Lin Jingen's expert comments

1. Is marital happiness related to the age of husband and wife?

According to statistics, the sex ratio of babies born in China has risen to 1 17 to 120, which is higher than that of normal babies by 10. The result of this ratio will directly lead to "marriage squeeze", that is, some adult men will not find a woman who matches their age when choosing a spouse, thus expanding their choices to the next age level. Experts even predict that 15 years later, "the old man has fewer wives" will become a common phenomenon.

Expert comment: As a young wife, you should be able to appreciate the beauty of dusk.

Chu (Executive Director of china sexology association, Vice Chairman and Secretary General of Jiangsu Sexology Society): There are more and more old ladies now, for many reasons. On the one hand, it shows that people's living standards have improved, men have maintained good physical and psychological qualities, and there are almost no obstacles to living with young women. On the other hand, it is not excluded that many young women want to marry older men because of economic conditions.

There are many examples in which an old man and a young wife can live happily together. Lu Xun and Xu Guangping and Liang Shiqiu, who are 18 years younger than him, and Han Jingqing and Li Ao, who are nearly 30 years younger than him, are 29 years apart from his present wife "Xiaotun". Jin Yong, a martial arts novelist, also married his current wives Lin Leyi, Liang Jinsong and Fu Mingxia, who are 26 years younger than him. ...

They can live happily, because as a young wife, she can appreciate the beauty of her husband's dusk. On the other hand, older men tend to be more considerate and sympathetic to younger women.

Of course, there are many old ladies who feel happier at first, but after three to five years, when their husbands are getting older and unable to meet the needs of young wives, some young wives will show dissatisfaction and even have an affair. In the final analysis, it is the young wife's lack of love for her husband. If you love each other enough, you should be able to accept each other's gentle and touching sex life, and never force your elderly husband.

As the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." As a young wife, we should do three things: first, accept; Second, respect; Third, praise. By doing these three things, we can overcome the possible "generation gap" problem and live a happy life in mutual tolerance.