Civilized knowledge content

1. Little knowledge of civilized etiquette

1. Basic etiquette 1. Appearance. Appearance refers to a person’s appearance and is the appearance of a person’s spiritual outlook.

A person's hygiene and self-cultivation habits. Everyone should develop good hygiene habits. They should wash their face and feet before going to bed, brush their teeth after breakfast and dinner, wash their hair and bathe frequently, pay attention to personal hygiene such as combing, changing clothes and washing hands frequently.

2. Clothing must be natural, appropriate, coordinated and generous. Clothing must not only adapt to your specific conditions, but also must always pay attention to the objective environment and the dressing requirements of the occasion, that is, priority should be given to time and time when dressing. Place and purpose are the three major elements, and work hard on all aspects of dressing up. 3. When speaking, the voice level should be appropriate and the tone should be calm and steady; respect others.

Civilized language. 4. When talking, both parties should first look at each other and listen to each other. They should not look around, read books or newspapers, look tired, or yawn continuously.

Standing posture, when standing, the body should be perpendicular to the ground, the center of gravity should be placed on the two front feet, the chest should be raised, the abdomen should be closed, the jaw should be closed, the head should be raised, and the shoulders should be relaxed. Let your arms hang naturally or cross in front of your body, look straight, and smile.

Sitting posture, the correct sitting posture should be: straight back and relaxed shoulders. Women should keep their knees together or tilt their knees together; men's knees can be spread apart a little, but not too much, generally no more than shoulder width.

Place your hands naturally on your knees or on the armrests of a chair. In formal occasions, you should be gentle and gentle when you sit down, and you should be dignified and steady when you stand up. Do not sit up suddenly, causing the tables and chairs to rattle and create an awkward atmosphere.

No matter what kind of sitting posture, the upper body should be kept upright. 2. Meeting Etiquette 1. Handshake Etiquette When shaking hands with others, look at the other person and smile. Do not wear hats or gloves to shake hands with others.

Under normal circumstances, the handshake should not last longer than 3 seconds. You must stand and shake hands to show respect and courtesy to others. There is also a certain order in shaking hands: after women, elders, married people, and those with higher positions extend their hands, men, juniors, unmarried people, and those with lower positions can extend their hands to respond.

If a person wants to shake hands with many people, the polite order is: superior first, then subordinate, elder first, then junior, host first, then guest. 2. Bowing ceremony. When bowing, you must stand at attention, take off your hat, salute, or say something nice while bowing.

Bow and look at the other person to show sincerity of respect. 3. Greetings. In social situations, people often express friendliness by waving, bowing, or taking off their hats.

3. Public etiquette 1. In public places, pay attention to cleanliness, abide by the rules, do not shout or make loud noises, and set your mobile phone to vibrate or turn it off. 2. Take a bus Etiquette, Cycling: Strictly obey traffic rules. Taking a train or ship: In the waiting room or waiting room, keep quiet and do not shout loudly.

When boarding the bus or boat, please line up in order and avoid crowding. Pay attention to hygiene.

Taking a bus: When the bus arrives at the station, you should line up in order, and be considerate and courteous to women, children, the elderly and the sick. 3. Tourism etiquette 1. When traveling, take care of public property in tourist areas.

2. Hotel accommodation: Passengers should not make loud noises in the room when staying in any hotel, so as not to disturb other guests. Treat waiters with courtesy and express gratitude for the service they provide.

3. Dining in restaurants: Respect the work of waiters and be courteous to them.

Extended information: From the perspective of personal cultivation, etiquette can be said to be the external manifestation of a person's inner cultivation and quality.

From a communication point of view, etiquette can be said to be an art, a communication method or a communication method applicable in interpersonal communication. It is a customary practice in interpersonal communication to show respect and friendliness to others.

From a communication perspective, etiquette can be said to be the skill of communicating with each other in interpersonal interactions. From a personal perspective, the main functions of etiquette are: first, it helps to improve people's self-cultivation; second, it helps to beautify themselves and their lives; it helps to promote people's social interactions and improve people's interpersonal relationships; and Help purify social atmosphere.

