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How did Lin Daiyu die?
Destiny takes a hand, the first time I said I would return my tears, and the third fortune teller said that I would not get better if I heard crying. Therefore, this is destiny takes a hand ... Lin Daiyu is an important figure in A Dream of Red Mansions and one of the most successful figures created by Cao Xueqin. Over the past century, people have different opinions about the function of the Red Mansion, some of them love Lin and hate Xue, and some of them are degraded by Ngai-Sie. Hey, listeners, don't throw eggs and listen to me slowly. There is a famous saying: "Character decides fate". The fate of a person's life is closely related to a person's personality. To understand the death of Lin Daiyu, we must first analyze her personality characteristics. Looking closely at the length of Lin Daiyu in A Dream of Red Mansions, I find that although Lin Daiyu is somewhat pitiful, such as shy and clever, she has three fatal weaknesses in her character: first, she is suspicious, second, she is indifferent, and third, she is narcissistic. These personality defects made her unpopular with most people in Jiafu, which was one of the important reasons for her early death. Let's see how suspicious she is: In the 26th episode of A Dream of Red Mansions, there is such a passage: "... just then, I saw Zijuan come in, and Baoyu smiled and said," Zijuan, make me a bowl of your good tea. " ..... Daiyu said,' Ignore him. "Bring me some water first," said Zijuan. "As a guest, he will make tea first and then scoop water." Say, pour the tea. Baoyu smiled and said, "Good girl! If you are an affectionate woman, how can you be willing to make the bed? Daiyu burst into tears ... and cried,' What's new now? Tell me after listening to the village words outside; Read fucking books and make fun of me. I became a man's pastime. "While crying, get out of bed and go outside. This forced Baoyu to swear in a hurry:' Good sister, I should stop for a while, at least don't tell anyone! If I dare to say these words again, my mouth will get boils and my tongue will rot. ""It's two people watching the West Chamber together, and Lin Daiyu has learned these words by heart for a long time. At this time, Baoyu casually said that she was "teasing". A careful study of Lin Daiyu's psychology is probably due to the presence of Zi Juan at that time, and she had to be reserved for fear of being "teased" by others. However, Zijuan is loyal to Lin Daiyu, and even contradicts Jia's "serious master" for her. Lin Daiyu is still so wary of people close to her, which shows that she is extremely suspicious. Blame Baoyu for moving so much. Even if he doesn't move, there is still a problem. When Lin Daiyu visited Qi Yuanhong in the evening, she met Qingwen and other girls. She couldn't recognize her voice, but she couldn't open the door, so she "thought, tears rolled down again ... I heard a burst of laughter inside." Listening carefully, it turned out to be Baoyu and Baochai. Daiyu became more and more angry and thought about it. Suddenly, she remembered getting up early: "If I sue him, Baoyu must be annoyed ..." Then, "The more I think about it, the more sad I am. I sobbed in the shade of flowers falling in the corner of Independence, regardless of the cold moss and the cold flower diameter." Here, Lin Daiyu is not only suspicious, but also imaginative. She can mix completely irrelevant and unreasonable things together, thus fulfilling Baoyu's accusation of "ruthlessness". Before that, Baoyu said to her, "You are such a smart person that you don't even know' pro-pride'? Although I am confused, I understand these two sentences. First of all, we are aunts, uncles and sisters. Sister Bao is two aunts and sisters, and relatives are farther than you. Second, you go first. We will eat at the same table and sleep in the same bed. We grew up. He just came here. Is there anyone who stays away from you for him? " Such a broken "understanding" can't dispel her doubts, which shows that Lin Daiyu is really a person who doesn't understand. Logically speaking, even in the current unit building, it is impossible to hear the conversation of people with normal volume standing outside the door, not to mention that Yuan "entered the door, with verandas on both sides, and a few stones lined up in the middle of the yard, while planting several plantains and a Xifu Haitang". Plus Baoyu Baochai is not a loud person, and Lin Daiyu is standing outside the door, it is absolutely impossible to hear "a burst of laughter" inside. "Lin Daiyu has a contempt and indifference to people in a weak position. She often sighs that she is "dependent on others". In Jiafu, it is "360 days a year, the wind, frost and swords press each other", but she is protected by her grandmother and held by Baoyu, at least she doesn't have to worry about daily expenses. Compared with Xing Xiuyan who also lives in Jiafu, Lin Daiyu really doesn't know when she will be blessed. In episode 57, Baochai told Lin Daiyu, Shi Xiangyun and others that Xiuyan was forced to pawn her cotton-padded clothes to raise money because of blackmail from the bullied maid. When Daiyu heard