50-year-old male, 4 1 year-old female, broke up after half a year. The man cried: I was tired at night.

Clue:

Nowadays, people live independently, and they are self-reliant when they go out. When they live alone, they often feel lonely. However, these lonely people without partners are not in a hurry to get married, especially those who have divorced or experienced marriage. They may get hurt in marriage, or feel the pain caused by marriage.

Some people would rather live together than remarry. what do you think? A 50-year-old uncle said that he was in love with a 4 1 year-old aunt. He thought he could live happily, but he broke up after only half a year. Asked why, my uncle said that my aunt had worked hard all night, so she filed for divorce. What happened to this uncle? We continue to look down.

Narrator: Uncle Zhang, 50 years old.

My surname is Zhang. I am 50 years old this year. I divorced my ex-wife when I was 38. I have been single until now, until I met Ms. Huang, and I plan to go on with him all my life. I didn't expect to break up with her for only six months.

When I was young, I worked as a temporary worker everywhere. After the divorce, all the children live with my ex-wife, and I don't want to remarry. A person is full, and the whole family is not hungry. Working as a temporary worker can completely solve my food and clothing problem. Later, when I was old, I didn't want to run around. I just wanted to live quietly, so I worked as a security guard in the community through a friend's introduction. Close to home, convenient, easy to work, no pressure in life. I just want to live a good life now.

The community has owners. This is Xiao Huang. I heard that she is a divorced single woman. I often watch her go in and out alone. She is also a consumer. She often buys online and sometimes sends it to the doorman. Her express delivery piled up like a mountain. I take it from the doorman after work every day. Sometimes I help deliver it to her house when I'm on duty.

She is a very happy woman. Sometimes she often greets me when she passes by the doorman, and sometimes she throws some fruits bought at the doorman and gives them to the doorman on duty. On one occasion, she ran to the doorman for help in a panic. It turned out that the faucet at home was leaking, and she thought it could be repaired. I didn't expect it to get worse and worse, and the water leakage was getting bigger and bigger. She wants me to go home and help.

I followed Ms. Huang to his house to help her fix the water pipe. In order to thank me, he invited me to dinner, but I refused, but he insisted on thanking me and told me not to be polite to him, so we had 1 positive contact.

Later, Ms. Huang met some difficulties in life and always went to the gatehouse to ask me for help, and I was happy to help her. After all, it is normal for her to encounter difficulties in living alone at home, and I should also solve problems for my host. It can be seen that Ms. Huang is a very grateful woman. Sometimes she will invite me to dinner and send her own cooking from home to the gatehouse. Ms. Huang is only 4 1 year old, and I am 50 years old.

I have never had wild thoughts about Ms. Huang, but once she invited me to be a guest at home. I didn't know it was her birthday until I went there, and I wanted to spend it with her. They had a few more drinks at the dinner table. Suddenly, Xiao Huang confessed to me that she liked me for a long time and hoped that we could be together. I'm just a security guard in the gatehouse, but Ms. Huang is so excellent that I don't deserve her at all.

On second thought, a person is too lonely. Now someone wants to live with me. Although a little tempted, I still promised to be with her. We talked and drank a lot that night and didn't leave Ms. Huang's house until 1 1.

After we confirmed our relationship, I wanted to give Ms. Huang a home, so I proposed to find a good day to get a marriage certificate, but Ms. Huang said that she didn't want to get a marriage certificate now, just wanted to live with me, for fear that it would be too much trouble to get along with.

It doesn't matter whether I get the license or not. As long as two people really get along, they can grow old together. After that, I asked Ms. Huang to move in with me. Since she moved in, the house has smelled of fireworks. She cooks three meals a day for me in different ways. My whole mental outlook is different in her hometown. Colleagues at work all know that we are together, and they all cast envious eyes and say, I am lucky to find someone ten years younger than myself.

