2. Discipline: Global Dating and Love
If he doesn't love you, he won't contact you again and again until he confides in you.
Don't be surprised if boys wait a week or two before calling you for the first time. He may be busy, or he may be dating another woman. He may have wanted to contact you for a long time, but he didn't know what to do. Don't forget, he had a life before he met you! Don't lose yourself! Just mind your own business (don't think about him 24 hours a day). Give him some space until he contacts you.
Give him more space and time to deal with things and feelings.
This will be smoother for the later period.
Remember, if you know he is seeing someone else, don't ask him out. If he asks you out, don't say yes at once.
4. Observe the precepts, and make an appointment for the next meeting when men meet on the spot. If he doesn't make an appointment on the spot, what should you do, make a good circle of friends and show your excellent self.
If he asks you out again, and he doesn't ask you out a week in advance, then you have to create some small difficulties for him and lengthen the time to meet again.
You can't make him so relaxed, you can't do whatever you want, you can't make him happy, and you don't like to eat when you are full.
It is this bit by bit that occupies the high position of love and saves the initiative!
It is this bit by bit that has become a luxury ornament in his heart and a challenge to him!
After the date, the man did not contact the woman, and it took two and a half weeks for the man to contact the woman.
During this period, the woman did not contact the man or ask him what he was doing. Have you eaten? I didn't make excuses to contact men. For example, I have something to ask you. What's the name of the restaurant you mentioned?
Women do their own things and take care of their circle of friends. She knows in her heart that if a man likes her, he will definitely contact her. If he doesn't contact, it is not only useless to contact him actively, but also counterproductive, causing men to bother themselves and dislike themselves even more.
It turns out that a man has just divorced and needs time to consider investing in another relationship.
Two and a half weeks later, the man contacted the woman. She is considerate, friendly and gentle, and does not force the other party to contact her early. What have you been doing these two and a half weeks?
Later, they fell in love for ten months and got married.
6. Discipline: Always hang up first.
7. Don't call a man unless you call him back occasionally.
8. If a man calls you, he can't not answer the phone for more than ten minutes. This will make you look busy and won't let you reveal too much about yourself or your plans (even if you don't have any plans at all).
9. Ending the conversation first will make men want to know more about you.
10. Answer the phone and be nice, even if you refuse him anything, even if you hang up.
I also want to make him happy and comfortable, have a better atmosphere, give him face, praise him, praise him.
1 1. Love is a game. What should a man be like?
Enemy! Opponents!
Don't treat men as girlfriends, be doctors.
Don't say anything, don't meet frequently, control the sense of distance, only let him see your personal side in front of him, always pretend to be forced, always be high and take the initiative to attack.
The human side is: positive, positive energy, you can refer to the advantages of Wei and the stars.
12. It is absolutely impossible for a man to pour out his heart, pour out his heart, talk too much and nag too much.
13. Don't expose yourself prematurely, or never expose yourself completely. Even if you are fragile, you are a modified and beautified self.
14. If he bravely confesses, you must grasp his emotions, appease him, encourage him, support him and let him know that you understand him.
15. Friendly, cheerful and lively.
16. If you hang up first, you don't have to worry about taking up too much of his time, boring him or exposing yourself to him too much.
Because if you like someone or fall in love, sometimes it is difficult to grasp how long the phone conversation has been. I suggest you put your watch next to it and strictly control it!
You should remain mysterious from beginning to end.
18. Only by observing the precepts can men get pleasure in love. If you want to make love more interesting and challenge yourself, he will be troubled by dreams.
The task of a woman in love is to turn herself into a luxury for a man, turn this boring love into an interesting challenge and let a man dream.
A man's task is to take the initiative and pay the bill!
19. The woman's phone is turned off, and the man can't find her. The man was very angry and asked where she had gone. There is nothing wrong with making a man angry, which means he cares about you. If he is not angry at all and indifferent to you, it means that he is ready to quit at any time.
You mean to make him angry, let him experience worry, scratching his heart, inexplicable anxiety, madness, and can't live without you. It doesn't matter, you can! But you should have enough reasons why you turned off your phone, why he couldn't find you, why he didn't think the wolf was coming, why he didn't think you were sincere, and why he didn't think you were cheating.
20. It's not easy to talk for a few minutes, but it definitely works.
2 1. You must not let him think that you are not busy and are not pursued by other men. Don't let him think that you like staying at home, even if you are a stay-at-home girl, don't let him leave such an impression. Men will regard the woman they pursue as a goddess. You should let him know that you live a full life and are an independent woman.