From a group perspective: etiquette is an important part of corporate culture and corporate spirit, and is the main attachment point of corporate image. Any international enterprise will have high standards for etiquette, and corporate etiquette training is particularly important. It is required to regard etiquette as an important part of corporate culture, and it is also an important software to obtain international certification.

Reference: Baidu Encyclopedia-Civilized Etiquette.

2. A little knowledge of civilized etiquette (for grade 6 primary school students)

1. Address etiquette 1. Do not address your parents and elders by their first names, let alone use impolite words. Use accurate titles, such as dad, grandma, teacher, uncle, etc.

2. Nicknames given by others. 2. Greeting etiquette: When greeting parents and elders, different greetings should be used according to different times, occasions, and festivals.

1. Ask dad and mom good morning after getting up early. 2. Wish mom and dad good night before going to bed.

3. Parents come home from get off work: Dad and Mom are back. 4. Birthday: I wish my elders a happy birthday and good health.

5. New Year: I wish my elders, relatives and friends a happy New Year. 6. When dad and mom go out, say: I wish dad and mom a safe journey and smooth work.

7. When dad and mom come back from an outing, they say: Mom and dad are back, thank you for your hard work. 8. When you say goodbye to your family: Don’t worry, I will take good care of myself.

If you are away from home for a long time, you should write or call to greet your family. 9. When you go home, you should say hello to your parents and elders.

3. Table manners (1) When at home: 1. Ask the elders to sit down first. 2. Wait for the elders to take the bowls and chopsticks first, and then take the bowls and chopsticks yourself.

3. When eating and drinking soup, swallow in small sips, chew with your mouth closed, chew slowly and try not to make any noise. 4. When eating, hold chopsticks in one hand and hold the bowl with the other.

5. Don’t knock the bowl, don’t pee and pick the dishes. 6. Say "thank you" when others bring food to you.

When you don't need it, you should say: "Thank you, I really don't need it anymore." 7. Take the initiative to add food to the elders.

8. After finishing your meal first, say "Everyone eat slowly." 9. After the meal, help parents put away the dishes and clean the table.

(2) At school: 1. Do not run and enter the restaurant in an orderly manner. 2. Sit on the designated seat, with your feet naturally together, your legs naturally flat, your sitting posture natural, and your back upright.

3. When eating, hold the spoon in one hand and hold the bowl with the other. Don’t knock the rice bowl, eat quietly and civilly.

4. Eat all rice, vegetables, and soups (except in special circumstances); do not have a partial or picky eclipse. 5. After the meal, the stools should be placed neatly under the dining table.

4. Hospitality Etiquette 1. When guests come to visit, you must prepare in advance and keep the room tidy. You should give a warm reception, help your parents arrange their seats, hand them tea, and then say goodbye and leave. When your parents see off the guests, you should say "goodbye" to the guests.

If your parents are not at home, you must receive guests as hosts. 2. When your classmates or friends come to visit, you should warmly welcome them. When they visit for the first time, you should introduce them to your parents one by one, and then give the best seats to the guests. You can entertain them with tea, fruits, books, etc.

3. When parents’ friends bring children to visit, they should play with the children, tell them stories, and read books, listen to music, and watch TV with them. 4. When eating, if classmates or friends come to visit, you should take the initiative to invite them to eat together. If the guest declares that he has eaten, arrange for the friend to sit down first, find some books, newspapers or magazines for him to read, and then continue eating.

5. Receiving teachers should be as warm and solemn as receiving elders. 6. When seeing off guests, send them to the door and welcome them back next time.

5. Guest Etiquette 1. When visiting relatives and friends’ homes, you should be on time, look neat and tidy, and bring some small gifts as much as possible to show respect for the host. 2. When at the homes of relatives and friends, you should not speak loudly and in a civilized manner.

3. Don’t use things in the owner’s house without the owner’s permission. Even close relatives and friends should say hello first and obtain the owner’s consent before they can use it. 4. If you are dining at the host's house, you must pay attention to dining etiquette. Do not rush to be seated or touch the food first.

5. When saying goodbye, say words of thanks, such as "I'm so happy today" and "Welcome to my home." 6. Dressing Etiquette 1. Dress up in strange clothes. When attending important events, wear the prescribed school uniform as required.

