Is Lin Huiyin happy when she marries Liang Sicheng?
Anyone who knows the story of Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng should remember Liang Sicheng's classic question before marriage: Why me? And Lin Huiyin's answer is: I will answer you with my whole life. Lin Huiyin really fulfilled her original promise, followed Liang Sicheng through thick and thin all her life, gave birth to children, and did what a woman should do for her husband and family.
So did she have a happy life? I think she should be happy. She has found the person she loves and is looking for it. When I got to my beloved career, I also had my beloved family, and even more my beloved children. It was April, and all this love formed the background of her life. She spent her whole life in this kind of love.
Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng were already study partners when they met, and they helped each other in their studies until they fell in love and got married. At work, they are more like-minded, supporting and promoting each other in their careers, and finally achieving the glory in China's architectural history. Architecturally, they are a "perfect match" and a pair of "matchmakers" in China's architectural history, and they have also left a lot of valuable wealth for China's architectural history. As the founder of the Department of Architecture in Tsinghua University, his academic achievements are obvious to all. From this perspective, how many couples can achieve mutual achievements and promotion in their careers? From this point of view, Lin Huiyin is happy, because how many people can leave their good names in history, and she did, because her achievements are enough to go down in history.
Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng have given birth to a son and a daughter, and both children have achieved something, which is inseparable from their parents' education. Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng have also succeeded in educating their children, and they have not relaxed their education because they are celebrities. Lin Huiyin has also spent a lot of time on family education. The achievement and quality of life of children determine the happiness of parents in their later years. From this point of view, Lin Huiyin should also be happy.
The happiness of any individual is based on the external environment. It can be said that Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng just lived in an unfortunate era. In that war-torn era, no individual was spared from the cruelty of war. Therefore, judging from their hard living environment, their lives could not be said to be happy. In particular, the flight experience of the two couples who moved to Yunnan to avoid the war eventually aggravated Lin Huiyin's lung disease, and his life ended early, which is unfortunate for individuals, because for talented Chinese, too short a life actually means a huge loss.
It can be said that happy people are all similar, but unfortunate people have different experiences. As far as marrying Liang Sicheng is concerned, Lin Huiyin should still be happy. Although Lin Sicheng remarried soon after she left, this cannot be used as evidence that she was unhappy when she was alive. After all, it is not easy for everyone to live, as long as they cherish, love and achieve each other when they are together.