye Zhao lived up to expectations and was admitted to a university in Hainan. This year, she 19 years old. You know, there are few college students there. When the family was beaming, Zhao Zhiguo found something that made him very uncomfortable.
what's up
It turned out that Zhao secretly met his biological parents without telling them. Not only did I know each other, but I also held a big banquet in their home to celebrate and accept congratulations from relatives and friends. Zhao's biological father is Tang Xianghua. They are all in business, and their families are very rich. Since they are acquainted with their biological parents, Zhao basically won't go to their adoptive parents again. Zhao Zhiguo was very angry. He thinks his adopted daughter is a vain person. Knowing that his biological father was rich, he abandoned the couple. Zhao Ke doesn't think so. She felt that her adoptive parents were too hard to afford their college education. The biological father is in good condition, and with their support, their pressure will be much less.
Mr. and Mrs. Zhao Zhiguo were both disappointed and chilling. They thought Zhao had been seriously ill when he was young. If the couple hadn't spent money to save the child, the child would have died long ago. At that time, where were their biological parents? Now that my daughter has been admitted to the university and people are good-looking, her biological parents have an idea. It is the heart of Si Mazhao, and everyone knows it. Tang Xianghua said that her daughter really had no choice but to ask them for help. Because the family is too poor.
Say what is right and what is right.
Now, Zhao has become the first college student of the old Tang family. Tang Xianghua felt that there was light on his face and made up his mind to recognize his long-lost daughter. At first, when they found Zhao, Zhao ignored them, mainly because of resentment. Later, with their unremitting efforts, Zhao pursued him hard. It is logical to recognize relatives. Of course, the adoption process has been hidden from adoptive parents. Zhao's explanation is that he is afraid that his adoptive parents will be sad. In fact, Mr. and Mrs. Zhao Zhiguo are really sad. What should I do if I am very sad?
Spend money to buy out family ties
What saddens the couple even more is that Zhao has started to transfer his household registration and wants to move his household registration out of Zhao Hukou book. Zhao Zhiguo and his wife think that not only are they not qualified to celebrate being the first place with their daughter, but their adopted daughter is still playing tricks in secret. Zhao's explanation for the transfer account is that the school needs it. Moreover, biological parents have computers at home, which is conducive to their better contact with the world.
In a very severe anger, he went to the Tang family and asked Tang to pay China 19 years of alimony, so as to make a clean break. Seeing such a refusal, Zhao hurried home to explain. She said that when she first entered her biological father's house, she was stunned by their luxurious decoration. She has never seen such a good house, and her biological father has repeatedly stressed her ability to let her go to college. Zhao was moved. So I came out behind my adoptive parents' backs. Still angry, Zhao apologized and said that he was thoughtless and hurt his adoptive parents' hearts, but he always regarded him as his biological father.
She told the truth that she knew she was an adopted daughter when she was five or six years old, but she kept a straight face for so many years. First, she doesn't want to upset her adoptive parents. Second, she has a grudge against her biological parents. Third, she wanted to know what her biological parents were like, so she did not hesitate to recognize her relatives. But she didn't expect that she accidentally hurt her adoptive parents' hearts. To this end, she is in a dilemma. After Zhao apologized, Tang Xianghua personally came to apologize. Said he was definitely not stealing his daughter, Zhao will always be his daughter. No one can take it away. Ye Zhao quickly said that no matter what happens in the future, he will definitely give his pension to his adoptive parents. To this, Zhao Zhiguo couple put down the knot. I started walking around with Don as my family.
It is said that the most chilling thing in the world is the betrayal from the closest and favorite people. Also the closest relatives, loved ones, often give themselves a fatal blow. Because I care, I am sad. Because I care, I am chilling.
You can add clothes when it is cold, but what should I do if my heart is cold?
Just like the little girl in the article, she made her own decision regardless of her adoptive parents' thoughts. She thinks it's for the good of others, which I think is the most disturbing. I have worked hard to raise a child with a handful of excrement and urine, and secretly abandoned my biological parents to recognize each other. Zhao's father and daughter and Tang's tortuous process of identifying people is really hard to convince if there is no selfishness in it.
Zhao Zhiguo has been reluctant to tell her daughter about her life. First, the Tang family is too rich and too poor to challenge the bottom line of human nature. Second, the children who worked hard to raise themselves were picked peaches on the way. He flatly rejected Tang Xianghua's buyout proposal. Although the suggestion was put forward by him, he was very angry at that time.
Zhao not only has the love of her parents, but also her biological parents and adoptive parents have become friends. Fortunately, the ending is happy, and it is also happy.
