The 78-year-old horse girl had several marriages, and the 78-year-old horse girl was a big disaster in her life.
When Xinfen was sixteen, while others were still students at school, she went to the neighboring village to brush yards (fall in love) and hung out with Zou Xiang, who was three years older than her, all night. The smell of them was left in the haystack, on the ridge and in the cave. Soon, Xinfen vomited badly and was seen by her mother. Asked in the past, Sinn Fein had to admit that she was pregnant. I slapped my daughter's palm and called her husband Hu Jun, who was working in other provinces, to hurry home and have something to do.
Hu Jun is a double-female household. She felt the meaning of her wife's "something to do" in her heart, and she knew that her daughter might have been very angry and had to rush home. When she asked her wife, she knew that she had guessed correctly and wanted to give her a good beating. She advised, "If a man is married and a woman is married, she can't study, so it's not strange that we don't provide for her. Now that raw rice is cooked, it's too late to beat her and scold her. Hurry up and arrange her marriage! " What can Hu Jun say at this time? He has to obey his wife.
Get my daughter and say seriously, "Go and get him, and I'll see who can match my lovely girl. If it's pleasing to the eye, I'll get married for you; Don't call me heartless if I have strange eyebrows and eyes. Now this situation is much more, and it is a big deal to have an abortion. "
how dare my daughter go to Zou Xiang against her parents' wishes and say that her mother wants to see him? Zou Xiangben is a sloppy person. Xin Fen helped Zou Xiang comb his unkempt hair for fear that his parents would be unhappy. Zou Xiang's mother also took out a suit that her son was only allowed to wear on every New Year's Day, and asked Zou Xiang to put it on. After some cleaning, Zou Xiang looked a little energetic. She borrowed a battery car from her cousin's house and wore Xinfen to see the future.
When I first met my prospective son-in-law, she seemed to be a handsome man with a suit and tie, and probably had a good family. After the conversation, I was relieved and nodded to Hu Jun, who was stealing observation upstairs, expressing my satisfaction. Hu Jun came downstairs and handed Zou Xiang a cigarette. Zou Xiang was originally a cigarette. He took the cigarette, took out his mobile phone from his pocket, snapped it, lit the cigarette, and the smoke came out of his nostrils, showing incisively and vividly his natural and unrestrained demeanor. Hu Jun and his wife are happy to cook, and they want to keep their son-in-law for a meal.
During the dinner, I solemnly told Zou Xiang, "They are all rural people, so we should follow the rural customs. One ceremony at a time, one step at a time. You go back and tell your parents that you must get things done this year, and you can't put it off, or I'll let Xinfen have an abortion. " Zou Xiang didn't dare to say "no" and agreed to the terms.
Zou Xiang's family is an ordinary economic family, and it is his responsibility to find out his daughter-in-law. He has already prepared more than half of his son's marriage. Zou listened to his son's words, found a festival, invited a matchmaker and came to Xinfen's house.
The first time a man takes a matchmaker into a woman's house, it's called carrying a basket, five catties of meat, three handfuls of flour and four catties of sugar, all of which are indispensable. The woman served tea and rice, and after dinner, the two families became in-laws. And menstruation, the mayor of Zou's menstruation, shouted very affectionately, which made Sinn Fein feel a little warm, but he regretted his reckless behavior.
Seeing that Xinfen's belly is getting bigger every day, he urged Zou Xiangjia to make a second ceremony, that is, "sending eight characters". In fact, how can young people believe this nowadays? The two people hit it off as "eight characters", whether they belong to a horse or a sheep, whether it is a hot day or a rainy day, they will get married when they get along. But to save face, you have to do it one by one. Zou Xiang also agreed, bought candy, fruit cakes, tea, tobacco and alcohol, and a set of clothes for her parents-in-law and Xin Fen, followed the matchmaker and rushed to Hu Jun's house. This time, the woman's family invited some relatives to witness that their love affair has been successful and they are ready to get married.
The second ceremony is nothing and doesn't cost much, but the third ceremony, which is also the last wedding ceremony, is the most popular moment in the man's family. In the evening, and Hu Jun * * * on a pillow, whispering, to discuss the bride price.