At this time, I am very proud every day. I think I have the ability to attract Xiao Huang and make her my wife. Before that, I never thought about remarriage. Until I met Ms. Huang, she gave me hope for the future. I thought I could be very happy with her in the future. I didn't expect to be married for more than a month and found that there were many problems between us. She is too young and demanding. After all, I was 50 years old at that time, and everything was about life.

But she is only 4 1 year-old and wants to live with me almost every night. Is that why she lives with me? I sometimes wonder if she really loves me. I was able to satisfy her at first, but after a long time, I couldn't stand such a toss. I'm afraid to sleep with her every night.

I am old now, and I have a light sleep. I slept until midnight, and the whole person was very decadent. In the third month of living with her, I suffered from severe insomnia. Every night, she sleeps beside me, and I look at the ceiling with my eyes open, tossing and turning, unable to sleep.

In order to show my health, I never dared to show my embarrassment in front of her, and even went to the hospital secretly, hoping that the doctor would prescribe some medicine for me. The doctor can see the reason for my weakness at a glance. She told me to pay attention to the moderation of husband and wife's life and not to spend too much. After all, some things can't be forced when you are old.

The more doctors say that, the more I worry about my health. I'm afraid that in the long run, my body will be dragged down by Xiao Huang. After all, we are separated by teenagers. If I do this, I'm afraid my body will be hollowed out in a few years.

After thinking about it, I still have to think of a quick solution to the problem, so I pretend not to be sleepy every night, stay in the living room and watch TV, and wait until Xiao Huang falls asleep in the room before sneaking into the bedroom.

At first, it didn't arouse Xiao Huang's vigilance, but after a long time, Xiao Huang seemed to notice it, and asked me why I didn't go to bed early, but watched TV in the living room in the middle of the night. I think these things once a month is enough, but not enough for Huang Xiao. She wants to be together every night, and I'm scared. Can I stay with her for a long time?

The more I resist, the more I leave Huang Yuan, and Xiao Huang will find various reasons for me to be with her. When I read slowly, I feel scared. Although Xiao Huang takes care of me in daily life, all this is still very important to my health. I don't know if she really loves me or just wants to do those things with me.

I really want to restore my previous single life and let myself be free and unconstrained. But now I find a trouble to live with a woman of 4 1 year old, but I am very unhappy and scared every day. How can this life continue? I know that drugs can't solve the fundamental problem. The fundamental problem lies with Ms. Wang.

I'm still working as a security guard, and I feel groggy at work every day. My colleague asked me if there was anything wrong with my health. I dare not say that it was tossed by my wife. After all, in the eyes of outsiders, my old cow eats young grass and should be a happy life.

The feeling of wanting to sleep but not being able to sleep is really tormenting. I don't know if you have had such an experience. I can't sleep with my eyes open all night from two or three in the morning to dawn. The next day, my mind was groggy and I had a headache. I was with Huang Xiao for about two months.

I feel that I can't be so depressed to change the status quo. I can't control my emotions. Sometimes I feel depressed and want to cry.

After living with Huang Xiao for half a year, I feel like an old man in his sixties. I used to be energetic at work, so I could check my safety and so on. But now I feel sleepy as soon as I go to work, but I can't sleep at all after work.

In desperation, I broke up with Huang Xiao, and I couldn't continue to be with her. I broke up with Huang Xiao. I can't be bothered by her like this. Since I can't meet her requirements, it means that the two of us are not suitable at all, and there are some things that don't have to be forced. Then I'd rather be single all my life than continue living with her. It's really painful. I'm happy at first when I'm tired every night.

Conclusion:

In fact, it is difficult for most men to understand what it feels like for an old cow to eat young grass. Only those who have experienced it can tell the ups and downs. As the uncle said, he was very happy and proud at first. I thought it was a very happy thing, but I didn't expect to find that two people were somewhat different after living together.

If the life between husband and wife can't live in harmony, the two people will have differences because of various contradictions in the future. This matter is not big or small, but it will affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Whether middle-aged couples or elderly couples, when faced with problems, the first time is not to choose to escape, but to face the problems correctly. When we face problems correctly, all problems are not problems.