In our hometown, there is a very famous woman. In our ten miles and eight townships, there is basically no one who doesn't know her. Her name is Cui Gaihong, which is very suitable for her life.
Cui Gaihong became famous because she was pregnant before marriage in the early 1990s. According to her parents, Gai Hong was only about twenty years old at that time, and her family set a date for her, but she was just engaged and not married. And I don't know why. At first, Cui Gaihong was pregnant, but at home, I didn't know. As the days passed, Cui Gaihong's stomach became bigger and bigger, and she couldn't hide it. At that time, the family thought it was Cui Gaihong and her fiance.
This made Cui's family very angry. They thought it was irresponsible for her fiance to get her daughter pregnant, so they gathered their own people to make a scene at Cui Gaihong's fiance's house. As a result, this scene made Cui Gaihong's fiance unbearable and told the truth. It turns out that Cui Gaihong's fiance has nothing to do with Cui Gaihong. They are innocent and the baby in the belly is not her fiance's. Cui Gaihong found out that she was pregnant and went. I wanted my fiance to bear the consequences, and he agreed at that time, but who ever thought that Cui Gaihong's fiance became more and more uncomfortable and felt wronged, so he went back on his word and wanted to break off his marriage.
This suddenly made Cui's family's face dim. In which era, it is shameful for a woman to get pregnant before marriage, and what is even more shameful is that she is not pregnant with her husband's children. So Cui's family went back to find out who was behind it and wanted to know who it was. As a result, no matter how Cui's family questioned him, Cui blushed and refused to say who that person was, which made Cui's family very angry. In the end, he can only be popular.
Cui Gaihong, who ran away from home, was alone and pregnant with children, but because Cui Gaihong graduated from technical secondary school at that time and worked as a teacher in the primary school in the next village after graduation, although she ran away from home, food and shelter were not a problem. In this way, Cui Gaihong lived in school with her children all day. Although she had a bad reputation, it was not easy to find a literate person to replace Cui Gaihong in the countryside at that time, so it was just that, although no one wanted to.
It is more painful for Cui Gaihong to have a baby. According to the old man, it was winter and all the students had their winter holidays. Cui Gaihong lives alone in school, and the baby will be born at night. Everyone was crying in pain in the room, but there was no one around. That night, several gamblers in the village hid in the shabby house next to the school and gambled with candles. It's fun to go to the toilet, and no one goes straight to school at night. When I urinated, I heard Cui's cry turn red, so I quickly climbed over the wall to have a look. I was shocked when I saw it. I quickly told my partner that some gamblers in the countryside, although not very good, have good personalities. I thought that no matter what teacher Cui's personality is, it will always be a life. I saved people first, and several big men couldn't deliver the baby, so I had to knock on the door of the village head's house overnight and tell the story. The village chief will deliver the baby. Although the village chief cursed, he got up and followed some gamblers to find the midwife. Fortunately, there is a midwife in the village, and the midwife has been found. Now two women are taking the village chief's wife to deliver the baby.
Although the delivery process was very dangerous, I heard that there was a lot of bleeding at that time, but the final result was that the mother and daughter were safe. After giving birth to the child, the villagers went to inform Cui's family. Anyway, the child was born, to see if they could take people back and let them rest at home for a while. But no one expected that Cui's family was heartless and said that Cui Gaihong would not tell who that person was, and they would never accept Cui Gaihong's return. The village chief failed to convince Cui's family. I can only prepare to go back. At this time, Cui Gaihong's mother stole two big cocks to the village head, saying that she would give one to the village head, thanking the village head for helping her daughter, and the other stewed her daughter's body. Honest village head didn't want to eat chicken by himself, so he let his wife stew it and gave it to Cui Gaihong. Anyway, this Cui Gaihong is also the teacher of his students in the village and should be managed. In this way, Cui Gaihong continued to take it.
In the blink of an eye, it reached 20 15. Cui Gaihong's daughter Tang Tang has grown from a hungry baby to a slim girl, and everyone likes her. But because she lived with her mother since she was a child, she was very fond of her mother and had no father's discipline, so Tang Tang was always rebellious and liked to play with boys. By the time he was twenty, Tang Tang had not studied for several years.
How can a girl who wanders around have no boyfriend? Sugar is no exception. She talked about her boyfriend herself, even if she talked about her boyfriend, but Tangtang's boyfriend belonged to the Liu family, which was Cui Gaihong's fiance's house. This is certainly not a good thing. After Cui Gaihong learned that her daughter's boyfriend was from the Liu family, a thousand and ten thousand people were unwilling to break up with their boyfriends and expressed their views one after another.