2. Keep yourself neat and tidy, dress neatly, plainly and elegantly, do not tie your shirt around your waist, or wear clothes loosely buttoned. 3. ***Vests, slippers, and underpants are worn when walking on campus or entering classrooms.

4. Do not take off your clothes or shoes in class. 5. Do not compare with each other (such as *** famous brands, etc.), *** medium-high heels, *** thick-soled fashion shoes, sneakers or flat shoes are better.

6. Do not wear necklaces, earrings (needles), rings, bracelets, bracelets and other accessories. 7. Trim your hair as required, do not dye or perm your hair, do not leave long hair for boys and disheveled hair for girls.

7. Walking Etiquette 1. When walking, you should hold your head up and chest high, look forward, swing your shoulders and arms naturally, and walk at a moderate pace. Avoid splayed feet, swaying, or swaying steps. 2. When going up or down stairs or crossing corridors, keep to the right and walk slowly. Do not ride on the railings and slide down.

When entering and exiting classrooms, offices, conference venues, etc., follow designated routes to avoid crowding. Walk quietly and slowly when entering and exiting each functional room, so as not to disturb others. 3. When you meet acquaintances, you should say hello and exchange greetings. Don't turn a blind eye. If you need to talk, you should talk by the roadside or in a corner. You should not stand in the middle of the road or in a crowded place.

4. Pedestrians should be courteous to each other, take the initiative to give way to the elderly, and take the initiative to give way to the disabled and those in need. 5. When asking others for directions, first greet them with polite language, such as "Sorry to bother you", "Excuse me", etc. Young people should choose appropriate titles when asking for directions, such as "Grandpa", "Auntie", "Uncle", etc. , and then ask for directions; after listening to the answer, be sure to say: "Thank you!" If you are asked for directions by a stranger, you should answer seriously and carefully. If you are not sure, you should say: "I'm sorry, I don't know, please Ask someone else.

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8. Etiquette of respecting teachers and respecting filial piety 1. When you see a teacher, take the initiative to say “Hello, teacher”. When you see a guest, you should take the initiative to say “Hello, teacher, guest” with a smile, and say “Goodbye” when you say goodbye. 2. Keep to the right when entering and exiting the school and going up and down the stairs.

3. If you are late for class (including self-study classes), you should call "report" first and get permission from the teacher before entering the classroom to speak. Stand up straight and look directly at the teacher.

4. When entering the office, shout "report" and only enter after hearing "please come in"; when asking the teacher, use "excuse me" and say thank you after the teacher answers. Say "goodbye" before leaving; do not browse things in the teacher's office without permission; do not open the teacher's computer without permission.

5. Point out the teacher's mistakes in a polite manner. And pay attention to the occasion. 6. Listen to the teacher's teachings with an open mind, accept the teacher's education, and have a correct attitude.

7. Tell the truth to the teacher and do not deceive the teacher. Complete all tasks assigned by the teacher on time and conscientiously.

9. Obey the teacher's management and do not contradict the teacher. If you have your own opinions and opinions, you should choose appropriate methods to exchange opinions with the teacher sincerely.

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3. Basic knowledge of civilized etiquette (short)

Etiquette is something that humans must abide by in order to maintain normal life in society. The minimum moral code is gradually formed by people's long-term daily life and mutual interaction, and it is fixed for a person in the form of customs, habits and traditions. p>

Etiquette is the external expression of a person’s ideological and moral level, cultural accomplishment, and communicative ability. For a society, etiquette is the level of social civilization, moral customs, and living habits of a country. Reflection. Paying attention to and carrying out etiquette education has become an important part of moral practice. ?

The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. Appearance, manners, expressions, clothing, conversation

, dealing with others, etc.; in terms of objects, there are personal etiquette, public place etiquette, hospitality and guest etiquette, table manners, and gifts

< p> Etiquette, civilized communication, etc. The behavioral norms in the process of interpersonal communication are called etiquette, and the expression of etiquette in speech and actions is called politeness. To strengthen moral practice, we should pay attention to etiquette so that people can "respect."

Conduct interpersonal interactions based on the principles of "people, self-discipline, moderation, and sincerity" and say goodbye to uncivilized words and deeds. ?