Tao: "You and I are thirty-four years old this year, and we spent a lot of energy and money raising these two daughters. Now we have raised them, but they have become other people's families. It's really hard to remember. In my opinion, this bride price should be called 1 thousand more to make up for your hard work. "
Hu Jun said, "It's too much. It's hard for a girl to go to someone else and pay her debts for life. Parents can't let go!"
Hearing this, he was so angry that he poked his husband with his finger and scolded him, "You silly sow, they are only in their teens, and the days are extremely long. Young people have plenty of energy, and it is easy to find money. Can you still do it after a few more years? " Hearing this, Hu Jun felt that what his wife said was reasonable, so she kept silent.
The three ceremonies are called "send-off days", that is, when the man's family decides to get married. On this day, the number of bride price is decided by both sides. Write a pen to the Zou family: 1, cars, 5, furniture, 3, gold, 2, bedding, 3, household appliances, and 8, drinks. In fact, this is the hard cost of raising, totaling 3,. Zou Jia said that after a long time, he just gave up 2 thousand, and if he wants to be close, he will get 28 thousand. No matter whether the Zou family borrows or lends, it must be paid off today. 28,, this figure is neither too much nor too little, and the middle number is given by Zou Xiang's parents.
when the money is available, the couple start to buy the promised things. I bought 8, cars for 1, cars, and the rest were reduced to several thousand. It is appropriate to raise a girl for 16 years, so I think so.
After being married for less than two months, Xinfen sat in confinement and gave birth to a boy, which made the Zou family very happy. Father Zou is forty-five, and with young people, he goes to other places to work to subsidize his family. Zou Xiang is at home, doing odd jobs when he is happy, sleeping on the sofa and playing games with his mobile phone when he is unhappy. The agriculture in the family was completed by Zou.
After the full moon, Xinfen learned mahjong and rubbed it with three people about the same age all day long. After a long time, several men got involved and gradually got acquainted. Xinfen's children didn't want to bring it, so they left it to Zou Xiang and immersed themselves in the mahjong world.
In a blink of an eye, Xin Fen and Zou Xiang's children are six years old and will be in the first grade. There is no school at home, so they will inevitably be sent to the primary school in the town center. The family has less income, and the contradiction is becoming increasingly prominent. Sometimes, the young couple fight over it. Xinfen goes to the mahjong room and simply doesn't go home to continue his mahjong career.
One day, a middle-aged gambler came to the mahjong room. It seemed that he was a city man, and his luck was very good. He quickly won all the money of others such as Xinfen. Middle-aged people saw that Xin Fen had no money and didn't go home, so they took the initiative to come forward and chat with Xin Fen. From the chat, Xinfen learned that the middle-aged gambler has a job in the city, and he is a public institution. He is divorced and has no children around him. Sinn Fein, a middle-aged man, kept her eyes open. Middle-aged people knew what she meant. After chatting in the middle of the night, it was not bright. Sinn Fein promised to drive to the city with the middle-aged people. Since then, she has never returned to Zou Xiang's village.
The rooms in the city are really beautiful, clean and neat, with bathrooms, bedrooms and rooms, which are much more advanced than those in the countryside. Sinn Fein saw that the middle-aged man was in good condition, and he had a plan in his heart. After drinking a cup of drink handed over by the middle-aged man, he reluctantly fell into the arms of the middle-aged man that night.
Zou Xiangzhi knew that Xinfen wouldn't go home, and went to Hu Jun and the important people. He was furious and scolded, "What a great living person! I can't get it anymore, but you're bothering me?" The words did not fall, and a slap in the face slammed away, making Zou Xiang groggy and tearful; Want to fight back, think of the mother who once shouted, and hold back. Hu Jun also scolded: "You can't afford a wife if you are lazy, and you have the face to live in this world. In the future, come home and have a temper, and the big kitchen knife won't kill you. " Zou Xiang was helpless and walked away.