At first, I thought it might be that her mother opposed her falling in love with the Liu family because of what happened in those days, so I told her gently that it was a new era, and those things that happened a long time ago were nobody's business, and she also said that her grandfather wouldn't let you go back to Cui's house. Why do you still care about this? However, Tang Tang's mother didn't let go. She just said firmly that you and your family can live in harmony, but Cui's family can't. Seeing her mother's fierce opposition, her temper also came up, indicating that she had decided the Cui family's lifelong event. If Cui's family doesn't marry, she leaves a malicious word and turns away, leaving her mother Cui Gaihong crying at home alone.
After going out, Tang Tang continued to look around for her boyfriend. By the way, she told her boyfriend that her mother didn't approve of her getting married twice, but she would stick to it. They are bored, but they don't know that Cui Gaihong disagrees with his two objects, which have spread all over the country. By the way, it also reached the ears of Tang Tang's boyfriend's mother. When Tang Tang's boyfriend's mother heard that Cui Gaihong disagreed with her son and daughter, she said sourly that her son could. Having said that, Tang Tang's boyfriend's mother still wants Tang Tang to marry her. After all, it's not easy to get a wife these days.
However, no one expected that the development of things would surprise everyone. After Tang Tang's boyfriend's father knew about this, he generously said that as long as the children were willing, there was no problem at home, so that his son could visit his future mother-in-law. But no one expected that Cui Gaihong, who had always been gentle and kind, changed his temper and kicked Tang Tang's boyfriend out of the house directly, and said that as long as he married Tang Tang, it would be the day he died. This frightened the two children and they ran out in frustration. When Tang Tang's boyfriend came home and told his parents, his parents advised him to let go. How can a boy in his twenties be so sincere about his feelings and immediately express his unwillingness? Parents have no choice but to let their children go and take it one step at a time.
However, no one expected that on a sunny Sunday, Cui Gaihong went shopping in the supermarket in the county and happened to meet the mother of her sugar boyfriend who came to sweep the goods. When the two women met, Cui Gaihong ignored them and was ready to turn around and leave. But she doesn't want her sugar boyfriend's mother to come up and talk to Cui Gaihong with a smile. Cui Gaihong got angry directly and dumped what your son thought, which is a good thing. Not in this life, this sentence is so loud. Suddenly, Tang Tang's boyfriend's mother blushed and her neck was thick, and she began to be angry with Cui for turning red. After a scolding, the two women began to make trouble. More and more people are watching, and Tang Tang's boyfriend's mother is getting more and more fierce. Cui Gaihong finally said something that surprised everyone. That sentence is "my daughter!"
This sentence, like a thunder, surprised everyone. People who know Cui Gaihong immediately react to what this means. People who don't know are still asking, but Tang Tang's boyfriend's mother didn't react at the moment. I have always made it clear that Cui Gaihong said, "Didn't you always say that I was lying to others? The man I stole is your husband's father, and my daughter and your husband are brothers. Are you satisfied? " How can this be satisfactory? How can a good wife become a sister-in-law? This can make Tang Tang's boyfriend's mother angry, and she will fight when she jumps. Fortunately, she is pulled away by people on the side.
As soon as the news spread, it immediately caused an uproar. I heard that the Liu family kept Tangtang's boyfriend at home that night, and Tangtang was kept at home by Cui's family. Both children are crazy and refuse to accept the reality, but Cui Jia and Liu Jia will set foot on the threshold of Cui's red family that night, walking wave after wave, and many days have passed. Since then, I have never contacted her boyfriend, and Cui and Liu Ye don't like each other.
But things got around. It turns out that Cui Gaihong was attracted by Mr. Liu when he was still fifteen or sixteen, and Cui Gaihong somehow got together with this man, and they got along when they had time. After a long time, Mr. Liu became more and more fond of Cui Gaihong, so he came up with a bad idea to give Cui Gaihong to one of his nephews. So Mr. Liu became a matchmaker and told his nephew about Cui's change to red. But before Cui Gaihong got married, Mr. Liu got Cui Gaihong pregnant. In this case, Cui Gaihong was afraid, and Mr. Liu couldn't make up his mind for a moment. After thinking about it, he came up with a bad idea and asked Cui Gaihong to find her fiance. They got closer and said that the child was her fiance's.
But when Cui Gaihong asked her fiance out, she didn't want to make out with him, so she told the truth, but didn't tell Mr. Liu, only that she was pregnant with someone else's child and wanted her fiance to agree. Who ever thought that her fiance agreed at that time, but she broke her word afterwards? Cui Gaihong had no choice but to betray her lover and had to kill herself, thinking about their future. But who knows that after this incident broke out, I dare not see Cui Gaihong now, and I don't want this child anyway. This made Cui Gaihong very angry and wanted to tell Mr. Liu, but Mr. Liu was so anxious that he knelt down and begged her. Women are always soft-hearted, so Cui Gaihong never told Mr. Liu.