Etiquette, etiquette, and politeness are rich in content, but they have their own Regularity, its basic etiquette principles: first, the principle of respecting others

; second, the principle of self-discipline, which means that in the process of communication, one must be self-restrained, prudent, proactive, voluntary, and polite to others.

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Be consistent on the inside and outside, self-control, self-reflection, self-demand, self-examination, self-discipline, no arrogance, duplicity

The third is the principle of moderation, moderation and appropriateness, and a sense of proportion; It is the principle of sincerity, to be sincere, to treat others with sincerity, and not to act on every occasion and not to be inconsistent with words and deeds.

4. What are some tips on civilized etiquette?

First, help, express gratitude in a timely and proactive manner to show sincerity. Second, be honest and trustworthy, and never keep promises you make. Give a slight discount. Third, you must choose appropriate channels and methods according to different objects. Fourth, you must master the degree of gratitude and strive to achieve reasonable and appropriate meeting etiquette. Meeting etiquette includes handshake ceremony, business card ceremony, hat-off ceremony, and hug ceremony. , kiss ceremony, etc.

Business card gift: When meeting someone for the first time, they often have to give each other business cards. The business card can be presented before the communication or at the end of the communication or at the time of farewell, depending on the specific circumstances.

It is best to use both hands when handing and receiving business cards. The front of the business card should face the other party; you should thank the other party after taking the business card. Generally, do not reach out to ask for a business card from others. When you must ask for a business card, you should use a requesting tone, such as "If it is convenient for you, please give me a business card so that I can contact you in the future."

Hat tip: Men should do this when meeting. Take off your hat or raise your hat and greet the other person or say hello; if you meet the same person multiple times on the same occasion, you do not need to take off your hat repeatedly. Guests must take off their hats when entering the host's room.

In solemn and formal occasions, you should consciously take off your hat. Hugging and kissing are popular in European and American countries.

The hug gift is mostly used in official and private social occasions such as greeting guests or congratulations. The two of them stand opposite each other, with their upper bodies leaning slightly forward, their right arms leaning upwards, and their left arms leaning downwards. Their right hands embrace each other's left shoulders, and their left hands embrace each other's right waist. Their heads and upper bodies embrace each other to the right, and finally to the left. Give me a hug.

Kissing ceremony: When performing a kissing ceremony, it is often accompanied by a certain degree of hugging. People with different relationships and identities kiss each other at different parts. In public and social occasions, close women can kiss each other on the face, men can hug each other on the shoulders, and men and women usually touch each other on the cheek; juniors can kiss their elders on the forehead; men can kiss their distinguished female guests on the forehead. You can kiss your fingers or the back of your hand.

In welcoming occasions in many countries, the guests and hosts often express their most sincere enthusiasm and respect by shaking hands, hugging, kissing the face from left to right, and touching each other on the cheek. Western food etiquette: Western food tableware mainly includes knives, forks, spoons, and napkins. For example, some common things on Chinese tables are not found on the Western table, such as toothpicks and wet hand towels.

Because foreigners regard eating as a social activity, if you wipe your face with a wet hand towel, won’t your makeup be in vain? Chinese food has hot towels for wiping, and many people wipe their sweat away, but this is not the case in Western food. In addition, there are no toothpicks. I have said before that picking teeth in public is an uncivilized behavior. It destroys the appetite of others. It is ugly and hideous to you, and it is unappetizing to others.

So don’t look for toothpicks on the Western dining table, let alone pick your teeth with a knife. 1. The meaning of etiquette According to research, etiquette was used to worship gods in ancient my country.

The word "rite" exists in oracle bone inscriptions. In ancient times, the word "Li" was connected with the word "Lu", which means shoes. Wearing shoes makes it easier to walk.

But the shoes should be neither too big nor too small, they should just fit. Later, the word "ritual" had more and more meanings.

In the Zhou Dynasty, in order to adjust the relationship between people, "ritual" and "virtue" were combined. With the emergence of the hierarchical system, "ritual" has become the criterion for interpersonal communication that distinguishes between high and low, superior and inferior, obedient and rebellious, wise and foolish, and is placed above other social concepts.

As Confucius said, "If people are rude, there will be no life, if things are rude, they will not succeed, and if the country is rude, there will be no peace." Each of these three "ritual" characters has its own meaning.