If he asks about you, you can reply to him later. If he asks you out, you can tell him that you have no time.
But you should let him know that you are really busy, not that you don't want to reply to his message, so don't deal with it when replying, and let him feel that you like him, value him and respect him.
He asked you out. You said you didn't have time that day. You should respect him, go and be interested in his proposal, but you really had a class that day!
23. Don't let him know that you are thinking of him, that you have nothing to do, that you will hang up after a few minutes, that you will lose your mystery, that you are in love, that you have the initiative, that you will not feed him too much and that he will not feel uncomfortable.
You should make him feel that you just have a hard time getting through the phone and making an appointment because you are busy, but it's not that you don't want to answer my phone and go out on a date with me. Besides, when you make a phone call and date, you make me feel that you are a spring breeze, and you are comfortable with you. You like me, worship me, respect me and value me.
When a woman meets a man who wants to marry, the biggest mistake is to regard him as the center of life.
25. Have your own life, work, hobbies, and a girlfriend who can fill your life after dating or even getting married. The most taboo thing about dating is that you just want to get happiness from each other. Don't call him whenever you get bored or want to get his attention. You should be happy and keep yourself busy. Every time he comes to see you, you'd better come and go in a hurry
26. Turn around yourself, not around him, be friendly. I really want to be around you, but I have other important things to do.
27. Discipline: Don't accept men's impromptu dates.
28. Men usually like to ask women out on the night or the next day. Worried that this may be the best opportunity of the week, women usually make an appointment with men to meet at the last minute. But such a date is against the precepts.
If a man really wants to marry you in the future, he will never wait until the last minute to ask you out. On the contrary, he will be considerate and worry that if he doesn't make an appointment with you five days in advance, he may have to wait a week to see you. If he really loves you, a week is like a lifetime for him!
29. Men sometimes don't know that they shouldn't call you on Thursday or Friday night and ask you out on Saturday night. Some women will accept their last-minute meeting, which is equivalent to spoiling them all. Tell them that you are an unprincipled person and belittle yourself.
He should ask you out at the end of the last date, or call you on Monday or Tuesday to arrange an appointment for Saturday night. Keep the commandments and you will become the most important person in his heart. The first thing he does when he gets up in the morning is to miss you. How can he wait until Thursday and Friday to call you?
3 1. Either make an appointment for the next appointment at the end of the appointment or make an appointment for the next appointment one week in advance. If he doesn't do this, you will prolong the next meeting so that he won't see you.
32. If a man doesn't call you earlier, he always asks you out on the same day or one or two days in advance, which shows that he doesn't like you that much.
33. You should refuse him to ask you out on Thursday night, which is also the best way to encourage men to call earlier. I hope he can understand your hint. This is not a game. You are a woman who keeps the commandments. You can't do anything until he calls on Thursday or Friday! You have your own friends and a lot of things to do!
34. Make an appointment for the weekend one or two days in advance, that is to say, if you don't notice you, tell him in a friendly way that you made an appointment with your friends for dinner and shopping at the weekend as early as Monday.
You should make him pay more attention to you, respect you, dare not despise you, think that you are a luxury ornament, occupy the high position of love bit by bit, and get back the initiative.
Wei Yingluo did the same thing. Even in front of him, he promised, and it seems that his relationship with the other party is much closer, but it is unreasonable. If he agrees, his position in the other person's heart will be lowered, then he will refuse him with a good attitude.
It was by grasping the small things in front of him that Wei Yingluo improved his position in the emperor's heart bit by bit and finally became a queen!
Ma Yili lost the initiative bit by bit by doing something wrong in front of him, fell in love with the high position, and was finally bullied by Wen.
The essence is that the purpose of my behavior, choice and language is to improve my position in his heart.
Don't do anything to lower his position in his heart, even a small detail.
We should not only focus on immediate interests, but also consider the long term.
If he doesn't call you on Wednesday night, you'll have to make other plans for the weekend. If he calls on Thursday night and casually asks, "Hey, honey, what are your plans for Saturday night?" You'd better refuse politely. The sweetest voice replied, "Oh, I'm sorry, I already have plans." Even if you want to go out with your best friend or a man you don't like so much, don't prompt him "but I'm free on Monday."
Men will definitely take the initiative to ask you out. Don't blame him for calling you so late. You must have a good attitude, but you must flatly refuse.
