Everything in the story is the best arrangement. Thoughts after reading it

Some time ago, when I was visiting a bookstore with my son, I saw the book "Everything is the Best Arrangement" and bought it without hesitation. The author of this book is Miss Hui, whose real name is Lu Hui. The whole book is divided into ten "best" chapters, namely the best love, the best wounds, the best reflections, the best loneliness, the best them, the best journey, and the best giving. , the best humanity, the best silence, the best self. It is divided into 52 warm little stories. One of the articles was called "You are a weakling, so what's the big deal", which touched me deeply. It tells the story of a designer who is always troubled by his inability to come up with a design that satisfies his clients. He always blames the clients for being too harsh. As Party B, he is always being made things difficult for Party A. However, in his mind, Party B is a vulnerable group, so he naturally becomes the weak one and cannot get Party A's tolerance. From another perspective, there has never been a specific standard for strength and weakness. These so-called "weak" people just find a cover for their own shortcomings, a reason that seems to be able to convince themselves and others. The article mentioned that when the designer was asked how long it had been since he had learned about the market and professional books, he was speechless. I think there are no real weak people in life. People with physical disabilities may be strong in spirit, and people with financial poverty may be strong in survival. As the saying goes, when God closes a door for you, he will also open a window for you. Why do you always want to label yourself a "weak" to seek tolerance and mercy from others? So "You are a weakling, so what's the big deal?" Many times, we may become discouraged due to setbacks and dissatisfaction, and feel that we are very unfortunate people. In fact, as long as you change your perspective and look at the problem, everything can be different. You have to believe: every setback in life has its meaning, cheer up and move forward bravely, maybe one day you will be surprised to see: everything is the best arrangement!