In modern language, the first word "ritual" refers to the behavioral norms in daily life; the second word "ritual" refers to rules and regulations; the third word "ritual" refers to rules and regulations; ” refers to the political and legal system. 2. The meaning of "Yi" According to research, the meaning of the word "Yi" includes five aspects: 1. Laws and standards; 2. Model and example; 3. Form and ceremony; 4. Appearance and demeanor; 5. Gifts.

3. The meaning of etiquette The word "etiquette" was first found in "The Book of Songs" and "Book of Rites". In modern society, the word "etiquette" has a broader meaning, and its content includes etiquette, etiquette and rituals, rituals prescribed by customs, behavioral norms, communication procedures, protocol orders, moral norms, etc.

The understanding and knowledge of "etiquette" in society is multi-level, which mainly includes the following levels of meaning: 1. Etiquette refers to the things that are formed for everyone due to customs and habits in social life*** Observed rituals. It also includes the meaning of moral character.

2. Etiquette 3. Courtesy 4. Protocol 5. Etiquette 6. Etiquette.

5. Etiquette knowledge

Etiquette is the minimum moral code that human beings require to abide by in order to maintain normal life in society. It is gradually formed through living together and interacting with each other, and is fixed in the form of customs, habits and traditions.

For a person, etiquette is the external expression of a person’s ideological and moral level, cultural accomplishment, and communicative ability. For a society, etiquette is the level of social civilization, moral customs, and life of a country. reflection of habits. Paying attention to and carrying out etiquette education has become an important part of moral practice.

?The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. From the content point of view, it includes appearance, manners, expressions, clothing, conversation, and dealing with others; from the object point of view, it includes personal etiquette, public place etiquette, hospitality and guest etiquette, table manners, gift etiquette, civilized interactions, etc.

The behavioral norms in the process of interpersonal communication are called etiquette, and the expression of etiquette in speech and actions is called politeness. To strengthen moral practice, attention should be paid to etiquette, so that people can conduct interpersonal interactions based on the principles of "respect for others, self-discipline, moderation, and sincerity" and say goodbye to uncivilized words and deeds.

? Etiquette, etiquette, and politeness are rich in content, but they have their own regularity. Its basic etiquette principles are: first, the principle of respecting others; second, the principle of self-discipline, which means to be polite in the process of communication. Self-restraint, prudence, initiative, volition, courtesy, appearance and appearance, self-control, self-reflection, self-demand, self-examination, self-discipline, and no arrogance or duplicity; the third is the principle of moderation, appropriateness and propriety; the fourth is sincerity The principle is to be sincere and treat others with sincerity, and do not make fun of others and do not match your words and deeds. ? 1. Personal Etiquette? (1) Appearance ? Appearance refers to a person’s appearance and is the appearance of a person’s mental outlook.

A person's hygiene habits and clothing are closely related to the formation and maintenance of dignified and generous appearance? 1. Hygiene: Cleanliness and hygiene are the key to beauty and the basic requirement of etiquette. No matter how good you look or how luxurious your clothes are, if your face is full of dirt and your body smells bad, it will definitely destroy a person's sense of beauty.

Therefore, everyone should develop good hygiene habits, wash their face and feet before going to bed and get up, brush their teeth in the morning and evening, and after meals, wash their hair and bathe frequently, and pay attention to combing and changing clothes frequently. Don't "clean up" in front of others.

For example, picking teeth, picking noses, picking earwax, manicuring nails, rubbing dirt, etc. These behaviors should be done away from others, otherwise, it is not only unsightly, but also disrespectful to others.

Keep a certain distance when talking to others, don't speak too loudly, and don't spit at people's mouth.

?2. Clothing: Clothing reflects a person’s cultural quality and aesthetic taste. Specifically, it must be natural, appropriate, coordinated and generous, and must abide by certain established norms or principles.

Clothing must not only adapt to your specific conditions, but also must always pay attention to the dressing requirements of the objective environment and occasions. That is, dressing should give priority to the three elements of time, place and purpose, and strive to be in All aspects of dressing up are consistent with time, place, and purpose. ? (2) Speech? Speech, as an art, is also an important part of personal etiquette.