36. A man must ask you out without prompting!
But you can make him feel, you can hint at him, give him hope, and let him ask you out. This is attracting him.
You can't let him think that you really don't have time to refuse him, but you don't want to talk to him and don't like him at all because you don't have the excuse of time.
The important thing is the message you conveyed to him, that is, if you want to go out with me on Saturday night, you must call on Monday, Tuesday or Wednesday to make an appointment for Saturday night.
38. Commandments are not only concerned with immediate interests. Commandments are concerned with men's behavior, specifically, their behavior with your permission. When a man pursues you, his performance often needs to be consistent with that when he gets married.
39. If he only asks you out one or two days in advance, he will be careless about you in other ways. So I can't accept his impromptu date.
A man called you ten minutes ago and came to see you immediately. This kind of date looks beautiful, but since you are so busy and don't want him to get it easily, how can you meet him in less than ten minutes? If you really give in, this man will treat you as a woman who can catch you in ten minutes.
Be friendly when you refuse. Don't have negative thoughts: "This person only calls me when he wants to see me. It seems that he doesn't miss me very much. " Or shout at each other, "No, I'm busy now." Then hang up the phone with a bang. Maybe the other person doesn't think so at all. He may think you are different from other girls. You must give him a chance. Girls who keep precepts are by no means idle. So we suggest you say sweetly, "Oh, I'm afraid not. If only I were not so busy! " "Then hang up the phone with a sigh. He will soon realize that you just want him to ask you out early. Besides, men don't call at the last minute to hurt you. Don't feel offended, you just "train" them to call earlier, not complain and blame.
40. The natural meeting is not like this: "Hey, do you want to go to the movies this afternoon?" This kind of phone call may be because the other person is too boring, or the girl he really wants to pursue is too busy that day, so he will call you temporarily.
He didn't call you in advance, he didn't miss you for a week, and he didn't hug your shoulder excitedly while watching the movie. He doesn't take your reservation seriously, just like you need to make an appointment in advance to go to a very high-end restaurant.
It's good to let nature take its course, but it should happen on a date, such as driving to the beach after dinner.
4 1. If you want a long-term relationship, you must regard dating as a job and abide by all kinds of "rules and regulations".
42. If you don't obey the precepts, let him contact you at any time and ask you out at any time.
He contacted you only because he was lonely and bored, not because he was madly in love with you.
43. No matter what your mood is, you should work from nine to five, have your own circle and life, train men imperceptibly, and make plans with you in advance (because in men's eyes, you are unpredictable, busy at work and happy in life).
44. Observe the precepts. If you let him succeed too easily, he will certainly take advantage of it and bully you, and your high position in love and initiative will be unstable. Then don't expect a good marriage.
Because you are too easy to succeed, he will think that he has conquered you and lost interest in you. He thinks that you have no bottom line, no character and no attitude, so you will behave yourself and lower your position in his heart.
You must not let him get what he wants every time he wants to see you, so he may get bored with you. If your method is right, he will naturally come to the conclusion that if he wants to see you, the only way is to marry you!
46. Before marriage, he was with you, and he got everything he wanted. He is full and satisfied. He has conquered you, so the problem comes. Why did he marry you and go home?
What's the difference between marrying you home and not marrying you?
It's a world of difference to you, but what about him? There is nothing but shortcomings, because he has taken advantage of it.
If you don't give him what he wants, he will try to trap you, that is, marry you.
You make him love you, want to see you, can't conquer you, can't guess you, can't catch you, and he naturally wants to marry you.
47. Before a relationship begins, you just know a man, you can't get used to it, you can't say what he is, you can't hang up, you can't feed him, you have to teach him a lesson, you have to set rules and let him know your rules, principles and bottom line.
If you can't set the rules at first, it will be more difficult in the future, because you will suffer first and then satisfy, and then complain. If you can't make the rules, it means that your position in love is not high and you have no initiative. Without these two things, love is a dead end.
You can't be trapped in your own love, you can't enjoy it, you have to plan love, you have to attract him all the time, you have to check the results all the time, and you have to plan the next step all the time.
Try not to make any mistakes in details, just to improve his position in his heart.
48. Think before dating: dress matching, hair accessories, nails, makeup, perfume, exercise before dating, expression training before dating, eye training before dating, and mouth to mouth.
49. Don't mention marriage and husband in the process of getting along. You shouldn't let him think that you want to get married and let him be your husband unless he mentions it first.