Mr. Head died when he was seven or eight years old. Cui Gaihong knew that even if he said it, it would be meaningless and he could only carry it silently. Who once wanted to involve the next generation all the time, but now they don't scold or force each other, so they have to shake it out directly. After Cui Jia and Liu Jia heard about this, they took Candy and Mr. Liu's son to have a paternity test. The result is unknown to outsiders, but since then, the two children have been banned from all contact by the two families.
This incident is absolutely true, but the names in the incident are all pseudonyms and cannot be taken seriously.
Before he died, the old man said that he would leave all his property to her granddaughter. Later, under the repeated coercion of his family, he said that it was her daughter.
There is a family in the village. In the early 1990s, they raised pigs and cattle. On market day, they killed cows and sold them in the street. On other days, they kill pigs and ride motorcycles to sell them in the village.
In the village, it is because every time cattle are killed on the market day, work starts at three or four in the morning, and pigs will be killed at five or six in the morning, which often affects the villagers' work and rest time. In addition, many pigs and cattle are raised by themselves for slaughter and sale.
There is still a little superstition in the village. If you raise yourself, you shouldn't commit suicide. This will make your merits run out, and something will happen at home.
1992, the family gave birth to a second child, (the first child was born in 1886, a normal son) did give birth to a daughter with mental retardation, and she did not have the ability to distinguish life.
1994 gave birth to another mentally retarded son, and everyone in the village said that this was a situation of exhaustion of merit.
In 2002, two people started primary school, because their home was close to school, and then they would come back to play at home after class every time, instead of going to school, which was basically the case. There is only one class every morning and afternoon, because their family is selling pork and beef and their mother is herding cattle, so every time they come back from class, the team members don't know about it, and the neighbors won't remind their family.
In the second grade of primary school, the two stopped studying and went home to help herd cattle, and their mother followed them to herd cattle. As they get older, they gradually stop worrying about herding cattle and let them go out to herd cattle by themselves.
On 20 10, my daughter was sold to some old bachelors by her father for 30,000 yuan.
In 20 13, his youngest son was kicked down the mountain and died while herding cattle. This is also what the villagers said to their families.
200 1, the eldest son followed his father to raise pigs, kill cattle and sell meat. At that time, everyone in the village said that this kind of work should not inherit his father's business. After all, such a home would be dark and confused, but his father wouldn't believe it at that time. He insisted that his son do these things.
In 2005, his eldest son got married and married a beautiful wife. Over time, it became an "anecdote" in the village to learn that his wife had been a "massage girl" in Guangdong for some time and was infertile.
In 2008, the two divorced.
20 10 I remarried, and this time I married a fertile wife. The first child is at 20 1 1, and the second child is at 20 13. They are all daughters and have no sons. Besides, there is something wrong with both of them. When they were 5.6 years old, they saw their hair.
By 20 15, his eldest son stopped killing pigs and cattle to sell pork and beef, bought a van himself, went out with others to sell medicinal oil and medicinal liquor, and learned a little more technical means, so he stopped doing it in his own city.
On 20/0/7, I went out to sell medicinal oil and medicinal liquor in Hainan, hooked up with a divorced girl in the village next door, and gave birth to a daughter on 20/0/8, which is normal.
In 20 18, his wife learned about it and divorced, and the eldest son wanted this result very much. The villagers in the back told his original wife that both of your daughters are divorced, and no one would like to accept such a person. If people in Houzhen can't find anyone to start a family, it will become your own burden and allow others to enter this home properly. It is better to live like this, let his family take care of the children, and you can go out to work to subsidize your pocket. Later, she also felt reasonable, and she obeyed such an environment.
Up to now, his eldest son and divorced woman have been living in Hainan, and they don't come back for the Spring Festival, and their children are not recognized at home.
And his wife goes out to work, and there are old rules. She often goes out for half a year and comes back for a period of time, so that she has always declared her sovereignty in this family.
But his father is now in his sixties, and he doesn't sell beef, but only pork, because the eldest son doesn't give money to his family, and the labor force is only himself, so he can only make money desperately to subsidize his family.
These things are well known in the village, and his mother is ashamed. Every time she finishes her farm work, she always takes the path home instead of going to the neighbor's house to gather. Occasionally, I will see her taking two children to do farm work on weekends.
I feel that this kind of family relationship is very abnormal. Unlike home, people live very hard and have no normal activity environment and social relations.