this, she said, "When a rabbit dies, it hurts its kind." Her first thought was not to sympathize with Xiuyan, but to lament her fate at once. Shi Xiangyun was angry and said, "The rabbit died and hurt its own kind. "How can I take it out on you when I scold that old woman?" Lin Daiyu immediately smiled and said, "If you are a man, go out and complain. How much do you charge for Jing Ke and Nie Zheng? It's really funny. " Lin Daiyu here is neither considerate of Baochai nor chivalrous of Shi Xiangyun, but indifferent and "funny" by onlookers. Lin Daiyu is even more cynical about Granny Liu going to Jia's house for help. The only difference between her and Wang Xifeng is that she is only explicit, but she is contemptuous and disdainful. Speaking of grandma Liu, Lin Daiyu said this: "... what kind of old man is he?" Just call him' mother locust'. " Baochai's unkind comments are meaningful: "All the words in the world must come from Ersao (Wang Xifeng). Fortunately, yisow can't read and is not very popular, but she is just joking with the secular. What's more, it is the narrow mouth of Yinger (Lin Daiyu). He used the method of Chunqiu to summarize, delete and polish the vulgar words. For example, a sentence is a sentence. The word "mother locust" describes all the scenery yesterday. Thanks to his quick thinking! " These words of praise and criticism truly depict Lin Daiyu's meanness and indifference. Lin Daiyu's mentality is always in a competitive state, always trying to overwhelm everyone in talent. For example, when she visited the Grand View Garden in Guifei Province, she was not allowed to display her talents because she was "unhappy". As we all know, for a person (not just a woman), having a friendly and kind heart is far more valuable than being brilliant. Throughout the book, except Baoyu, it is hard to see that Lin Daiyu took the initiative to care about others. More often, she imprisons herself in a strange circle of narcissism: the more people don't really love her, the more they have to show their talents everywhere, the more people will stay away from her. In the forty-ninth episode, Lin Daiyu disapproved of Baoyu Shi Xiangyun's behavior of roasting venison in Xue Lu Temple. Xiangyun readily expressed her dissatisfaction with Lin Daiyu: "... Daiyu smiled and said," Where can I find these flowers? That's all. Today, Liu Xueting was robbed and humiliated by Yun Shantou. I cried for Liu Xueting. Xiangyun sneered, "What do you know? Those who love themselves are real celebrities. You are all false and lofty, the most disgusting. " It is not a mistake for Lin Daiyu to be brilliant, but she has always kept herself in the loneliness of narcissism and autism, and has fallen into the embarrassing situation of "leading an honest and clean life and being suspicious". Some people think that Lin Daiyu is suspicious and bitter because of her love for Baoyu. However, a careful analysis of Lin Daiyu's character shows that even if the Jia family did not fall into poverty, Lin Daiyu recovered from her illness and married Baoyu as she wished. That's a bigger disaster: Jia Baoyu is nothing more than a "silver-like wax spear" after all. His strength is his tenderness and consideration for a girl made of water, not to mention a "quasi-menstruation" who just crossed the road without telling the old lady. Judging from Lin Daiyu's remarks that "either the east wind overwhelms the west wind or the west wind overwhelms the east wind", it is impossible to live in harmony with "outsiders" such as xiren after marriage. She will definitely cry, causing a sour wind and vinegar rain, which will give Baoyu a headache. Baoyu is also a man made of mud. He will be numb when he faces tears for a long time, and may change from numbness to boredom, and then from boredom to alienation. It is conceivable that Lin Daiyu will probably become the second Mrs. Wang, from a pearl to the eyes of a dead fish. For these reasons, Cao Xueqin had to let Lin Daiyu die. In the fifth episode of A Dream of Red Mansions, he hinted at the death of Lin Daiyu. "I saw two dead trees painted on the first page with a jade belt hanging on them ... and four poems: alas, stop work, pity and praise. The jade belt hangs in the forest and is buried in the snow. " The "jade belt hanging in the forest" here probably implies that Lin Daiyu died of hanging beam and committed suicide. Later, with the development of the story, Lin Daiyu's condition was aggravated step by step, pushing her to death. From this point of view, Cao Xueqin seems to have personally "murdered" a character with distinctive personality that he painstakingly created. Although it was a well-planned "murder", this kind of "murder" was more out of kindness, which gave Lin Daiyu a chance to keep a good appearance and let her "lead a clean life" and not "sink into the ditch". But after all, Lin Daiyu is one of the characters he created and loved, and Cao Xueqin felt helpless and unbearable about her death. At the sixty-third party, Lin Daiyu drew a sign that read "Don't blame Dongfeng for shame". The subtext buried here is: "Don't blame me for letting you die early, I am helpless. Who makes your personality so unpopular? "