50. Don't let men get you too soon. A man just likes a goddess, a girl that can't be reached, a girl that can't be reached, and a girl that hangs on him.
If you get it too quickly, your position in his heart will be lowered, and you won't get his respect and appreciation.
5 1. After the first date, you may easily say such a stupid thing: "I have two tickets for the concert." Yes, you can give him a little sweetness, but only after a period of contact. )
52. Never mention the word marriage on the first three dates, even if your cousin got married recently.
53. All you have to do on the first three dates is to be there, relax and pretend that you are just a friendly guest actor in the movie. Be kind and keep a happy mood. Laugh when he is joking, always smile, respect him, value him and treat him as a friend.
When your conversation is interrupted, don't feel obligated to fill in the blanks.
He has to do everything: pick you up, choose a restaurant, open the door and pull up a chair for you. You should act as if nothing has happened from beginning to end and think that these are normal things.
55. The first three dates must be over, especially when you like him. After two hours, you can look at your watch (drinking date), or after three or four hours (eating date), you can sigh and say, "Well, this will be good, but I'm busy tomorrow." As for what you are going to do, you don't have to tell him. That's not important, and it's none of his business.
56. If you are really interested in him, want to marry him and are happy together, it will certainly not be so easy to end the date first. However, you have to do this, because this kind of playing hard to get is very useful.
At the end of the date, if he wants to get to know you better, he can call you the next day or ask you out when he takes you home.
At the beginning, men hope to see you often, even every day, but if you really rely on them, you don't know how to refuse, create difficulties for them, make yourself a challenge, make love look forward to, miss, dream and care.
They will soon get tired of you. Only by observing the precepts will they continue to be infatuated with you.
It must be very troublesome to make men infatuated with you, and it takes means.
59. Take the initiative to end the appointment, and don't take the initiative to extend the appointment time.
If we have a good chat, he said, let's go to the movies later. You can promise to go straight home after the movie!
60. Don't turn someone who could have a future into a one-night stand. Your purpose is to win his heart and walk into his heart, not to touch him too quickly and spoil him according to him.
The emperor in Princess Zhu Huan said to Wei Zi, You are like a book, a book that makes me feel precious. If you look directly at the last page, you are afraid of missing the wonderful content in the middle. You must make men afraid of you.
If a man likes you, he will be patient. If he has no patience, you can cultivate his patience. If he is more patient, he will like you more. Maybe he will be unwilling to get nothing from the emperor, so he will get deeper and deeper.
At first, the emperor wanted to have a one-night stand with Wei, but she refused. Finally, the emperor made Wei the queen.
6 1. In love, a woman should attract a man and let him take the initiative. In the process of his attack, the church of the church should slow down and tell him with actions that I am a luxury ornament, which is not easy to get!
62. Don't get in his car on the first date.
63. For the first three dates, don't be curious about him, just stay where you are and don't advance the relationship.
If he advances the relationship and is curious about you, you should answer him. If he asks you to come home late, you should refuse.
64. On the fourth date, you can show your true side a little and talk about your feelings, as long as you don't go too far and don't try to play the role of a psychiatrist or a mother. Just show your enthusiasm, charm and love.
65. The first three dates should feel like water. But be kind, make him comfortable, don't deny him, don't dislike him.
66. Don't talk about the future, marriage and children. These topics should be raised by them.
He loves you because what you say and do makes him fall in love with you.
Everything you say and do is to improve your position in his heart and become a luxury ornament in his heart.
You have always been a luxury ornament in his heart, and he will always love you. In other words, it is you who decide whether a man loves you or not, not the man himself.
You charm him, and he is naturally attracted to you.
If you stop being attractive, he will naturally not be attracted to you.
You take the initiative, you stick it backwards, and he will naturally do the opposite.
Don't ask him about his past love history. It's none of your business.
Don't say "we need to talk" in a serious tone, it may scare him away.
70. Don't hit him with career achievements. Try to make him glow and display his talents.
7 1. Don't talk in front of him! Say anything!
72. Dating atmosphere, relaxed and happy, keep smiling, discuss interesting and relaxed topics, don't be curious about him, don't ask questions, let him show, you encourage him, worship him, but don't give too much, the purpose is to entertain him, not to curry favor with him.
Let him talk about the topic he wants to discuss, and you should show that you understand him.
73. What can't I say? How to judge?
If it's harmful to the relationship, you can't say it!
The overall situation is supreme!
74. Don't say my best friend, my so-and-so, that you are not good and speak ill of you, which will affect the harmony of the relationship and his image in your heart.