In fact, after xinfen changed her mind, she quietly told her about herself, but she didn't tell her about living with middle-aged people, and made up her own house to work in the city.
after a year, xinfen felt that it was inappropriate to live in such a secretive way, and told the middle-aged people, "Ma Bao, things have come to this point. If I don't get divorced, I will be in a bad mood, and you won't be with me for long." Ma Baodao: "What I said is that you still want to get a divorce, and then I will marry you legally and have a birthright."
xinfen came home and told her parents the truth. At first, I heard that my daughter had found a middle-aged man, and I was very angry. Later, I heard that Ma kept a job and was a city dweller. My mood gradually became Shu Lang, so I promised my daughter to get a divorce.
At this time, Zou's family is desperate for such a woman, and they are eager to leave and find another one. The two families negotiated that Zou Xiang should have the child, and Xin Fen would give the child a monthly living allowance of 5 yuan until he reached the age of 18. Xinfen agreed, and the two of them went to the door for divorce.
After the divorce, we started to plan our daughter's marriage again, and we had to come one by one. Ma Bao completely agreed to the demands of Xinfen's family and spent 3, yuan to welcome Xinfen into the family. The couple got more than 1 thousand yuan and lived a happy life happily. On the day of returning to the media, Ma Bao and Xin Fen, one year old of Dahujun, came to visit their parents. Xinfen must ask Ma Bao to call his parents. Ma Bao was stunned for half an hour before the word "mom and dad" came out of his mouth, and he replaced the reply with laughter. At this point, Sinn Fein turned 23.
A year later, Xinfen gave birth to a girl, and Ma Bao regarded her as the apple of her eye. She bought delicious and fun things every day to coax her daughter, and also brought her from Shaoyang to take care of the children with Xinfen.
I took a son-in-law to my second daughter. The son-in-law is from Sichuan. He has only been in Sichuan for a year, and he has quietly taken his daughter-in-law out to the yellow crane never revisited earth. Feel lost, feel very miserable, and often cry secretly. Being sad, Xinfen went home alone. When she saw her old parents, she cried and almost fainted. Asked what happened, Sinn Fein told the story off and on.
She sobbed and said, "Ma Bao, a skull-cutter, worked in a public institution and paid millions of dollars. Now things are exposed and he has lost his job. It will be seven or eight years. I can't live any longer. Woo, woo, woo! " Hearing this, it was like a bolt from the blue, my head wobbled and I sat down on the sofa. Wake up and comfort her daughter, saying, "Life's eight-character destiny comes into being, and it's never decided by fate. It is destiny takes a hand to marry several people, son, don't worry, wait for me to find one for you slowly and live in peace! " Sinn Fein nodded his head.
Hu Jun explained the reason to Ma Bao through acquaintances, and divorced her daughter. Because she had a daughter, Ma Bao took care of her, and Xin Fen didn't bother the old man and let her live with her daughter.
in this way, xinfen went back to her hometown, doing nothing, and went to the village mahjong room to hang out. Inadvertently, a mainlander who installed doors and windows walked into her eyes and deliberately approached. Through chatting, Xin Fen learned that he was from Heilongjiang, named Bo Yang, and wanted to find a woman to settle down here, which met the requirements of Hu Jun. In the long run, the two men had the same topic, and Sinn Fein took Bo Yang into his home, served tea and poured water, and was attentive, winning Bo Yang's joy. Xinfen asked, "I want to find someone to settle down. What do you think of me?" Bo Yang saw that Xin Fen was under 3 years old, beautiful and charming, and quickly nodded and replied, "It's beautiful!" At this point, the two made eyes at each other and made eyes at each other, and soon they got married.
This time it's a husband-in-law. Only those who took it out have not come in. Instead, I have to make arrangements for my daughter's room. Fortunately, Ma Bao still has money, so I don't have any worries. Some of the things left by the second daughter can be used, and they are ready-made when they are moved. When ready, I went to pick up three relatives and six relatives, and relatives and friends came to eat wine. We had to come to congratulate each other because of our unkindness. Some relatives praised: "It's not easy, I have done four things in a few years, amazing!" A distant relative said softly, "It's really amazing." Who knows whether he is praising or sarcasm?
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