?1. Politeness: The attitude should be sincere and cordial; the voice should be appropriate and the tone should be calm and steady; respect others. ?2. Terms: Honorific words, words that express respect and politeness.

Such as "please", "thank you", "sorry" in daily use, the word "you" in the second person, etc. When we meet for the first time, it is called "Jiu Yang"; when we have not seen each other for a long time, it is called "Jiu no see"; when asking for criticism, it is called "advice"; when troubling others, it is called "bothering"; when asking for convenience, it is called "borrowing light"; when asking someone to do something, it is called "please", etc.

Make an effort to develop the habit of using honorifics. Now, the polite language advocated in our country is ten words: "Hello", "Please", "Thank you", "Sorry", "Goodbye".

These ten words embody the basic language forms of speaking civilization. (3) Manners and manners: 1. Conversation posture: Conversation posture often reflects a person's character, cultivation and civilized qualities.

Therefore, when talking, both parties should first look at each other and listen to each other. They should not look around, read books or newspapers, look tired, or yawn continuously. Otherwise, it will give the impression of being absent-minded, arrogant and unreasonable.

?2. Standing posture: Standing is the most basic human posture and a kind of static beauty. When standing, the body should be perpendicular to the ground, with the center of gravity placed on the soles of the two front feet, chest raised, abdomen drawn in, arms folded, head raised, and shoulders relaxed.

The arms hang naturally or cross in front of the body, the eyes look straight, and the face smiles. When standing, do not twist your neck, slant your waist, or bend your legs. In some formal occasions, it is not appropriate to put your hands in your pockets or cross your chest, and do not make small movements subconsciously. This will not only appear restrained, but also give people a sense of lack of confidence. , and it also lacks the solemnity of etiquette.

?3. Sitting posture: Sitting is also a static shape. Sitting dignified and graceful will give people a sense of elegance, stability, natural and generous beauty.

The correct sitting posture should be: back straight and shoulders relaxed. Women should keep their knees together; men's knees can be spread apart a little, but not too much, generally no more than shoulder width.

Place your hands naturally on your knees or on the armrests of a chair. In formal occasions, you should be gentle and gentle when you sit down, and you should be dignified and steady when you stand up. Do not sit up suddenly, causing the tables and chairs to rattle and create an awkward atmosphere.

No matter what kind of sitting posture, the upper body must be kept upright, as the ancients said, "Sit like a bell." If you insist on this, no matter how you change your body posture, it will be graceful and natural.

?4. Walking posture: Walking is the main action in human life, and walking posture is a kind of dynamic beauty. "Walking like the wind" refers to the wind and water to describe the brisk and natural gait.

The correct walking posture is: light and steady, chest should be straight, head raised, shoulders relaxed, eyes level, smiling, and swinging arms naturally. ?2. Meeting Etiquette ?1. Handshake: Handshake is an important way to communicate ideas, exchange feelings, and enhance friendship.

When shaking hands with others, look at the other person and smile. Do not be absent-minded or look around. Do not wear a hat or gloves to shake hands. Under normal circumstances, the handshake should not last more than 3 seconds, and you must stand and shake hands to show respect and courtesy to others.

?The handshake also pays attention to a certain order: generally it is "the honorable person decides", that is, after the woman, the elder, the married person, and the person with a higher position extend his hand, the man, the younger generation, the unmarried person, the person with the lower position Only then can one reach out and respond. If a person wants to shake hands with many people, the polite order is: elders first, then juniors, and the host first.

6. Tips on civilized etiquette

Don’t call your parents and elders by their first names, let alone use rude words to refer to them. Use accurate titles, such as dad, grandma, teacher. , uncle, etc.

2. Nicknames given by others.

2. Greeting etiquette

When greeting parents and elders, different greetings should be used according to different times, occasions, and festivals.

1. After getting up early, ask dad and mom good morning.

2. Wish dad and mom good night before going to bed.

3. Parents come home from get off work: Dad and Mom are back.

4. Birthday: I wish the elders a happy birthday and good health.

5. New Year: I wish my elders, relatives and friends a happy New Year.

6. When dad and mom go out, say: I wish dad and mom a safe journey and smooth work.