As long as you know it yourself, you should make him feel that he is perfect in your heart.
75. Men are so cheap. You have to tell him by actions that you are hard to get, that you are noble, that you have to complicate simple things, that you have to raise prices for yourself, and that you have to be mysterious.
Otherwise, no matter how good a woman is, he doesn't cherish it. He also thinks it's bad meat, but in fact, many good women, really, don't think so much, such as Ma Yili.
76. In the process of winning men's hearts, women have to set traps for men one after another, and men are also happy to play this game. Men like challenges and hunting best.
77. Men will always remember their first impressions a few months before their date.
78. Don't close the distance too quickly, don't say everything at once, and you can express yourself appropriately.
For the first three dates, don't narrow the distance yourself.
79. Don't tell him anything that you may regret.
80. If the other person's question is too personal, you'd better smile and say, "Oh, I think it's better not to talk about this topic now."
8 1. If he asks how long you will stay in your present apartment, you can say that you intend to renew the lease. There are some things you can't say. For example, you can't say that you want to live in a bigger apartment with him when the rent is due. Even if this is what you really think, don't say so. Doing so will only make the other party escape from the nearest exit.
Be independent and let the other person know that you are not a person who takes advantage of others, and you are not his burden, so that others will take the initiative to pay.
You should always attract him and let him attack you. You should always grasp what to accept and what not to accept, when to slow down the progress, when to create some difficulties for him, when to praise him and give some encouragement and recognition.
He is close to you, but he doesn't accept what he shouldn't, and he is not used to it. If he is far away from you, you are farther away than him.
83. Discipline: If he doesn't buy you a birthday or Valentine's Day gift, don't date him again.
84. Commandments tell you that if you don't receive jewelry or other romantic gifts on your birthday or other important occasions, you can stop this love, because he doesn't love you, and you will never get the most important gift-the wedding ring.
85. When a man is in love, he will give up his love even if he is short of money. Those men who love you will send flowers, jewelry, write poems for you, or accompany you to travel to the countryside on weekends. And those men who like you and care about you (referring to "girlfriends" boyfriends) will send sportswear, books, briefcases and ovens, which are all practical gifts anyway, but they don't really want to marry you.
86. Men give women sportswear on Valentine's Day. Although it is expensive, it has nothing to do with romance. The woman didn't feel anything wrong and finally broke up.
If a man loves you, he will give you romantic gifts, gifts that can bring the relationship closer, and gifts that can make the relationship sweet.
87. As long as men are willing to spend time, this gift is priceless.
88. It depends on whether he writes the word "love". Men sometimes just give you a card. If he doesn't leave the words "love you", don't expect him to really love you.
89. Whether it is a birthday, Valentine's Day or an anniversary, a romantic gift is essential. Men who are crazy about you will often give you all kinds of gifts. He will always think of you in his heart.
Patty once said that she was interested in cycling, so her boyfriend Mike bought her a beautiful helmet. If he doesn't love her, he may give her this gift on her birthday, but if he really loves her, he will give her a necklace and flowers on her birthday and a helmet on the anniversary of their six-month acquaintance.
9 1. When you receive a gift, whatever it is, don't overreact.
Generally speaking, if a man falls in love with you, he will spare no effort to give you something, no matter what. This is a commandment.
93. When a man doesn't love you, he will never pay attention to you. Even if he pays attention to you, that's your weakness.
When a man loves you, he doesn't think your shortcomings are shortcomings.
94. At the beginning of your acquaintance, see what gift he gave you and whether he loves you or not.
95. Discipline: Don't meet more than twice a week.
96. Women can't invest faster and more than men.
97. Men fall in love faster than women. They also go out faster than women.
98. In the early days of love, they hope to see you three or four times a week, and some even hope to see you every day. If you really have no choice, go to see them every time. In the end, they will lose patience, lose their temper easily and never call you again. Sometimes they will act moody and maybe say, "Well, I don't know what's wrong. Recently, I have a lot of things here. "
99. If a man wants to pay attention to himself and respect himself, he must control the chat time, the number of chats, the number of meetings, the meeting time and the interval. Don't take the initiative to accept it every time.
If you don't do this, he will get bored and won't regard you as a luxury ornament. Finally, when you took the initiative, he ignored you.
100. You should end the chat before he wants to end it, and end the appointment before he wants to end it.
When he wants to ignore you, ignore him in advance.
You have to be one step ahead of him before he thinks he has made a profit.