After 13 years of love, why did Chen He choose Zhang Zixuan?

Chen He’s wife Zhang Zixuan became a hot topic when she was pregnant with her second child. Ever since they got together, they have been showing off their affection. And as time went by, he forgot that he also had an ex-wife named Xu Jing, who was his first love.

They have known each other since junior high school and have been in love. Their relationship over the past 10 years has not been easy.

The two got married in 2013, and in the second year Chen He became popular with "Love Apartment". Logically speaking, the couple had already survived the most difficult days, and Chen He ushered in a breakthrough in his career. Orgasm, the couple's life will get better and better.

But who would have thought? In January 2015, it was reported that Chen He was suspected of betraying his marriage and kissed Zhang Zixuan passionately.

This marriage ended hastily because Chen He responded to confirm.

We often say that what a man cares about most is his first love. So, Xu Jing and Chen He have known each other since junior high school. They have been together for so many years, and their relationship should be very deep. Even if there are some problems in the relationship, the two It's hard to separate personally.

Why did Chen Hecai and his wife fall in love with someone else after two years of marriage, and then bravely stand up and admit that he had a different relationship?

Some people say that men eat from the bowl and look at the pot.

There are also psychologists who have proven that a man will not like someone for more than 36 months. In other words, lovers who are still together after this time are not because of the man’s love for the woman, but because the man can’t live without her. Open this woman.

Or maybe this man didn’t meet the next woman that made him attracted, so he didn’t fall in love with her.

But no matter what the reason is, a relationship that lasted for 13 years and eventually broke up cannot escape these three points. 1. You get tired after being together for a long time

The longer two people stay together, the smaller the chance of having a heartbeat, or even never happen at all.

Whether two people meet not long ago or reunite after a long separation, it is difficult to find the feeling of being in love.

Being bored is something that happens to couples all the time, especially those who have fallen in love. They often feel like they want to avoid meeting each other, especially when they feel tired of being together.

It’s just that men and women are out of sync when this happens.

Sometimes when a man is tired of it, he will find an excuse to separate. Sometimes he is even willing to play games all afternoon instead of going shopping with his girlfriend. He just tells her that he has important things to be busy with. 2. They have moved on and are no longer in love

Chen He and Xu Jing divorced. It was obviously Chen He who moved on and moved on. They got married in 2013, and in 2015 Chen He and Zhang Zixuan starred in "Medical Clinic" "The Legend of Laughter" was broadcast, we don't know when the romance between them started. But before this and before, the two people must have known each other.

No matter when Chen He and Zhang Zixuan began to fall in love, the harm to Xu Jing was definitely inevitable.

A man whom she has loved for 13 years now abandons her to be with another woman after marrying her.

No matter what, it will be sad. 3. Don’t know how to win each other’s love in marriage

The longer a couple stays together, the easier it is for them to neglect managing the marriage. Because when they are passionately in love, they try their best to please each other. Therefore, after getting married, two people think that their relationship is stable and they are not willing to please each other or win each other's love.

Some people even think that once you get married, you will be together forever.

Getting a marriage certificate is more like signing a lifelong agreement and finding a way to bind the other party.

It is because of this mentality that each other ignores each other in marriage, does not care about each other's preferences, and is not even willing to say what the other person likes to hear. The closer the man and woman are in the marriage, the longer they experience bondage. , but I want to be myself under this constraint.

The more I want to be myself, the more I want to escape irresponsibly. The more you avoid it, the more you ignore the other person’s preferences.

The above three points are the important reasons why most couples get divorced. We always think that holding hands will last a lifetime.

They say it is easy to fall in love but difficult to stay together.

If you want to keep this lifelong relationship, both people need to make a lot of efforts, and it cannot be accomplished by one person.